Hot Air Ballooning! (June 25th, 2015’s Something New) – Part 4 (Things I Learned)

June 30, 2015

Aurora De Lucia from high up in hot air balloonPicking up from last time

One thing I didn’t know about hot air ballooning is that you can skydive from one!

I’ve never been skydiving, but I’ve heard it’s a stressful experience – that it’s loud and the plane feels rickety and fast and that it’s just kind of stressful. And I’m sure there’s something exciting to that – getting your adrenaline pumping the whole time.

But I also think it might be so cool and fun (and a great dichotomy) to have this nice super peaceful ride up, just to jump out of a basket.

For our ride, we went up about 3,000 feet. But hot air balloons can go much higher. I think our pilot was talking about 14,000 feet (for skydiving purposes)! There is a threshold where the balloon is only allowed to go so high if there’s oxygen for all passengers on board. So, hot air balloons have lots of possibility.

Aurora with the Happy Birthday sign hot air ballooningAnother thing I learned, not on the actual day, but by watching a video from another Sunrise Balloons ride (the company we went with), is that proposing to someone on a hot air balloon is a terrible idea (in my opinion – unless you want your proposal to be hilarious)!

Because the basket is split up into compartments, the guy didn’t even have enough room to get down on one knee. He was awkwardly trying to position his body. I felt so bad for him. So he gave up on that and gave his little speech. He’s doing the whole ramp up of “all this time with you has been amazing, etc.” and when he gets to the actual, “Will you marry me?” WHOOSH! You hear the loud sound the burner makes when the balloon has to adjust.

It just seemed so awkward and sad but soooo funny. I couldn’t tell if the girl was in shock or was more just like “who thought this would be a good idea?” But she definitely wasn’t coming off as all that into it… Though she eventually said yes (even though it seemed reluctant). Of course, I don’t know the ins and outs of their relationship. There’s way more involved in the decision to get married than the balloon ride. But I would so not recommend it, ’cause in practice, it seems to be way less romantic than one might imagine!

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

Hot Air Ballooning! (June 25th, 2015’s Something New) – Part 3 (The Ride Begins!)

June 29, 2015

fire going up into a hot air ballonPicking up from last time

Everyone goes over there and we all start climbing in the balloon. The hot air balloon is divided into 5 compartments. There’s the big one in the middle for the pilot and then two on each side of him. They put up to three people in a compartment, so get prepared to get a little cozy (though we all still had space – it was all good).

We climb into the balloon using little footholds. I don’t know what I expected, a door or something? But nope. There was climbing. (I love climbing. So it was fine by me!)

As we all were standing there, a couple of people were getting a little nervous. (There was a woman on our balloon facing a fear of heights.)

Aurora climbing into the hot air balloon
Climbing in! 🙂

Heck, even I got a tiny bit nervous for a moment. We’re all just standing there in a basket getting ready to go up in the sky! I had that kind of hold-my-breath feeling like I was ready to take off on an amusement park ride or something.

It wasn’t anything like that. We floated up off the ground so very, very slowly. Our pilot tried to keep our speeds to just a few miles an hour and below. He was saying 7 miles an hour would be quit fast for a hot air balloon. So, the point is it’s slooooow.

It’s beautiful, and fun, and cool and awesome. And super slow.

So then we just kind of float around and up and down for, I think, over an hour.

Aurora holding on out of the hot air balloonThe pilot cracks some jokes and talks to us about flying. (Did you know hot air balloon pilots get licensed through the FAA? It makes sense hearing it now, but it was just something I didn’t really think about.)

My understanding of how the balloon works is that hot air weighs less than cooler air. So, he pilot fires up the propane burners when it’s time to rise. He can also pull a little flap thing to let some of the hot air out if he needs to go down more.

He was telling us how you can’t totally steer the balloon. You can try to understand the direction of the wind at different elevations and use your height to help you get blown to where you need to go… But you don’t really steer.

In fact, when we landed, he threw ropes down to crew members who pulled us along until we were in an open area to land.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 37 (And My Diet Was The Worst)

June 28, 2015

Picking up from last time –

Now let’s talk about the food I ate – the terrible way in which I tortured my body.

For the first few days I continued to count my calories – just eating mainly foods that are not my main staples… and staying away from everything that was.

Did you know that in some of my vegan microwavable meals, there are 11 grams of protein for only 300 or so calories?! That seemed like too many for what I was going for. So those were out.

Even just packets of vegetables. I was practically yelling in the store as I’d pick up mushrooms and read how many billions of grams of protein were in them. “Gah! Forget you, mushrooms!” (I mean, not really, ’cause I love you. But aaaaargh my favorite foods are making me upset during this time.)

As time went on, I got hungry. So hungry. And I was so tired (from all the not working out and my lack of protein). So… what to do when I’m hungry and tired and cranky?

I know. How about I stuff my face with sugar! Sounds like a great idea, don’t you think?

Did you know frosting is vegan and has 0 grams of protein? Oh yeah. That’s right. I most definitely did eat an entire tub of frosting. It wasn’t all in one sitting. And at first, it actually kind of hurt to eat. But a couple of days later, when I got to the bottom of the tub, I was licking out the last bits of it.

What am I doing to myself here?! My skin is breaking out. I’m feeling bloated and gross.

Ow, ow, ow, ow, ow, ow, ow. Everything hurts.

That’s when I went back and read my entry about hearing the news that I was denied as a kidney donor, and how sad it made me. I thought about how much I wanted to do this for someone else. So, I suppose this sacrifice was worth it.

And yes, I will totally admit a couple of things:
1) I’m sure I went overboard. Did I really have to try for 9 days? Did I really have to eat sooo little protein? No. I didn’t. But after the last test, I was so very nervous. And I just wanted to be so sure.

2) There have to be ways to eat a low protein diet better than just eating a can of frosting. So, I was being a little dumb and a little ridiculous. I will grant you those things without argument.

As my 9 or so days went by, every morning I’d say, “Only x days to Thursday.” And finally, eventually, somehow Thursday came. It seemed nearly impossible, but alas, it happened!

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

Hot Air Ballooning! (June 25th, 2015’s Something New) – Part 2 (Check In & The Balloons Inflating)

June 27, 2015

Aurora standing at the side of an inflating hot air balloonPicking up from last time

It wasn’t long before we saw other cars park and heard people getting out. As the sun began to show, we followed people into the little room where everyone was meeting.

There was light breakfast stuff – donuts and cinnamon cake. I partook in some of the sugar, not ’cause I especially wanted some, but ’cause you know, I was sleepy.

Our host started pouring mimosas.

By the way, I didn’t realize “hot air balloon host” was a job, but it is. She confirms your reservation a day or two before you go. She gives you food and drink, tells you which balloon you’re in – and then points you to the correct balloon and tells you when to go there. She also takes a bunch of pictures.

So, yeah, writing it out, of course it makes sense there’d be a host, not just a pilot. But when I first got the text “this is your hot air balloon host,” I thought “huh. Didn’t know that was a thing.”

Aurora standing in front of hot air balloon opening (2nd shot)It was funny how much people were invited to drink (at 5 in the morning!). Bottomless mimosas were flowing in the room where we waited. Then there were multiple bottles of champagne flowing once we were in the basket. The pilot just kept asking if people wanted more. (And then there was a party bus coming back, but we’ll get to that.)

We all begin to make our way outside from the breakfast room and look on as the hot air balloons get set up. Trucks drive these huge tarp-ish-looking things out into the field. The baskets come out and get set up sideways (so they can blow propane, or whatever it is they blow, into the balloons to help blow them up.

We start to see the balloons get more and more full, and then we’re invited to walk through rows of the vineyard to get to the field and get closer to our balloons.

(I have some cool video, but am having a hard time uploading it here… grrr…)

Once we get down to our balloons, we can see in more detail the baskets on their sides with a strap with which to pull them up. Once the balloons are almost fully inflated, someone grabs the strap and pulls the basket right-side-up, as the pilot climbs in and the balloon becomes fully formed straight up in the air.

At that point, Chris, our pilot says, “If you’re with me, come on in!” So, everyone in our balloon goes on over there.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

Free Birthday Stuff!

June 24, 2015

Aurora doing a squat at Cyclepathic
working out at Cyclepathic

Recently, I’ve been enjoying class pass – this awesome, unlimited workout thing. I am totally obsessed with it and absolutely going to write about it in the blog.

And now that I’m in the system of all these various workout places, free birthday stuff has been raining on me!

Not only that, but places I’ve volunteered in the last year and a half have sent me cards. And restaurants have sent me free coupons. I know every year I do something I’ve never done before for my birthday. But goodness! I think I could have a field day just going around and using all these free coupons and free classes!

Here are the conclusions I’ve come to about all the free birthday stuff rolling in:

1) I know it’s a silly thing for me to care so much. But my feelings for a place get so much warmer when they give me an adorable (and/or super cool) thing for my birthday.

For instance, I got a coupon for a free scoop of ice cream from Ben and Jerry’s. I know I want to be healthy and I’m trying to eat more vegan than not. But, well, I love Ben and Jerry’s. And the coupon that comes to my inbox is so colorful, friendly, and fun. I just adore it!

Ben and Jerry's crew in the truck
I love Ben and Jerry’s! (I’m in the truck.)

Plus, Ben and Jerry’s totally wins because they give you something special for your half birthday too. And they’re awesome on twitter. So for all those reasons, Ben and Jerry’s totally has part of my heart no matter how healthy I try to be! (Hey, they’re coming out with vegan flavors! As they’d say on Parks and Rec, treat yo’ self. ;))

2) Competition is fierce! At Cyclepathic (which I already loved and adored), they sent me an offer for a free day of working out – that’s right. A full DAY of unlimited classes! AND a free towel with their logo.

I’ve already planned a hot air ballooning adventure for the morning, and I have to work at night. So, it’s super sad I won’t be able to fit them into my birthday schedule. But I will definitely remember how much I appreciate their super cool birthday generosity when looking for workout classes in the future.

Some places give you more of a buffer, like you can have a free class anytime your birthday week. That’s pretty cool too. (I personally don’t mind it being relegated to the day, but I guess it’s nice to have a buffer. If I wasn’t already on class pass, imagine the number of classes I could try to schedule this week!)

Aurora doing a plank at Cyclepathic
Another workout pic from Cyclepathic

Shout out to Sweat Garage for a free class and towel rental. xoxo (There’s one right before I have to go into work, so I will totally be there.

But then I’ve been getting these emails with like 5% off, or no deal and just a “hope you had a great day!” That’s better than nothing, but I’m so spoiled from all the super generous places. Time to step up your game, [unnamed companies]! 🙂

3) There’s just something about feeling appreciated. Even the places I volunteered that sent me a card – on the one hand, you could make a case that non-profit money is being wasted on cards. On the other, it’s like I put in time and effort and it really means something to me that these places said, “You care about us. We care about you.” And it makes me all that much more likely to go back. So, I think it’s money well spent.

Ultimately, I think what I’ve learned is that whether I have a big business someday, or even if I’m just me, I’d be a lot cooler if I really worked harder to make people feel special on their birthday and all year long. I generally try, but I can be a whole lot better! I need to step it up to Ben and Jerry’s/Cyclepathic/Sweat Garage level, baby!

Coit Tower (and TRX Training Center) (San Fran! – April 2015)

June 22, 2015

Aurora at the bottom of Coit Tower
(Before the climb up – it’s the building up there)

I tried some new workouts while I was in San Francisco and by far my favorite was TRX. If I lived there, I’m pretty sure I’d practically want to live at that studio. I felt so strong when I left!

On this day (Wednesday the 15th), I got a day pass and wanted to see how many classes I could hit.

Let’s get real. I’m never getting up early enough to be at any before noon. So, that was the first one I went to. Then I had a few hours to kill before they started up again for the after-work crowd. (I went to 3 more that night.)

Anyway, my 3 hours to kill. I walked over to Levi’s Plaza so I could walk the steps up to Coit Tower. Along the way, I met someone named Abhijeet, who became my fun walking buddy. He told me about living in San Francisco as we walked up the steps.

Once we got there, we parted ways so he could read his book in a beautiful scenery, and I could keep well… just wandering. I went to the gift shop and finally bought a mug! (I love mugs!)

Abhijeet and I randomly met up again as we entered the line at the same time to go up to the top! It was his turn first and when he was asked, “Two tickets?” At first he said, “just one.” Then he looked back at me and said, “Make it two.”

Aurora and her new friends in a selfie
with my new friends in the tower

The level of kindness I experienced in San Francisco is incredible!

We went to the top and the woman who was working there was from France! She was so interesting telling us about the world, and about living in San Francisco now. She even sang for us! Her name is Virgine, and we still text every once in a while.

After I took in some beautiful views all around San Francisco, I headed back down and to my last 3 workout classes of the day.

At the TRX Training Center, I got my butt kicked in the most wonderful way. I talked for a long time after the last class with this super inspiring instructor, Miguel. His positive life outlook is so contagious! If you are in SF, I would highly (highly!) recommend going. And if you’re not, you can still follow him on instagram.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 36 (I Miss Working Out!)

June 21, 2015

Picking up from last time –

Those 9 days were… painful doesn’t even seem like the right word. They were so frustrating, tiring… I don’t even know!

I’d just come back from San Fran where I went out of my way to be super active. I was feeling so great about myself! And then I became this couch potato (wah wah).

As each day went by, I got a little crankier to the people around me. I was getting so exhausted! No only did I not have working out (which helps keep my energy up), I also wasn’t even fueling myself properly. So I was feeling gross.

For the first few days I kept it together. I was all, “I’m gonna keep a great attitude about this! I’m gonna try to do a bunch of cool (or at least productive) non-workout stuff this week.”

Nope. I was cranky an insufferable within a couple of days.

I did still do some productive non-workout stuff. Even when I was getting my hair dyed (and all prepped fr my headshots), when my stylist asked me to sit up a bit in the washing bin chair thing, the way I sat up she said, “I see you’re still trying to sneak in a little ab work, huh?”

I’m not trying to say that I’m super fit or anything. I’m just saying, it can be a bit hard sometimes to get in the groove of exercising. So once you’re there, you wanna keep doing it! (Or at least I do.) Also, your body gets used to working and pumping out all those beautiful endorphins. So when I made it go a bit haywire, it’s like it was screaming at me, “Aurora. What are you doing?!”

The habits I’ve worked so hard to get into (such as always taking the stairs), I know undid them all. I felt so silly just standing on the escalator as it took me up in the subway station. I also felt that people around me might be judging me (which I know is sooo silly because people are wrapped up in their own lives. What do they care if I’m on the stairs or escalator?).

So, I’d have to talk down my brain all the time. “There are plenty of reasons you could be on the escalator. You could be injured. People probably just think you’re injured. No one’s judging you for not being active enough, or for using the moving stairs that are zapping needless electricity (since there are already elevators for anyone who does need assistance). Oh my goodness, calm down, Aurora! Eesh.

And I’ll pick up with how the eating went next time!

 

Hiking From Lands End To The Golden Gate Bridge (San Fran! – April 2015)

June 20, 2015

Aurora with the Golden Gate bridge behind her in the distanceAnother fun highlight of the trip was the day where I took a hike!

I helped out with my friends’ daughter in the morning. (Yeah, yeah, I know, the word “daughter.” Weird how some of us have kids now. Let’s just keep going…)

Anyway, I was helping in the morning, so I didn’t get to Lands End until the afternoon. I figured I’d do a short little hike before the sun went down. What I didn’t realize was – it’s all a short little hike!

Aurora taking a selfie wondering if she should go to Mexico
huh… Mexico only 775 miles away… A Little tempting. 😉

San Francisco seems to big (to me, at least) on maps. But then when you start walking around, you start realizing everything is practically right next to everything else. I stopped into the Lands End visitor center (because I love being a tourist – asking questions, getting advice, and meeting people). (Plus I love mugs from gift shops! (Even though I didn’t buy any here.)…

While in the visitor center, I was asking to where I should hike. They were telling me about some places only a couple of miles away. Then someone mentioned, “You could go to the Golden Gate Bridge, but it’s kinda far.” Well, it looked kind of far on the map, but when we started talking about it, I’m pretty sure it was only a bit over 2 miles.

(How is everything so close to everything else?)

Aurora between poses hiking in San Francisco
This was a candid shot while I figured out how to pose with the sign, and for some reason, I liked it a lot and here it is!

So, I headed off, saw some scenery, made it to a beach, ate a delicious kind bar, and then got to the Golden Gate Bridge.

One thing that was funny to me was that I’d always seen these pictures of the Golden Gate Bridge from the side looking so majestic and such. It never really dawned on me that it’s a normal bridge that people drive across with tolls and such. It looks so normal from the front.

(Speaking of the toll, apparently you don’t even pay right there. What I heard is that a picture is taken of your license plate and you get billed later. Is that true? Also, how is that possibly more efficient than people paying right there? …I guess it’s too time consuming to have people stop on the bridge? I dunno.)

I didn’t go across the bridge because I’ll be doing that in the upcoming San Francisco half marathon. But I totally poked around the gift shop. (I love mugs! Though yet again, I didn’t buy one because I haven’t yet gone across the bridge and back.)

Aurora De Lucia on the Golden Gate Bridge
Made it to the bridge! 🙂

I also stopped in at the little food store (which has marked up, pricey snacks, in case you’re wondering). So, pack up, friends!

I then kept on going back through the awesome Presido (where I found a super cool sporting store that was holding a triathlon club meeting with a bunch of super nice people!), ’til I hit the Palace of Fine Arts (which was beautiful. I’d love to see something there). And then I walked on home to my friend’s apartment. Another gorgeous rejuvenating day complete in San Fran!

San Fran! (Presidio/Lombard Street) (April 2015)

June 19, 2015

Aurora De Lucia selfie at Presidio sign in San FranciscoFinally! Now that we’re beginning to get a bit caught up on the blog, I can talk about some things I didn’t get to mention over the past couple of months.

First up, my trip to San Fran! I don’t know where to start or how to break up these posts. So, I’m gonna do it the best I can.

I felt like I needed a break from LA. I love and adore my friend Jaime in SF. We’d been texting a bunch about how we both really wanted to see each other. So finally I said, “Okay, how about I take the bus up.”

She was so sweet! “Uh, yeah. Obviously. Come here now.”

So, um, I basically did.

Everyday while Jaime and her husband were at work, I tried to find new, exciting things to do.

On one of my first days there, I went to a workout class, BodyRok. The studio was close enough to the hairpin turns on Lombard Street that I figured Lombard Street would be my touristy thing for the day.

I only knew about Lombard Street because this car racing show I worked on had a whole SF episode, and they loved talking about Lombard Street. I wanted to see if it lived up to the hype.

On my way to Lombard Street, I went the wrong way. (When do I ever not get lost?) But in getting lost, I found Presido, which I didn’t even know existed!

I started walking around confused and in awe. It looks like a gigantic and pristine college campus. But a lot of the people there did not look like they were in college. And some of the buildings seemed to serve other purposes.

I didn’t recognize the word “Presido” when I saw the signs. I hadn’t heard of a school or business with that name. So… where am I? Am I allowed to be here? I’m gonna walk around until I find out what this is and/or someone says get out.

I met some people walking and said, “I know this is a weird question. But can you tell me where I am?”

Aurora excited at the bottom of Lombard Street
At the bottom of Lombard Street

Turns out, it’s a big area of a national park. You can read more here if you’re interested.

The guys also said that George Lucas owns (or maybe rents?) a bunch of buildings on the property. People work there. (And they seem to have a grand ol’ time.)

I walked around The Presidio more another day (which we’ll get to), but suffice it to say, it was huge – huge!

You could spend at least a full day (if not multiple days) and tons of money just hanging in The Presidio. There are spas, restaurants, bowling, golf, and on and on and on… I don’t even know what all they have there. I just know it’s a ton. (Mental note to explore that area more sometime! …Or, I guess actual, physical note, since I am writing it.)

I did eventually make it to Lombard Street. It was indeed pretty cool. It seemed like probably a nightmare for people who lived on the street since cars seem to be bottlenecked there as apparently drivers want to check it out just as much as walkers. It was amazing how many tourists were out taking pictures… and I was one of them!

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 35 (There’s Protein In Everything)

June 14, 2015

Picking up from last time –

I ended up not having to go in after all. Once my appointment got closer, I asked one more time if he could order the test without seeing me again (so nobody’d have to waste time on an in-and-out appointment).

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I’m selfish to ask again. I know. But it worked!

(But now there’s probably a note in my chart about how annoying I am, huh? Oof. Oh well. Let’s not think about that…)

So he ordered the test. This time I was determined – determined(!) – to get it right. I stopped working out 9 days(!) prior and watched my protein like a hawk.

It’s a good thing I did it for 9 days, because honestly the first couple were kind of a mess. Basically, what I really wanted was a full week of low protein and no working out. So, having the bumpy days (of wanting to work out just a liiiiiittle, or of making protein mistakes) helped.

I didn’t realize there is protein in basically everything! I made a rule for myself that I couldn’t have any of my precious Kind bars because they’re nuts. And I knew I should probably stay away from delicious protein-ful nuts.

I happened to have frozen waffles in the back of the freezer. I try to eat healthier than that generally. So I thought, “Okay. A carb. This’ll be good.” Well, when I looked at the package, a serving size (2 waffles) has 5 grams of protein already! There are only 6 grams of protein in my precious Kind bar!

Aye, aye, aye.

So, I started counting protein grams closer. Toward the beginning of my 9 days, I went to Universal Studios and had a delicious veggie burger. It didn’t dawn on my until I was practically done, “Uh, yeah, veggie patties have loads of protein!” Eeesh.

Speaking of going to Universal Studios, it was practically painful going there without being allowed to work out. To me, part of the most fun of going to Uni Studios is how much working out you do to get there – how many steps there are in the subway station, that big hill you walk up to get to the park. Even once you’re in the park, you need to walk down tons of steps to get to The Mummy Ride.

I love the active theme park! But on that day, it was all about shuttles and escalators and all that jazz. It was still fun, of course. (Super fun!… But still not quite as fun ;).)

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 34 (To The Primary Care Doc)

June 7, 2015

Aurora with messy hair at the primary care doctor's office at UCLA
(Just making faces while waiting for the primary care doc)

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

As I wait for my appointment, I try not to think about kidneys too often. Every once in a while, something will come up that reminds me. But for now, as all I can do is wait. I’ll just let it chill on the back-burner…

Well, I’ll try to.

In the couple of days that followed my initial talk with Dr. R, I did a little of that online “research” that so many of us love to do. “But what could my proteinuria mean?!”

It’s listed as one of the signs of kidney disease. Know what else is? My super dry hands. And it’s like, “Oop. Yep. There it is. I must have kidney disease.”

Of course, I don’t really believe I actually have kidney disease. But you know how that rabbit hole goes.

So I wait and wait and wait for what seems like forever, until the day finally comes.

And nothing earth shattering happens.

I meet my new doctor. He’s nice. He runs some labs and refers me back to Dr. R.

Aurora De Lucia looking out from behind her bandaged arm after a blood test in the UCLA kidney donor programIt’s ridiculously hard to get an appointment with Dr. R.
While I’m waiting to get one, my labs come back. The initial small pee-in-a-cup test came back with a normal level of protein.

I don’t remember what it was about the week before the test – if I was abnormally busy (even though I hate that word), or if I was sick or what, but I remember I wasn’t super active.

So, I thought maybe it truly was a matter of not working out so much! I asked if I could have a 24-hour urine test one last time to see if I could do it right. The person on the phone said I’d have to get an appointment to ask that question. I tried to push it (in the nicest tone I could). “Do I really have to have an appointment? It’s literally one question – and one we sort of touched on while I was there.”

But alas, I couldn’t convince the person at the desk to ask my new doctor. (I do respect that doctors have limited amounts of time. So, I’m not necessarily saying I was in the right. Obviously I was just thinking about what’s easiest/fastest for me.)

I took the next available appointment – which was in April.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

52 Performances in 52 Weeks – The Rules/Constraints

June 5, 2015

Oh, it’s time to start talking about this new project! I’m so excited!

Some people have asked me what kind of parameters am I going to put on this. What constitutes a performance?

If I have a reading of some of my material in the apartment living room for a handful of friends, is that a performance? If I play the same character (in the same show) two nights in a row, does that count as two different ones? What if I only perform for camera without a live audience?

There are lots of questions, and I’m sure many people have their own opinions. But here’s where I land with it… I’m just going to use my best judgement.

Some things will be obvious and clear cut. Others, not so much. But I’m just gonna do my best to use my best judgement.

I know that’s not super constrain-y sounding. But these are projects I make up! I’m excited to just be open to the experience and see what lies ahead.

As I did with the volunteer activities (and even half marathons), I’m going to try to vary things up. I hope to do things for small audiences and large. I hope to do some comedy, drama, singing, dancing, plus some stuff I’ve never done before (like being a mime or a human statue). I’m just open and excited and we’ll see where it goes.

If you have ideas or suggestions about anything, I’d always love to hear them!

My First 50-Mile Race! – Part 7 (Post-Race)

June 4, 2015

Picking up from last time –

One of my helpful bunkmates suggested I go to the handicapped accessible shower because it had something you could sit on!

(Don’t worry. In the middle of the night, I wasn’t in the way of any people in need of that particular shower.) Thank goodness for the seasoned veterans who have little helpful tidbits like that.

So, that was lovely. After I showered, got dressed, and came back to the room, my bunkmates laughed at me a little for having picked a top bunk, and now needing to get in as I was waddling around with all my blisters. But alas, I successfully climbed up there.

Thankfully, the nightstand was high up by the top bunk. So I could still reach all my stuff. I had a bunch of bandaids. After my shower, it was much easier to see blister damage and bandage up a few more things.

I also ate in the middle of the night (since it seemed like I almost could not get enough food).

In the morning, I headed back out to the finish to see how things were going. (And they were continuing to be very generous with food since they were going to have a lot left over). So, I ate some more. (It’s crazy to me that I ate and ate and ate and ate, and yet when I weighed myself a few days after getting home, I’d lost weight. Bodies, huh?)

I didn’t really want the weekend to end. But everything’s gotta end sometime, huh? So, eventually I sauntered out. I had the car until Monday morning. So I took my sweet time going home. I found a discounted movie theater. So I watched Big Hero 6, ’cause why not? (It was touching, I thought.)

Then I walked around that mall for a while, making sure to use my legs a little. Then I popped on some Sam Smith (that I bought after hearing him a ton on the radio in the car), and walked around the nice neighborhood/smaller strip-mall-type area across from the mall.

I finally got back in the car, but heading home still seemed kinda lame. So I took a detour through downtown Disney (’cause why not stop by The Happiest Place on Earth?) I grabbed one of those big special Disney caramel apples. (Yet more food?!) (I only could handle eating half of it, but that half was quite delicious!)

Finally, I returned the car. I cleared out all my bags and rode the rental shuttle back to LAX (and got the shuttle home from there). The rental car shuttle driver said the thing that impressed her most wasn’t the 50 miles – it was that I was carrying all my bags after the 50 miles! I thought that was funny. Getting home was the part I was most worried about – being super tired or fatigued, having a tough time making the trip.

But I indeed got home safely (and randomly passed a John Stamos project filming a block away from me super late at night on the way home).

First 50-miler in the books. I’m already ready to try it again (or 100!).

My First 50-Mile Race! – Part 6 (My Weird Finish ) – Part B (What Happened After)

June 3, 2015

Picking up from last time –

I think another part of the reason it maybe felt like I was kinda supposed to keep going was because it was a loop – a 2-mile loop I’d done 25 times. I was in the freaking groove. “Oh I stop now?”

I loved it being a loop, by the way. Some people thought it would get boring. But I loved never being more than two miles away from an aid station (and bathroom etc.). I also loved sort of turning my brain off and knowing what was in store for me in each loop.

But yeah. I sort of feel like in my quest to pace myself and not hurt myself that I maybe didn’t pace hard enough. I didn’t end feeling a huge need to sit down. I ended with more in the tank. And I don’t think you really want to end your distance races like that…

So, yeah. There was just something off about the first 50-miler…

As I mentioned earlier, there was something off about my first marathon as well – which was also a trail run. So, maybe it’s just something about those.

I don’t know. I guess before I come to any real conclusions, it’ll be a matter of doing some more 50 or 100 milers so I have something to compare them to.

Once I got to the finish line, I was invited back in the aid tent to have my blisters tended to. I grabbed some foot to eat while it was happening.

When I took of my shoes, I had no idea how gross the aftermath was going to look! I’ll spare you the pictures (and too many graphic details), but suffice it to say, it was a total mess. Oof.Dave patched me up as best could be done with the mess of blisters on top of other blisters going on. Even though my cabin was only a mere short distance away from the finish, Stephanie (one of the races co-directors) drove me over there! She even literally gave me the sandals off her feet so I didn’t have to stuff my swollen shoes back into my sneakers.She told me that she loved seeing me go by each time – that I always looked happy, and that I seemed to be keeping a pretty even pace. I’d been nick-named the smiling peanut butter jelly girl (’cause that was what I always grabbed as I ran by).
Once I got back to the cabin, I took a wonderful long shower. And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My First 50-Mile Race! – Part 6 (My Weird Finish ) – Part A (Thoughts In My Head Were Different)

June 2, 2015

Picking up from last time –

As I was getting closer to the finish, I wasn’t thinking about how excited I was. I was more thinking about logistics. Okay, what comes first? Do I rip these shoes off? Do I eat?

There was like a list in my head of stuff I thought needed to happen, and when I came into the finish it wasn’t so much a celebration so much as, “okay. Get the medal. Get a photo. Grab some chips to put some fuel in your body. Ask Dave to help you take care of your blisters.”

And that’s what I did.

When I finished my first half marathon, it was a big deal to me. I was on top of the world. And when I finished the Goofy Challenge, it felt even better (though granted, when I finished my first full marathon, I don’t think I was quite ecstatic). When I finished my first 50k, I felt even better than at the Walt Disney World Marathon.

So, part of the reason I did this 50-mile race is because I thought that every time my distance increased, I felt better! I wondered “what could a 50-mile race possibly feel like?” But then when I actually got to the finish, I didn’t feel a huge sense of relief or elation wash over me. And I can’t totally pinpoint why!

I don’t know if it’s because there were only 3 people at the finish instead of hundreds… My best hypothesis is this:

Running is my therapy. It’s my stress relief, my meditation, whatever you want to call it. And often when I’m running a race, I’m working something out. For instance, I trained for my first half marathon because I’d quit a job and I thought it might’ve been the dumbest career move of my life (and it might’ve been… but you never know).

I didn’t know what to do with that pent-up stress/energy! So, I trained for a race. And I ran it, and everything seemed so much better. (In fact, everything seemed so beautiful during the training of that! I was living in New York, working at Macy’s Herald Square. It was such a precious time I value… Moving on.)

During the LA Marathon, I was peeved at a good friend of mine (’cause even good friends are never perfect… as none of us are). And I ran out my little peeved-ness. During the Goofy Challenge, I wasn’t upset about anything, but I was running out the end of this big project. It was this huge culmination of something.

And here, the questions were more open-ended. “Where do I want to be? How do I want to get there?” So, nothing felt resolved at the end…

It kind of felt like, “Uh, is this really the end? Should I keep running?

My First 50-Mile Race! – Part 5 (My Pacing)

June 1, 2015

Picking up from last time  –

I’d paced pretty well the whole time – always leaving myself a buffer for when I slowed down.

I started to feel some blisters sometime I think close-ish to mile 40. But I just let them go. I didn’t want to stop. And they didn’t feel so bad.

But as time when on, my feet hurt more. (The closer I got to the end, the less I wanted to stop to investigate and “waste” time!)

In my third to last lap, I was taking teeny tiny steps, and I went way slower than I thought I would. With the 15 hour mark potentially coming up too quickly, I jogged the last 4 miles.

There were these two guys – Rocky and Ray – I’d seen at dinner, breakfast, and even chatted up a few times on the course. I’d told them I wanted to finish in under 15 and they saw me in my last lap, doing it up! That was nice that I got to share that with someone.

I jogged on in, listening to songs I loved to keep me going. In the last mile, I rocked out to the theme song from The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt (as that’s new on my playlist and so inspiring!).

I was soooo happy when I came in and saw the clock just under 14:50!

But when I finished, it felt weird… And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 33 (Okay, So What’s Next?)

May 31, 2015

Aurora holding up kidney rejection letterTime for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

In mid November, I officially got the packet in the mail with the denial letter. UCLA also sent me my chart (without me even asking), which I thought was nice of them.

I wrote my donor coordinator asking if she’d heard anything from Dr. R.
At some point, I’d followed up with an email, asking what we should do next (since Dr. R had mentioned I’d need follow-ups and a nephrologist and such). But I didn’t hear back.

I’m assuming it was just because he got busy helping all these people who were actually dying from kidney failure, as opposed to the girl who’s worried her protein is somewhat too high. Or maybe my email just got lost in the shuffle or the bowels of the internet or wherever.

Whatever ended up happening to it, I didn’t want to be too bothersome. So, after I got my rejection letter, I followed up with my donor coordinator, asking if she knew what I should do next.

I had to talk to her anyway because somehow I’d received a bill for one of the kidney tests, which she said she’d make sure was rerouted/taken care of… Obviously any further testing is paid out of my insurance, since I’m not currently a candidate. But any previous testing is paid for by the kidney acquisition fund.

I’d also noticed there weren’t any notes from the psychologist or social worker in my chart. So, I asked about that too. My donor coordinator said they don’t give out anything pertaining to those visits. I thought that was a little odd… As a patient, shouldn’t I have access to my full chart? I have no idea what the rules are on that.

Either way, I didn’t push it, because I didn’t really care. I kind of wanted to be able to go through them, as I did with the ones from OSU. But considering how well the interviews went, I doubt there’s anything that would be surprising in there.

(And even if there was, it’s nothing bad enough to stop me from donating. So, why would I want to read anything surprising or bad if it doesn’t affect me? It would’ve been nice to read good things, but I already felt good about the interviews. And I was approved by the mental health professionals. Can’t that be enough?)

So, I’m letting that one go (getting that part of my chart) without any fight at all.

Anyway, back to the main question at hand – asking my donor coordinator about my next steps. She said the next good step is to talk to my primary care physician and see how he wants me to handle it – with a nephrologist, or what he wants to do.

I didn’t have a primary care physician (which I guess is kind of silly…).

So, I got one – a physician based out of UCLA, hoping if I kept it all in the UCLA family that might keep things easier. The first one I tried wasn’t taking new patients. I asked the donor coordinator if she recommended anyone… He also wasn’t taking new patients. Finally, I found a doctor with some room for new patients – in about 3 months.

I took that three-months-away appointment. February 2nd, 2015.

This is where we’ll pick up next time.

My First 50-Mile Race! – Part 4 (Hello, Thoughts)

May 30, 2015

Picking up from last time –

As far as what I thought about, well, I thought about the same stuff I think about during marathons.

Running is how I analyze and deal with problems. It’s how I work out any anger or confusion toward myself or anyone else. It’s the time when if I have problems with anyone in my life, I try to think about what I could’ve done (or what I could do) to be better in any way – a better friend, worker, whatever.

If I’m mad at anybody or myself or even just a situation, I put on a mean song and run to it. That’s the way I try to vent any negative emotions.

In this race, I also kind of thought about the future. What kinds of things do I want next? How will I get them? (I had lots of time. Might as well reflect and plan.) It can be stressful, but also good to think about the future…

I also just enjoyed music for part of it.

I heard some songs I hadn’t heard in a while and thought, “oh yeah, I love this song!” (“Obsessed” by Mariah Carey gave me a total jolt when I was tired. I really do just adore that song.)

I also paid attention to some of the genius engineering on some Michael Jackson tracks – seeing how many different instruments/parts I could pick out. (Bruce Swedien is a freaking mastermind. I would love to work with that man.)

I even thought silly thoughts at some point.

I know Christina Yang is a fictional character. She’s totally not real and not working that awesome job. And yet, somewhere almost 40 miles in, I thought, “I really hope she’s happy at that dream job. Goodness, I love her.”

Basically, the day was lovely.

There was also a point in my last couple of laps where I looked up at the stars.

Someone who’d done the race in years past gave me a heads up that at night (especially for people coming from the city) the stars out in nature were really beautiful, and you should make sure to look up at them and enjoy them.

Those words echoed in my brain in my final laps. Since I was almost done, I made sure to look up and enjoy every bit that I could.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time

My First 50-Mile Race! – Part 3 (Goodbye, Technology)

May 29, 2015

Picking up from last time –

Originally, I thought I might do some live instagramming or tweeting of this event. But up in the mountains, I had terrible reception!

If I was in my cabin, situated correctly on my bed, holding my phone at a certain angle, I could get enough wifi to barely get online with a super slow connection speed. (Basically, I was able to send an email to my dad once the race was over, just to let him know I survived.)

I didn’t go up there thinking I was going to try to cut myself off from the world, but that’s what I did. And it was amazing.

I didn’t realize that was something I wanted until I got it.

For most of the race, I was engaged – in thought, or in the moment looking around, or talking to other runners who’d run with me for a bit.

But every once in a while, I’d get a bit distracted and I’d kind of want to see what was going on on twitter – but I couldn’t.

And it was so refreshing to live in the moment, and to not be able to really get distracted – to have to pull myself back in to the moment and what was going on at the time.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My First 50-Mile Race! – Part 2 (Setting My Time Goal)

May 28, 2015

Picking up from last time –

I don’t know if you read about my first marathon, but it was a disaster (a disaster!).

It took over 15 hours. 15 hours is more than enough time to do a 50-miler. So, I thought it would be really cool if I could finish my first 50 in less time than it took to do my first marathon. That was kind of the reach goal.

Ultimately, my main goal was to finish (healthily). But if I could do it in under 15, I thought that’d be pretty rad.

I was keeping in mind that it was on a trail, and I was at over 4,000 feet altitude (when I live at sea level). Plus, I had a small cold. (I know. Boo hoo, right?) Since I had some small things working against me, I thought I’d feel out the day and just see how things went.

Well, my first lap only took about half an hour, and I was pretty comfortable at that speed. After the first lap, it was on like Donkey Kong! Let’s hit that 15-hour mark!

I just tried to keep a pretty steady pace going. I’d quickly stop for fuel and be on my merry way.

I kept track of my laps in my phone by counting 5 groups of 5 laps each. That’s how I broke it apart to think of it in pieces instead of one big 50-mile race.

Originally, my goal was to only take real breaks in between the groups of 5 laps, but it didn’t work out that way. I took breaks when I needed them.

I took my longest break (which I think was still only about 10 minutes or so) after the first marathon was done. I used the bathroom, threw back some Gatorade and maybe a few snacks, and I even took a couple of pictures as though to say, “Yay! Look, the marathon’s done.”

And then it was back to work.

Speaking of pictures… Well, let’s get into that next time!

My First 50-Mile Race! – Part 1 (The Adventure Begins) (March 28, 2015)

May 27, 2015

Thank goodness I left early! Friday traffic was much worse than I expected. So instead of making it hours early, I made it just in time for the dinner.

Yes, that’s right, the dinner. This wasn’t just any normal race where you show up and do it. Since it was up in the San Jacinto mountains, a night in the cabins was included in our race fee! Not only that, but we had communal dinner and breakfast with everyone, which was sweet!

Everyone was so nice at dinner, and it was fun to get to know everyone a little beforehand.

Then I got my packet and room assignment.

In my cabin, I picked a top bunk (’cause I think bunkbeds are super cool, and I thought as someone not doing the hundred mile race, I should be one of the ones to climb to the top.

We all talked a bit and got to know each other until quiet hours started at 10pm. I’d gotten into the habit of going to bed early all week. I knew if I didn’t, I’d be in for some hurting when race morning came.

Once the morning came, I rolled out of bed and over to breakfast. I had a half of a banana while people around me were loading up on pancakes and syrup. I didn’t want to overdo it with the calories, but I started eating quickly into the race. Very soon I understood why everyone had been eating so much around me in the morning – 50 miles (and especially 100 miles!) is kind of a long way to go.

The course was a two-mile loop that we ran over and over. Part of it was through sand (even though we weren’t by a beach). There was a little small stretch of road. Every time I hit the road, I was so comfy and happy to be off the trail that I’d try to jog that part, even I was walking the parts around it.

At the end of each loop was a huge clock telling us how we were doing, and a huge stand full of so much food (oh so much food)! For the first number of loops, I’d mainly just grab water (though I did stop in my cabin pretty early for a small vegan cookie). That was one thing that was awesome – our cabins were right along the course. We could stop for Gatorade (or vegan cookies) or whatever our little hearts pleased, as often as we wanted.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

FAQs about Doing a 50-Mile Race

May 26, 2015

The story of my first 50-miler starts tomorrow. (Yay!) But before we get into that, let’s get into some of the questions I’ve gotten so far.

1) Why do you want to do a 50-miler?

I loved the feeling of finishing a half marathon… And then I finished a marathon and it felt even better. Then I finished my first (surprise!) 50k and somehow that felt even more incredible! I thought I’d try a longer race and see if the feeling kept intensifying.

Also, I like to continually push myself in new ways, so I wanted to try a cool new thing.

(Lastly, I realized my first half was in 2009, and first marathon in 2012. So naturally in 2015, I had to go up to the next level (nearly doubling the distance again).

2) How did you train?

Irresponsibly!

That’s a bit of an exaggeration, but I don’t think I did quite as many miles as I should have to have trained totally in earnest. However, I supplemented a lot with strength training (which proved to be incredibly helpful!). I’m still not super strong, but having a stronger core/back/arms will help to keep you upright and feeling powerful when you’re getting tired.

I also tried to just be as active as I could in life – walking to more places, always taking the stairs – that kind of stuff. I think that was helpful too.

I’m sure there are plenty of training plans out there. And when I do a 100-miler, I’ll probably have to take it a bit more seriously. But once I finished my 50k happily, I tried to just sort of continue to work at that level (and slightly above it), and hope that my legs could carry me the extra miles on race day!

(Sorry for setting a bad example… But I did finish! (Strength training will take you so far!))

3) What did you learn/what advice do you have?

I touched on this yesterday. So, definitely those two things – pick the right shoes, and get used to fueling. (Eat enough to keep you going, but not so much to make you sick.)

Lastly, I’d say pacing is important. (I know everyone says that. But they say it ’cause it’s so true.) At the end of mine, I felt that had I pushed myself, I probably could’ve gone a bit faster. That was a bit of a bummer, but I would’ve so much rather had that than having gone out too fast and hitting a wall hard.

I saw some people have to go down to shorter distances after they went out fast and hurt themselves. So, as with any distance race, pace yourself to the best of your ability.

If you have any other questions, please let me know. And we’ll get on to my personal experience tomorrow!

What Did You Learn From Your First 50-Mile Race?

May 25, 2015

Soon, I’ll be writing all about my first 50-mile race experience!

But before we get into my journey and how I felt, I wanted to write some semi-practical posts for the people thinking about doing their own 50-mile race.

Let me start with the two main things I learned/difference between a 50-miler and a marathon.

1) The food/fuel!

I felt like during the 50-miler all I did was eat! (That’s not totally true, as there was plenty of time I wasn’t eating… But goodness it felt like a ton of food was going into my body (partially because there was a ton of food going into my body ;).)

As with marathoning, everyone fuels differently, I’m sure, based on a number of factors (weight, fitness level, speed, etc.). The generality I’ve heard is that you should be taking in 250-300 calories/hour(!) during a 50-mile race.

There were times I didn’t necessarily feel like eating. But I knew if I wanted to keep going strong, I probably needed to at certain times. I also had a schedule in my head of when I’d get Gatorade… and I upped that due to the heat that day.

So, as far as the fuel goes, all I can really say is it feels different. Because I was going at a slower pace, it was tolerable to have to eat so much. But it was indeed a change of pace.

2) The shoes!

Ah, the shoes. I love my Aasics Kayonos – love and adore them to pieces. I wear them on the treadmill and in half marathons and marathons, and they treat me so well.

However, for me, they do not seem to be the shoes to wear on trails and sand and whatever else came my way. I had so many blisters at the end. It was recommended to me to go to A Runner’s Circle and get fitted for trail shoes. I think that’s probably a good idea.

So, be cognizant that your ultramarathon shoes may not be the same as your marathon shoes. (You’d think I would’ve learned this by now. But now I think I for real have.)

Those were my biggest lessons. And I’ll get into some of the questions I’ve heard next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 32 (The Results Don’t Feel Good)

May 24, 2015

Aurora disappointed in herself
(a random photo on my computer of me looking disappointed)

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

After we got off the phone, I thought about it and tried to process it. But it just didn’t sit right. So, I sent an email.

(Yes, it’s been well established I can be a bit intense and stubborn sometimes.)

I thank him for the phone call and then say, “I know we just talked about it, but I’m having a bit of a hard time accepting it lol. Are we absolutely sure there’s nothing else I can do to better affect the 24-hour urine collections?”

I tell him, “I don’t want to be one of those people who doesn’t deal well with failure. 😛 But I’m just curious if there’s anything, anything at all, I can do… Sorry to bug you and thanks so much!”

He kindly writes back and says it’s not a failure. He asks me not to look at it that way. He promises he’ll look more into it as well. He reiterates we need to table the donation issue and focus on me. He says, “As I said, I do want you to participate in some of the kidney events that we are planning to do.”

[I forgot to mention this in my last post with the jarring phone call. He had said that since he knew I loved running, and volunteering, and such, that I might be a great person to help out with an upcoming kidney run.]

“And please stay in touch. You are an amazing human being.”

That last part was obviously very sweet and kind – to say I’m amazing. And it did help soften the blow a little, I guess. (Oh, compliments… always butterin’ me up.)

I get that he was just trying to be nice and come up with great alternative ways for me to feel like I’m doing something. And I so appreciate him for that. But it didn’t change that in the moment, I felt like, “uuuuugh. Can’t give a kidney. Relegated to the sidelines. I feel so small…”

So, that’s pretty much where things left off with him.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

52 Performances In 52 Weeks!

May 23, 2015

Busting out another project!

I want to actively be more creative. I always talk about how in high school I performed all the time. Well, high school’s over. And I live in Los Angeles, California! (Where you could probably perform everyday if you wanted.)

I’m tired of saying things if they don’t mean anything/if I don’t do anything about them. So I say I want to be more creative? Well, let’s do a project about it then!

When I wanted to be more fit/athletic, I finished the 52 half marathons. When I wanted to be more involved in the community, I did the 52 volunteer activities.

Both of those did what they were supposed to do. I don’t volunteer as much now, but I still do. It seems easier to say yes after doing 52 events in 52 weeks. I still run races too, with one coming up in July.

I thought this new project would fit well with being more creative. And I’m hoping it pays off the same way. I guess we’ll see in a year!

I’ve been playing with the idea of doing this for too many weeks – maybe even a couple of months. I asked myself the same questions that always come up with these projects. “Is it going to be worthwhile?” “Am I going to have enough time?” Blah blah blah.

Of course it’s gonna be worthwhile. Not every performance will be life-altering or spectacular, but just getting up in front of people – forcing myself to act in something or write something or just do something… it’s gonna be good.

As far as time, you make the time for things that are important. What in my life could be much more important than writing/performing? I want this to be my whole life! So if I can’t make time for it once a week, well, I’m doing something wrong.

I’ve done a couple of things here and there – did an improvised monologue at a friend’s improv show (as part of the form they were doing). Then, karaoke broke out at this bar where a Hollywood assistants mixer was happening and I performed at that.

I did a friend’s sketch show last Saturday. Then I happened to get Wednesday night off work. And I already knew where karaoke was (because Wednesday had also been the night of the mixer). So, forget it. Forget trying to wait. Let’s do this!

My First Paid Acting Gig In Los Angeles! (March 20, 2015)

May 22, 2015

I played Sally Ride at a Living History Exhibit at Woodlawn Cemetery (where she’s buried).

I booked the gig in sort of a roundabout way. I obviously basically want to act in anything anytime anywhere. I saw a listing on Backstage.com looking for women to volunteer to play historical figures.

Yeah, I’ll come be Sally Ride for no pay. Let’s just get back in the habit of doing this again! And let’s meet some other actors. And all that great stuff!

So, I wrote in saying I’d love to play Sally Ride. I think I may have been the only one who wrote in, because they gave me the gig with no audition or anything. (I was later told I was the only actress who wasn’t replaced at some point in the process. It’s really hard to get anyone to volunteer for anything and actually commit… perhaps that’s why they eventually decided to pay us – who knows.)

Once I showed up for our practice session, we got our monologues and read them for everyone. After the rehearsal, we got an awesome email saying they’d love to pay us after all! (What? Sweet business!)

Between the rehearsal and actual performance I memorized the monologue, tried on the NASA jumpsuit at the local costume store we were assigned, and learned about Sally Ride. (Did you know she was the first known LGBT astronaut? I didn’t!)

On the day of, I got there early. They had snacks and water all set out for us. (Ah, to be an actress and to be taken care of so lovingly.) Everyone started trickling in, and we all got into our costumes.

Then we were taken out to the various tombstones where we’d be performing our monologues. I stood there, waiting for the tour to get around to me, practicing my monologue in the space.

After the tour, we all gathered together and said a bit about what we liked about the women we portrayed.

What I liked was that it seemed like Sally Ride didn’t care about what other people said she could or couldn’t do. She just did stuff. She seemed like she really lived. And I love that.

As far as how the acting went, I think it went pretty well! I got compliments from strangers afterward, which always feels good!

Now let’s hope there are many more gigs to come! 🙂

Let’s Make a Deal Zonk Redemption Episode – Part 1 (Eeesh, I Have To Get The Day Off Work)

May 18, 2015

Zonk redemption aired today. In case you were wondering, yes, I was invited… but no, I didn’t get on (in case you didn’t see it).

Since that makes this obviously a pretty anti-climatic story, and there is so much still to catch up on the blog, I’m going to save the other 8 parts until… well, whenever it’s time to post them. 😛

But I will tell you about my experience with it. After my Let’s Make a Deal episode, I did start to wonder when they tape Zonk Redemption. I figured it would be the April Fools’ day show again.

Under that assumption, they would almost definitely tape it before my episode even aired. I wondered if I’d still be up for consideration – as someone who’d had a zonk taped but not aired.

I went about my life, and let my wonders about it fly away… until I got an email from the contestant team.

They sent me a “save the date” email that said, “We’d love to invite you to the taping of the show!” But it also said, “Please respond to let us know if you’re interested.”

The way it was worded made me wonder… “They’d love to invite me… if they can?” “I should let them know if I’m interested? Not if I’m coming – if I’m interested.”

I know that’s getting a little persnickety on wording, but I had 3 shows on the 18th! This was my first foray back into theater in almost 3 years. I know it’s practically sacrilegious to miss a day of performances! So, if I was going to bring this to my bosses, I wanted to be sure that I really was being offered the opportunity to go.

The email was sent to me just over a month before zonk redemption happened. I emailed back right away saying I’d love to go. One week later, I checked in to make sure the “save the date” email meant I really was invited, since it was going to be really hard to get the day off work and I had to tell them soon.

Two weeks before the taping, I still hadn’t heard. I couldn’t wait any longer to tell my bosses. So, I did.

Under my Equity contract, I was technically allowed to take one sick day with no penalty. But I know the unspoken rules in regional theater. You never take a sick day! Ever. If you have to throw up in a bucket between scenes, so be it. You do not call out sick.

So, I didn’t want to take my sick day on the basis of a lie. With the mess that was my open-heart surgery stuff, I never wanted to take a sick day again in my life.

So, I chose to go in and tell my bosses the truth. I would say that was possibly the wrong decision. But how can I say it was wrong to tell the truth?

I didn’t want to call out sick at the last minute. I didn’t want the guilt, and I didn’t want to affect the show in any adverse way.

I asked for the day off two weeks before it was to happen. I said I’d help however I could. I could help them find a sub. I’d be happy to train the sub (of course). I even offered to pay the person to come in for me!

I was stage managing, not acting. So basically all someone had to do in my place was say “go” a lot during the show. It was easy to read my script. I knew a sub could come in semi-easily…. Or so I thought.

And this is where we’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 31 (The Part That Broke My Heart)

May 17, 2015

Aurora lying on ground crying after kidney rejection
snapped a picture of myself lying on the ground crying after the phone call, ’cause you know, I gotta document it all 😛

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

I asked him, “What can I do? Tell me what to change. What should I eat or not eat? How should I work out, or change my habits?”

And he said, “There’s nothing you can do.”
[*sound of my heart cracking down the middle*]

He told me this was just the way my kidneys function (improperly), and that there was nothing I could change. He told me I had a lot of healthy habits that were great. And all I can really do is watch and see if the problem gets any worse.

I said in the last post that this was the most heartbreaking part to me. I hate it when there are things you can’t change! I know those things exist in life. But they do not make me happy. I was sort of taken back to the way I felt during my heart issues. I know it’s obviously not the same thing, but I remember the worst part of that was being powerless.

I hadn’t thought deeply about my heart issues in a long time. It was amazing to me how in an instant I could be transported back to this all too familiar feeling that I hadn’t felt in a long while.

Dr. R said at some point, we may be able to do some tests to see if we could get to a root cause. He said he does want to figure out what’s going on – as, it is odd for someone my age, without any risk factors, to have high protein in her urine (since that’s one of the early signs of kidney disease). But at this point, it’s just nothing to be too terribly worried about, or to take immediate action on.

When he told me we’d have to close the door on kidney donation, I held back tears on the phone. I was just so sure, oh so sure it was going to work out. I really believed it would. And to hear it wasn’t, and that there was nothing I could change… I was in disbelief.

It hurt. It hurt so much.

So, we got off the phone (and those tears flowed immediately!). And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

…But A Hilarious Improv Show To Save The Weekend!

May 11, 2015

BI mentioned on this very blog about two years ago that if you’re not following comedian Richie Moriarty, you’re missing out!

And I still feel that way. And he did his first improv show in Los Angeles on February 28th. Obviously I had to go. Let’s get real. This is @richietown here!

I tweet with him every once in a while. (I know, #SoFamous ;)) And when I was talking about how much I wanted a show in Los Angeles, he told me there was one!

When I arrived at IO West, from the other side of the street, I saw him walking with his whole crew of guys. What? Richie Moriarty as I live and breathe?!

We met at the door and I practically screamed out, “Oh my god. You’re my Justin Bieber!” He laughed, said he was happy I came out (who, me?), and said to say hi after (who, me?!).

At the end of the show they announced onstage that they’d all be going to Outpost, this close-by bar. So, I thought, “hmmm, basically this whole audience has been invited to the after-party. And I’m part of the audience… So, uh, I’m invited, right?”

Well, I went and hung out in the bar/lobby area (where everybody hangs before/after shows). I saw Richie. We talked a bit. He was in high demand. After a clutch conversation (I never say say clutch, but I like it here for some reason) – he had to keep working the room.

But he was a total sweetheart taking an interest in this stranger’s (my) life. After we were done talking, I made my way around talking to other people. Everybody seemed pretty nice and cool and fun. So why not stick around to meet some strangers?

As the guys had said it would, eventually the party moved to Outpost. One of the guys in the cast asked me if I wanted to come along. Wait. I’m invited? Heck yeah, I’ll come along!

I said my one dream of the night was to get a picture with Richie. This other cast member (the one who invited me to Outpost), thought that was hilarious – but he came through for me! He was all, “Oh yeah, we can make this happen.”

At Outpost, I got my picture. We all talked and danced the night away. It was brilliant.

Once the bar closed, the guy who invited me to Outpost then asked if I wanted to come to the after party! Me, still? Heck yeah, I want to go!

People piled into Ubers and we all went to another cast member’s apartment where we talked and danced until after 6 in the morning. (What?!)

It was so fun! It made me feel like I was in high school all over again – when you’re just staying up late, not worrying about responsibilities, being silly with other people. I loved it!

Oh, what a night!

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 30 (The Test Results Phone Call)

May 10, 2015

Aurora with such an excited face at Native Foods Cafe
It was a sad phone call, but here’s a happy photo from one of the many times I got to eat at the Native Foods Cafe by the hospital. Yum!

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

So, Dr R. calls me.

He let’s me know that the protein in my urine is still high. (My understanding is that it’s even higher this time.)

I’m having a really hard time hearing this news. I was just so sure, since I’d passed urine tests less than 2 years ago, that I’d pass this one.

All I’d done was get healthier in that time. I worked out more (and better). I ate healthier. My body was stronger. It seemed surreal – no way could there be a test with a problem.

I can’t remember all of the details of the conversation. The only thing I can remember with clarity is the glaring part that stuck out to me. I was asking what I had to do to fix it – what I could do to be a living kidney donor.

And he said I needed to stop worrying about being a kidney donor, and worry about myself. I was no longer a potential kidney donor; I was now a kidney patient.

What?

He told me not to be worried. I wasn’t in any immediate danger or anything. He didn’t want to make things sound worse than they were. Nonetheless, he still wanted to stress the seriousness of this.

Aurora eating a fake chicken wing
(Mmm vegan “chicken”.)

He let me know I should have a nephrologist keep an eye on me – that I should probably be tested every 6 months to a year, to see if the problem gets any worse.

He talked about the possibility of maybe being my nephrologist, if I wanted.

Again, so many thoughts were swirling, there wasn’t any real planning or decision-making happening in this phone call (other than his decision that I’m a “kidney patient now, not a kidney donor”).
[*eyes look down sadly and wistfully*]

While on the phone with Dr. R, I mentioned having peed in cups. I mentioned doing the ultramarathon. I even mentioned getting my deep tissue massage that week.

(Only after my massage hurt so much did I look more into deep tissue massages… I read in some articles that if deep tissue massages are too deep, they can push more protein into your urine… Of course that was from the random internet rabbit hole. What does the internet really know?)

Anyway, I mentioned everything I thought could’ve even maybe had an impact on my test. But he said none of that should’ve affected it. He said we could technically do the test one more time, but the chances that things would be different (after two results in a row of elevated protein) were slim. So, he didn’t recommend it.

And then came the most heartbreaking part of it to me, which is where I’ll pick up next time.

Thoughts At The End Of 52 Volunteer Activities In 52 Weeks – Part 2 (Habits & Thoughts For The Future)

May 5, 2015

Picking up from yesterday –

For me, I think the point(s) of these projects is to strengthen habits I’d like to get in to, and to expand my world view – learning/trying new things, meeting new people, and all that fun stuff.

As far as the habits I’m trying to strengthen, basically I’m trying to be a well-rounded person. For me, I basically think of that of a strong foundation of 4 pillars:

1) Creativity
2) Athleticism (Or at least just taking pretty good care of your body)
3) Service/Community (Engaging in helping to make the world around you better, volunteering, etc. (In the words of Michael Jackson, “Heal the world. Make it a better place…” I don’t necessarily mean it in the sense of being involved with your local community, but humankind in general (though that often can be helped through the local level).))
4) Smarts (“Intellectualism” sounded too stuffy. “Academia” made it sound like it’s all about school. But basically, I just mean learning more, being aware of the world around you (and hopefully at least semi-well-read), and able to form some thoughts/opinions/and all that jazz.)

If you think I missed anything in the pillars, please let me know! I always love to hear other opinions on this kind of stuff, and get more ideas.

Anyway, it seems I’m kind of going a pillar at a time. I think the half marathons definitely helped strengthen the athleticism – as I still run and have gone on to broaden what I do there (such as ultramarathons and obstacle courses).

And I believe (though time will tell) that this project helped strengthen the service/community pillar. As I mentioned yesterday, it didn’t feel like quite as much of one big project. So, I think that may have made it less of a habit-building year for me. But I still did it enough, that volunteering has made it’s way into my pretty regular rotation of things to do.

As far as how this will grow or change in the future (as the half marathoning grew into the other stuff), I’m really not sure right now.

As I mentioned in one of my halfway posts, it’s a real bummer when you don’t do anything. As I also mentioned, I loved doing new stuff. So I think I will probably focus on activities where either it really looks like I’m gonna get to help and/or I get to do something I haven’t done before (or haven’t done often).

I do think having a lot of responsibility is fun. And it might be fun to do a longer-term project where you have a real role (such as helping to plan an event). I don’t know that that will happen anything in the near future. But it’s something to think about!

Overall, I’d call this a good project. I’m happy I did it. And now I like to think I hopefully have two pretty strong pillars (of the four I mentioned). How to strengthen another one? Hmmmm, I’ve been thinking about that. So, let’s talk about it sometime!

Thoughts At The End Of 52 Volunteer Activities In 52 Weeks – Part 1 (A Recap & Comparison)

May 4, 2015

In case you missed it, I finished! All 52 volunteer activities complete (within the 52 weeks, of course). [*Does a little dance*]

(It ran February 20, 2014 – February 18, 2015.)

So, what thoughts do I have to give now that it’s over? Well, my thoughts from the midpoint have not changed.

Here they are:
Part 1 – An Interesting, Enlightening, and Worthwhile Project
Part 2 – Some of the Meh Stuff, Like When You’re Not Needed
Part 3 – A Little More Meh Stuff, Like Needing An Occassional Attitude Adjustment
Part 4 – Lessons I’d Take Away For Volunteer Coordinating

Really, those are all the main thoughts I have on it.

Other small things are that sometimes you could stay later to be more helpful, or you’d want to stay later to talk to people, and if you scheduled yourself for another thing you wouldn’t always have the time. So, it’s nice to give breathing room when possible. (You definitely won’t always need it, but it can be nice when it’s there.)

Also, even though it’s easy to volunteer at most things, there are some where you really have to plan ahead of time. For instance, I tried to volunteer for the Boston Marathon (2014 – within the year of this project). I’d always wanted to and loved any excuse to go back to my old neighborhood. But I think it was a lottery system or application or something. I forget the specifics, but know I didn’t get picked.

(If you want to volunteer at a Disney race you have to sign up early as well.) So, the in-demand nature of certain volunteer positions was also interesting to me.

Lastly, here’s a kind of over-reaching thought now that I’ve reached the end of this project…

Not that I need to compare this to the 52 half marathons project, but since it’s my frame of reference, I will.

One thing I really liked about the 52 half marathons project was that I really felt like I experienced the whole year I did it. Sometimes years go by and I think, “What? How did that happen? Wasn’t it just January?”

But during the 52 half marathons project, it felt like a year. I did tons of traveling and planning (and running, and more). The year felt long (in a good way) and full.

So, I thought doing another 52 in 52 project would help 2014 to feel that way.. But it didn’t feel quite the same.

During the running project, there were some weeks I didn’t have a race (and some when I had multiple races). But for the most part, I was probably doing a half marathon during at least 3 weeks of almost every month.

With the volunteer activities, I’d do a bunch in a short time, then I wouldn’t do any for a while. Flipping through my calendar, it looks like there are multiple times where 5 (or even more) weeks went by where I either didn’t do any activities, or I maybe did one in that whole time span (of over a month!).

I don’t think I did the project “wrong.” It was just different. And it didn’t feel, I guess, as overarching as one big project as the 52 half marathons did. Again, not bad. Just different.

And I’ll pick up with one more post about this tomorrow.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 29 (Turning In The 2nd Urine Collection & Waiting For Results)

May 3, 2015

Aurora giving face with urine sample
Posing with my pee containers 😛

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

I didn’t do much of anything the rest of the night, so that I wouldn’t have to do anymore pee transporting in restaurant cups (aye, aye, aye).

The next morning (October 11th), I woke up early to get out to UCLA and turn in my pee – in time to turn around to Pasadena for my monthly morning Mensa board meeting (of the LA chapter) .

I turned in two full containers to UCLA. The woman in the lab said, “I can’t believe so much could come out of such a small person!”

I was still very much new to not being quite so fat. Even at the time you’re reading this, I still might be getting used to being thinner. So, anytime anyone calls me small, I throw a ticker tape parade in my head – making that interaction really fun for me.

For anyone following how many millions of times I talk about Native Foods Cafe in these posts (they don’t give me anything to mention them, I just love them) – alas, they were not open before I had to leave Westwood. (That’s why I mentioned the detail about that morning meeting I had to get to). Oh well. I’m sure there will be many more visits to UCLA.

(Spoiler alert: There won’t be another one until much later than I thought.)

Aurora De Lucia smiling with urine samplesI thought I’d done everything right. I didn’t work out at all for 5 days leading up to the test. Heck, I barely even had any protein! I was eating carbs, carbs all the time – just in case.

On October 13th, I got an email from my donor coordinator saying Dr. R would call me with the results.

Wait, what?

I kind of assumed I’d get a happy email from her asking me to set up my final urine collection after this one came back in the normal range.

I didn’t think it was a good sign that I had to wait for a doctor’s call. That usually means bad news if you have to hear something straight from the doctor, right?

I tried not to worry too much about it. Maybe he wants to call to give me the good news! I don’t know.

When I don’t hear from him after a day or two, I reach out to my donor coordinator asking when I should expect the call. Then I find out he’s out of town.

On October 17th, he calls me.

[*hangs head*]

This is where we’ll pick up next time.

(#53 – Bonus!) Rube Goldberg Machines with Maker Guilds (March 5, 2015)

May 2, 2015

One of the things I found really helpful in 52 half marathons project was doing a bonus 53rd race at the end.

(I mean, technically it was ridiculous, and my body was so tired. And I sort of hurt my back a bit. So, I’m not sure it was the smartest thing ever. However…)

What I liked about it was that looking back, I think it would’ve been sort of easy to say, “Project done. So tired. The end. Get out of my face, running.” But I think by then doing another race that wasn’t totally part of the project, it helped propel me forward into keeping the habit of running going.

(After all, isn’t that kind of the point of the project? To strengthen something about my life that I wanted to work on? (Not to just do something then abandon it.))

So, I felt I needed to do the same thing with the volunteer activities. I found a listing to help this place called The Maker Guilds (part of a place called The Exploratory). The goal is to provide STEAM (Science, Tech, Engineering, Art & Math) to under-served communities.

Maker Guilds was holding an event at a library in Hollywood where kids would learn about Rube Goldberg machines. Only one child showed up and there were three of us there to help. So, the teacher asked if I wanted to try my hand at one. Do I?!

So, basically, this wasn’t so much of a volunteer event as just playtime for me – fun (albeit stressful) playtime.

First, when I was given the contraption, I was told the lever needed to move to hit the cart to make the cart go down the ramp. My first instinct was to have something going across that would make the downside of the lever jump up instead of having something from press from above to make the other side of the lever go down. (Does that make sense?)

Apparently most people start with figuring out a way to get the level to go down, not up. So, when I started with my way, one of the main volunteers there said, “Wow, we’ve got a genius with us today!”

Okay, well that is a lot of pressure!

I used what I was seeing another volunteer do as inspiration to help me better understand the thought process behind certain things. Eventually, I did get mine to work. Then I built back to make it slightly more complicated. Then I got it to work… one time. I tried to duplicate it, but there was never quite enough force to do it again. At that point, the activity was almost over. So I couldn’t go back to the drawing board to try anything new.

It was a bummer not to be able to re-create it (with the new beginning), but since I could do it with extra steps (but not so many extra), and since I was able to do the more complicated way at least once, I’m just gonna call it a win. Is that cool; can I have that?

Then I helped carry the supplies out to a car (the one really volunteer-y thing I did. And that was number 53! We’re done, baby.

Soon up – a conclusion post about the 52 volunteer activities.

(#52) Children of the Night (“Empowering Youth With Creative Games”) – Part 2 (More “Would You Rather”s, Plus The Main Activity)

May 1, 2015

Picking up from last time –

I was a little excited for my “would you rather” question. Even though I know they’re pretty silly and don’t really matter in the grand scheme of things since you’ll never need to answer in real life, they’re still fun.

I easily knew my answers to some of the ones being asked around the table.

There were a number of them I found pretty interesting – would you rather lose your sight or hearing? Would you rather lose your hair (without the possibility for it to grow back) or your sense of smell?

I feel like there are legitimate sides your could take and debates you could make about pros and cons.

Then my question was, “Would you rather have your skin turn purple or blue?” Come on now! Those both sound terrible. How am I supposed to get hired for anything with purple or blue skin?

That question was the first thing I said. Then someone piped up and said, “Well, with blue skin, you could at least in Avatar and The Blue Man Group.

Smart.

So, I went with blue. Some opportunities are better than none. (And yes, I suppose technically with purple skin you could possibly make your own opportunities. Anything is possible…)

Anyway, enough with the ice breakers. We moved on to the main activity.

It was all about seeing your life in the future. There were 10 questions all about where you wanted to be in 10 years – what would you like? Where would you live? What transportation would you use?

And then you got to draw a little 4-drawing story on the other side to show something that’d happen in your life.

(In case your wondering, mine was my Broadway debut. It was me onstage with the ghostlight looking at an empty theater, excited for butts in the seat, then people in the theater waiting with anticipation before the curtain comes up. The 3rd photo was my curtain call. And the last one was my dad and high school theater teacher waiting to take me out for dinner.)

We went around the table as each girl told us about her upcoming life. It was crazy to hear some of them say things such as “Well, in 10 years, I’ll be 24 years old.” It was also slightly crazy to hear some of them react to that realization with, “Oh my gosh, I’ll be soooooo old!”

Yeah. You’ll be ancient when you’re 24. (I know I totally just said that with sarcasm, but in Los Angeles, I don’t blame them for feeling that way. I sometimes feel that way!)

Anyway, it was interesting to hear how packed full of hope so many of the stories were – and how vivid some of the pictures were. I know we were supposed to be there to help them, but I think seeing the world through such hopeful and vivid eyes is perhaps something they helped to show us.

(#52) Children of the Night (“Empowering Youth With Creative Games”) – Part 1 (“Would You Rather” Ice Breakers) (February 18, 2015)

April 30, 2015

Children of the Night is an organization that rescues children from prostitution. (You can read about the organization here.)

There is a group that goes in once a week with a new creative activity to help the children/teens.

I totally believe in using creativity for good, and I think it really can do a lot of good. So, I was in to go help out and see what this was all about.

When we got there, we all met on the sidewalk. We all gathered as a group 1st so that people wouldn’t need to be buzzed in to the building one by one. Everyone was super nice.

Once we went in to the lobby, we signed in and there was a little speech given about the rules before we were let into another layer of restricted area (the one where we met the girls). The rules were basically:
No photos inside, since you never know who’s looking to kidnap these girls back.
No touching unless it’s initiated by one of the girls – no hugs, no high-fives, no handshakes, no nothing unless she initiates it.
No talking of the past. They’re here to move on. So, we wanted to stay away from the past. We were told that if one of the girls brings up her past, we can talk about it with her, as we don’t want to shut anyone down. But we were not to bring it up.

At the beginning of the night, we played an icebreaker game. One of the group leaders had printed off innocent would-you-rather questions he found online. Each person around the circle would be given a different question.

One was “would you rather be able to change the past, or be able to see the future?” As soon as he started reading “change the past,” I felt this sense of “Uh oh. Didn’t we just hear these rules?” I know he did it on accident, but you could feel the tension on the volunteer side of the table as the girls erupted into opinions. It was definitely the most talked about question of the night.

Ultimately, the girl who answered said she would not change the past because she loves who she is, and she doesn’t know whom she’d be if she’d had a different past.

I thought that was an incredibly… I don’t even know what word I’m looking for. I don’t want to say grown-up answer because I don’t want to sound patronizing to her (or make it sound like grown-ups have it together). But it just seemed very self-aware and kind to herself.

And this is where we’ll pick up next time.

 

(#51b) Mensa Regional Gathering – Running The Money Box (February 13, 2015)

April 28, 2015

I mentioned last time how happy I was to get a Mensa event in (as it had been a smaller side goal of mine)!

On Friday night, I worked at the registration table. And my job was to keep watch of the money box. I’d worked registration tables before, but hadn’t been in charge of the money during any of my 52 volunteer activities.

Of course, this makes sense. I was always a stranger, so who’s gonna trust me? But I think here, since I’m on the board and everything, they were cool.

(Side note: I guess thinking about it, I was responsible for taking some payments at two different silent auctions. So, I have done some semi-money handling during this project. Still, I think this was my first time with the cash box.)

Of course, I gave them no reason not to trust me since the money all balanced out… Granted, most people payed with checks so that wasn’t really all that hard.

I logged everything I took in. I gave everyone the correct stickers to get into whatever they were buying. And I had a partner at the desk help me make sure everybody was getting their sticker. (Teamwork makes the dream work, after all, right?)

The only thing that could’ve made this a little better would’ve been a cheat sheet for what things cost. We kept having to look it up on our phones, which was fine. I hardly know how to function without my iPhone. So, of course she worked beautifully. But, I think one cheat sheet with prizes would’ve been cool.

(Just thought I should throw that in since I’m always looking for ways to make things better, since this 52 in 52 project has also helped me to better plan events and empower volunteers (if ever I have a job to do that).

The registration table is a pretty nice place to work since you get to meet a bunch of people. I’d be open to doing it at this event next year.

So, there you have it. #51 down. One more to go!

And I’ll have one more post (unrelated to volunteering) all about the conference in general.

(#51a) Mensa Regional Gathering – (Hodge Podge Stuff) (February 14 – 15, 2015)

April 27, 2015

I went to a Mensa Regional Gathering that lasted for a 3-day weekend, and I did various things throughout the weekend. So, I almost counted this as #51 and #52.

After all, even though it was the same organization, it was over different days and it involved different activities. Couldn’t that count? Well, I didn’t want to do anything on a fine line. So, I’m gonna put kind of the leftovers from the weekend here, and we’ll do “real #51” (an activity from the weekend I hadn’t yet done) next. Sound good? Great. Let’s do it!

I’m so happy I finally made my way around to volunteering at a Mensa event. I’ve been on the board for over a year and a half, and I had yet to really get involved in any meaningful way. So, this was pretty lovely.

Some of the extra things I did over the weekend included:
– Helping serve food at dinner.

(I’d done that for a previous volunteer activity – which actually kinda helped me learn how not to spill bean juice (when I ended up on beans again). So, that was pretty cool. Learning, baby!)

I got to stand next to some fun silly people also helping to serve food. And we got to serve some fun people as well. I forget how it came up, but I mentioned I went to Berklee. And one person said, “Whoa. Berklee?! That’s like the MIT of music schools!” And I was all, “Oh, thank you so much.” Then he said his wife went to MIT and he went to Harvard, so we were all kind of Boston buddies. And I just thought, “Yep. This is a Mensa convention all right.”

Speaking of the food, I’d heard this was the first year that they had someone in charge of vegan and vegetarian options, and I just want to say bravo! We got Veggie Grill one day and Native Foods (my favorite!) the next. There was so much! And I never like to let any Native Foods go to waste. So, my stomach was practically bursting by the end of the weekend. (Sorry, stomach.)

– Speaker shepherding

Basically, we just needed to make sure speakers got to their rooms and had everything they needed. And sometimes we gave a little intro. My speakers were so on top of everything. They had their set-ups down to a science, and they were in their rooms early. So, conceivably I “helped” by being there, but I didn’t do much.

– Working with the kids.

Yet again, I felt there wasn’t a ton I needed to do here. There were plenty of other adults in the room watching the kids and helping them with various activities. I did get to answer a few questions here and there for parents. So, again, I kind of sort of did stuff. I mean, I did give my time. So, I guess that was something. But, ultimately, I basically just played with the leftover frosting in the kids’ cookie decorating class.

And we’ll get to my real 51st volunteer activity next!

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 28 (Peeing In Cups…From A Coffee Shop)

April 26, 2015

Aurora with her pee cups Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

So, that Friday, October 10th, I did my 24-hour urine collection.

I volunteered at the Long Beach Half Marathon expo that day. I figured that with a shift that was only a few hours long, I’d be able to get there and get back without having to pee.

(During my first 24-hour urine collection, I volunteered at a pirate night without any issues. I guess I must’ve drank more water this time around or something.)

In the middle of my time at the expo, I felt I kind of needed to pee, but figured I could still hold it ’til I got home.

I hadn’t peed much at all during my first urine collection. So, on the one hand, I was trying to remedy that, and make sure I stayed hydrated. On the other, I couldn’t pee until I got home. I didn’t find the right balance.

Once I felt I had to pee, I really slowed down on water, but it was a bit too late. Toward the end of my time at the expo, I was feeling it.

Aurora eyes wide with pee cupsAs I left, I thought about what to do. I almost just called a car to go home. But I kind of thought even though that would be faster, that sitting would be worse than standing on the train – I really had to pee at this point.

So, I went toward the train. But there was construction happening, so there was a bus transfer… I saw getting home was going to take way longer than it normally would have (which already would’ve usually been an hour).

I didn’t think I could wait until I got home.

As I mentioned, UCLA’s paperwork said you could use a different container. So, I figured using a different one for an hour or so couldn’t be awful. I ran into the nearest coffee shop I could find, bought two of the biggest empty cups they had, ran into the bathroom and filled them both up with pee.

I thought I was being generous with space, buying two cups – yet I still had to pee once they were full! But I could at least wait on the rest of it ’til I got home.

Then I had to very carefully get on the subway. This was so embarrassing carrying around two pee cups! Granted, I’m pretty sure most of LA smells of urine, and I’m sure crazier things have been carried on the subway. So, it was fine.

I just certainly didn’t want to spill any. (How embarrassing would that have been?) So, I handled them with extreme care.

I did indeed make it home without any crazy incident with my pee cups. The first thing I did was pee out the rest (since, in the hour or so it took to get home, my desire to pee grew and grew).

Then I transferred all the pee into my container.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

(#50) Tech Mentor for After School Music Program – Part 3 (My Contribution)

April 24, 2015

Picking up from last time –

As far as how I contributed, there wasn’t tons for me to do. I did get to answer a question about Garageband. (I got to show how to bring up automation for volume, so you could change the volume levels throughout a track.)

That one felt especially cool because before the program started, as we were setting up, I familiarized myself with the new version of Garageband (since some of the computers were running that).

One of the things I didn’t immediately see how to do was show automation for your tracks. I thought if there’s anything these students are going to ask (since it’s helpful to working out your arrangement and not immediately visible in the program), it’s going to be how to change volume, panning, etc. throughout the track (that sweet, sweet automation).

So, I looked it up. And wouldn’t you know it, that’s the exact thing that came in helpful later! “Aurora do you know how to do this?”
“Oh, yeah.” [*Confidently walks over*] Just go up to “mix” in the menu. Now “show automation.” Great. Now you can choose what you want to see. You’re looking for volume, which is the default right here.

Ba-bam!

And that pretty much covers my entire contribution – showing someone how to do one thing (which google could’ve done, but let’s all choose to believe I’m cooler than google).

The students were surprisingly self-sufficient. I guess I shouldn’t say surprisingly, as I know high schoolers are smart. I just remember being at Berklee and one of the first classes you take is intro to Music Tech.

I studied up for a day and tested out of that class. But still, as was mentioned (by other people) earlier in this day, Berklee is one of the best music schools around and even they have to acquaint much of the incoming student population with Garageband. So, I dunno. Maybe I’m behind the times or something, but I still thought it was pretty impressive that these students had such a great grasp on it.

We (adult mentors) walked around a bit, looking at their screens, trying to see if anyone needed help and was perhaps too quiet to ask. But everyone was happily working away on their own.

Basically, all around applause – to the students working so hard, and the school for offering this, and especially Lauren and Harley for running such a program. What a volunteer activity! This was truly lovely.

(#50) Tech Mentor for After School Music Program – Part 2 (How Cool Is This Program?)

April 23, 2015

I thought this program was pretty darn cool. It sounds like what they’ve been doing for the past few weeks is having musicians of different instruments come in, and record some stuff. I guess they talk about their instrument and life as a musician. Then they all laid down tracks in the same key at the same tempo.

Now that there are plenty of different things to choose from – different drum kits, brass instruments, vocals, electronic sounds, strings, and such – all the tracks were set up in GarageBand so the students could go through them and decide what they wanted for their song.

Some people were going after more of a techno feel. Some were going for more acoustic. It was incredibly cool to see the ways different people could take the same options and make things that were totally different.

Then, once the students had their jumping off point, they got to write their own part for their instrument that they’d add to make the song even more their own.

Before we even started working in Garageband, the afternoon was started off with the people running the program telling the high schoolers about a couple of song contests they could enter. I thought that elevated everything to an even higher level of awesomeness. ‘Cause not only are we gonna make some music here. We’re gonna have a goal to add to it.

I also thought something that was quite interesting was that immediately after the contests were introduced, the first question (phrased exactly like this) was, “Can we collaborate?” The first instinct wasn’t to try to one-up everybody else in the class. It was to work together. I thought that was probably a testament to the kind of program Lauren and Harley are running.

(Don’t get me wrong. I’m slightly obsessed with competition and being the best… I still thought it was nice though that the students wanted to work together.)

And I’ll pick up here next time.

(#50) Tech Mentor for After School Music Program – Part 1 (What a Small World!) (February 9, 2014)

April 22, 2015

This one blew my mind!

Let’s think back to almost a year ago. For the 3rd of my 52 volunteer activities, I helped tear apart a school’s library in Watts, as part of its renovation.  We were told they were going to transformation it into a creative space that could be used in various ways.

Well, I saw a listing looking for someone to help on the tech side of an after-school music program – helping with GarageBand and such. Well, I did study Music Production & Engineering at Berklee College of Music. I think (hope) I know enough about GarageBand to help most high schoolers.

So, I happily signed up. (At the time I signed up, I didn’t know where the school was – just what they were looking for.)

I’m sure you probably see where this awesome story is going. The program was held in the new renovated library space! I got to see the finished product, and I got to see that the school really was using the space to do creative things with students after all!

It tickled me and warmed my heart so much to be present for that!

So, that’s the most amazing part of the story, but now I’ll get into the actual event itself.

It was slightly nerve-wracking for me to go help with music stuff. There were three other amazing adult musicians there. So, uh, who am I? And they always introduce new people to the students (of course). When I was introduced, they said, “She studied Music Engineering at Berklee College of Music. I don’t know if you know this, but it’s one of the best music schools in the country.” Then, one of the other leaders of the group jumped in and said, “One of the best in the world.”

Okay, that is obviously true (and awesome – I kind of love when people get all impressed about where I went to school). But it’s still a lot to live up to!

And I’ll pick up here next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 27 (Timing of the 2nd 24-Hour Urine Collection)

April 19, 2015

Aurora De Lucia in the batmobile
Obviously working super hard on one of our shoot days (on the show I mention in the post)

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

So, all that’s left are the 24-hour urine collections.

Being that my medical tests in Ohio were fine, the protein in my urine must’ve just looked elevated because of all my working out. That had to be what it was, right?

Dr. R wasn’t concerned. I wasn’t concerned. We were sure it was just a fluke, as he even said exercise can make the tests results look like something they’re not really.

All during September, I was on a crazy show with tons of constant schedule changes. (For anyone who’s wondering, I was a Segment Producer on Living with the Jacksons – yes those Jacksons. Just ask me about Jermaine. ;))

It was my producer credit 0 and I was the one one, aside from the EP. So, all the segments, all the logistics, all the guest cast people; all planned by yours truly. If you need a producer, I’m your girl! 🙂

I was working overtime – super overtime. Basically, I was always working. (Not to oversell it, but I think it may have been the toughest job I’ve had.) I never really knew when I could get to the lab. (I know. I hate excuses too.) Sure, it was open 7 days a week. So, at some point, I should’ve been able to make it work…

But, you know [wah wah], we were not a Monday – Friday job. We were a “possibly anyplace, anytime” job. A lot of times we’d get days off (or new days on) at the last minute. Since the schedule was ever-changing, even if I could’ve made it to the lab, I certainly never had the 5-day advance notice to know not to work out.

Aurora De Lucia pulling up weight at Hercules Hoist during the Spartan Trifecta in a day
(And here’s a shot from that 50k obstacle course)

Also, I think if I hadn’t worked out for 5 days straight on a show that stressful, I may have just straight up died from it. (Probably not… but you never know.)

So, as much as I wanted to keep the ball rolling, I just couldn’t make the next test happen until October.

I’d gotten a free entry to this crazy 31-mile(!) obstacle course run on October 4th. So, I decided I would do that and then finally take the 5 days of no working out. I wanted to push myself to the max so that hopefully 5 days would go by pretty quickly.

And it did.

The only thing that was a slight bummer was I wanted to stay in Ohio for just a couple of days more. But, I wanted to make sure I did my urine test right on day 6 (after 5 days of rest). (I didn’t want to take any more workout time off than I had to.) UCLA doesn’t use any remote labs. So, I had to be home basically by the 9th to grab my container and start my test on the 10th.

(I couldn’t have stayed in Ohio that much longer anyway, as I started my new job on the 13th. So, I wasn’t missing out on too terribly much.)

At UCLA, for the 24-hour-urine collection, they say you can use your own clean container if you want (e.g. an empty gallon of water). I did that the first time, but I preferred to just use the one from them this time to be extra careful. So, on the 9th, I trekked over there and got a container (and some delicious Native Foods Cafe – which became one of the best things about trips to UCLA).

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

Hiking To The Hollywood Sign! – Part 3 (Getting To The Hollywood Sign) (February 5, 2015)

April 16, 2015

Picking up from last time –

We turned right on the road.

Side note: Later on the way back down, we kept going on the road to see what would’ve happened if we’d turned left. Not much happens. It doesn’t go that much farther. You do get a pretty nice view of the front of the sign, but it’s not all that close up.

One group of hikers we’d passed on the way there suggested going around the small gate that said no trespassing. I don’t know how far they went up. It sounded pretty fun to be bad and try that… But! I didn’t want to go to jail or get fined or whatever. So, we stopped at the gate.

Anyway, going back to when we went to the right, we came around the back of the Hollywood sign. Once we got up there, it leads you to this huge fence. There are cameras up looking at you. I’ve heard if you try to jump the fence, people come grab you practically immediately.

I don’t know how it happens, or where they come from. But I’m just gonna stay behind the fence.

I was so distracted by the awesome Hollywood sign in front of us, I didn’t even notice at first that there was another little hill behind us where we could get an even better view!

So, we climbed up the back of that one last hill. Then we started in with the picture taking. We each gave various fun poses in front of the sign. When they added the panorama camera to the iPhone, I’d always kind of wondered, “When will the panorama really come in handy for me?” Well, I finally found out! The panorama is the perfect thing for the Hollywood sign!

After we took approximately a million photos, it was time to head back down. But first I took a few seconds to just take in the beauty – not with a camera, just look at it with my actual eyes. And that was really nice.

We made our way back down the mountain. On the way down, we say people taking a sunset horse tour which seemed sort of interesting. I didn’t realize horses like to ride at the edge of the mountain. That seems a bit scary. But people were having a grand ol’ time, and no one got hurt (as far as we saw). So, do your thing, horses.

Charles and I had started the hike probably around 3pm, which seemed to be pretty perfect timing. We went up as it was cooling down outside. (It was still pretty warm, but at least we got the tail end.) And we got down to the bottom just as it was getting quite dark.

A lovely day. A lovely hike. Yet another thing in Los Angeles complete!

Hiking To The Hollywood Sign! – Part 2 (First Half of the Hike) (February 5, 2015)

April 15, 2015

Picking up from yesterday –

One of the first things we passed was a skateboard area that people were using to their heart’s content. What a cool little out-of-the-way interesting skate park. I’ve never ridden a skateboard (though maybe I should), and if you do, you should consider checking it out.

We passed the skateboarders to the meat of the hike. There’s a lot of uphill at the beginning, which is lovely. It feels like a workout. (Oh yeah!)

We stopped a couple of times to kind of take in the scenery (which was pretty beautiful… sometimes). (I’ll get to that sometimes in a sec.)

Toward the beginning of the hike, it was sort of funny because we saw the Hollywood sign and it looked pretty far in the distance. This was only supposed to be about a 3-mile hike up. So, Charles thought we might’ve picked the wrong trail. (“Come on! Look at how far away that looks. We can’t be going the right way.”)

But I was pretty convinced that 3 miles could look that far away. Luckily, there were other hikers coming down. We asked them, and they assured us we were indeed on the correct trail.

Getting back to the beautiful (most of the time ;)) scenery – there were pretty views of the city. (It’s a little incredibly to me that LA feels super spread out, yet from parts of this mountain you can see Burbank, downtown, Hollywood, and more. The higher you go, the less spread out it seems. But I suppose that’s how perspective works.

The reason I say the scenery is beautiful most of the time is because there is this thick, black, totally interesting, actually sort of pretty in its own way, layer of smog that coats Los Angeles. You can see it differently from different places. It’s certainly something.

There were a couple of places where we could choose to go left or right along the way. We’d been given a heads up by hikers before us, and thankfully we always chose the right way (though I did wonder what would’ve happened if we’d turned right at one of the points… Would that trail have led all the way over to the observatory? I couldn’t tell in the vastness at which we were looking.

The one thing every hiker wanted to impress upon us was that when we get to the road, we turn right. So, once we got there we dutifully followed.

(We’re almost there!)

And I’ll pick this up next time.

Hiking To The Hollywood Sign! – Part 1 (Pre-Hike Chapter) (February 5, 2015)

April 14, 2015

There was this cool night AE I worked with on a Project Runway spinoff who kept inviting me out on group outings and such.

I felt so bad because I’m always complaining about how no one in L.A. wants to do anything. (It can be so annoying!) Yet, here I had someone inviting me on multiple fun adventures, and every time I had to say no (mainly because The Jacksons ran my life for a couple of months, which I loved and all… point is, I couldn’t hang out).

Well, we still stayed in touch, even though he’d pretty much given up on me being a cool hang out person. But alas, when I wrote him to say, “hey, cool newsletter you sent out to people,” he asked if I wanted to do something!

Wouldn’t you know it? We were both funemployed (that’s just a happy way of saying unemployed), so sure! Of course I’ll go hang out in the middle of the afternoon on a Tuesday because why not?

I went to the red line station by his house. He said, “What do you want to do?” Then he started listing a bunch of things. “Eating? Movies? Hiking? Golf?” (I don’t know that he actually said golf. I sort of forget everything after hiking. The point is, he gave multiple options and seemed like he was up for basically anything.)

Another super cool friend of mine had recently instagrammed about hiking to the Hollywood sign (and she got a sweet picture). I asked if she’d give me the trail she hiked on, and she happily texted it me. Since that was fresh on my mind, I said, “I’d love to go hiking! How about to the Hollywood sign?”

Even though I’ve lived here for 3 1/2 years, and he’s lived here for 7, neither of us had hiked to the Hollywood sign before (which seemed a little preposterous to me, so I’m glad we remedied that).

I whipped out the webpage my friend had given me. Thankfully, you could click on parking directions and they opened in google maps. Griffith Park is huge. So, the directions proved wildly helpful.

I didn’t realize ’til later that for whatever reason, only part of the web page was showing up on my phone. Once we got to the parking area, there were a few different trails you could enter. I kind of wondered why the web page wasn’t super specific about which trail you go on. Later when I opened it on my desktop, I saw it was wildly specific. So, my bad on that.

We asked some fellow hikers which trail to take, and soon enough we were on our way. This is where I’ll pick up tomorrow.

My Experience At Free Museum Day (in LA)!

April 13, 2015

I’ve given the tips and asked my curious questions, but now it’s time to just talk about my experience during the day.

I can hardly believe how many times I’ve passed both LACMA and the Page Museum when I used to live in that area, but never went in. Finally, it happened! (About time, Aurora. Eeesh.)

As far as LACMA was concerned, one of the things I really love about it is how big it is. I got to do a fair amount of walking, and that was quite lovely.

I heard a tour going by and listened to to the docent describe one of the paintings. She was really interesting (and therefore good at her job). The person I was with had taken some classes in art history. So, everything he was hearing about Picasso was boring common knowledge to him. To me, I found it pretty riveting.

This is perhaps a sign I should take an art history class or go to more museums and/or museums more often (than once every two years or something)… Realistically, I don’t really think either of those things are going to happen. However, I can still enjoy the bits and pieces I pick up here and there from errant museum docents around town.

My favorite piece in the museum was a little statue of baby angels with the girl rough-housing the boy trying to take the crown for herself. Get it, girl.

After LACMA, my friend and I went to the food trucks across the street. There were so many! (I hope they all made lots of money that day – basically I hope everybody who could made money off of free museum day… I know the smart girl scout who stood out by the food trucks seemed to be doing pretty well. Great job, m’lady.)

I ate a Kale Grilled Cheese because I live in Los Angeles. And where else are people going to be eating kale grilled cheeses?

After that, we headed to the Page Museum. It wasn’t as big as LACMA, but the coolest part about that was that there’s this worker fishbowl area where you can see scientists working on projects!

Do you think they love, hate, or are indifferent to people staring at them working all day? I’m going to guess it’s not one size fits all. They probably each feel differently. I bet it’d feel cool and slightly stressful at the same time. It would possibly eventually get old… But it also might go in waves where it gets all exciting again.

Anyway, that pretty much covers free museum day. As I’ve already covered, we could’ve done it better. But not bad for a first try. Got to see some art and see some scientists. I’d call it a lovely day.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 26 (Reflecting On My Ohio Bitterness – Part 2 (I Hope Not!))

April 12, 2015

Aurora giving a little fighter face
My little angry face

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

So, am I angry because I’m fearful that part of what she says may have some truth somewhere in it?

I like to think not. I like to think it’s purely out of what I feel is injustice… It’s a hard question to ask myself though.

Of course I have flaws. And I want to be better with many things. But the Ohio psychologist picked flaws I wasn’t even really considering.

And is that maybe the problem? That I can already list for you things I want to work on, and when she lists this new stuff, I wonder if I have an incorrect view of myself. Am I seeing myself in the wrong light?

I know there’s that whole thing that there is no true one version of you because people see you differently, but there is still, I think, a generally agreed upon version of who someone is. And am I way off base with who I think I am?

Ultimately, I don’t think so. (Am I going in circles here, or what?)

Mainly, I don’t think the mental health people in Ohio liked how stubborn I was. And I already know I’m stubborn! And we just have fundamental differences in opinions on the other stuff.

Yeah, there might be days when I am a little irresponsible. Heck, I admitted being late to one of my appointments! But I’m not irresponsible in the way she thinks I am. She thinks jetting off for two months is irresponsible? I think if I’m not working, I might as well go have a ball! So, we will just have to agree to disagree.

And I am happy that people at UCLA saw me more in the way I see myself. All I can do is continue to try to be better person all the time. I’m not perfect. I never will be. And if someone disagrees with me on the ways in which I’m imperfect, well, as I said at the beginning of this, I have to let it go.

Cory Booker says a quote a lot that’s something along the lines of, “anger is an acid that only eats away at the vessel which holds it.” So, I will do my best not to be angry anymore about those Ohio meetings…

I do find it hard sometimes. It’s not like I think about it all the time… but when I’m reminded by kidney stuff out here, I do get that little twinge of grrrrrr.

So, I will try not to be angry. I will try to completely let it go. And I will very much try to never mention the Ohio psychologist or social worker again in any more posts (unless there is some legitimate reason I feel I need to).

Thanks for letting me just kind of talk this out. And if you have anything to add, I’d love to hear in the comments!

A this is where we’ll pick up next time.

Tips To Conquer Free Museum Day in Los Angeles!

April 10, 2015

I recently learned that once a year there is free museum day in Los Angeles! (This year it was January 15, 2015.) Tons of museums participate.

It’s a pretty cool idea, huh? To get people out and about to museums they might not otherwise go to. (I’m curious if the museums end up making even more money on the free day, but I’ll hypothesize about that later.)

For now, I’m here to give you the tips on if you do free museum day yourself!

1) Take public transportation

Parking in the parking structure by LACMA was so ridiculous (not that you would’ve had any better luck with street parking). We made it in, sure. There is a lot of room. But, we waited for around 20-minutes in what seemed like a never-ending line of cars crawling along the road.

I didn’t care that much. I was with one of my friends and we were jamming out to oldies. However, my word to the wise is just take the bus. A lot of museums are so easily accessible on public transportation. So use it.

2) Pick the museums that don’t have other free options!

LACMA was very cool and big, and I’m glad I got to go. But, it is already open to residents of Los Angeles Mondays – Fridays after 3pm, and it’s free to everyone on the second Tuesday of each month. So, this was kind of a waste in the sense that there were other museums (such as the one for the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences, showing the Hollywood Costume exhibit) that didn’t have free days listed! Aye, aye, aye.

But, we also went to the Page Museum while we were in Museum row. I didn’t see any other free days for that. So, at least we did something right! We did try to go to the Hollywood Costume exhibit somewhat early in the day. But, tons of people had already gotten timed tickets.

So, I guess if you are smart enough to pick one of the museums to which you can’t otherwise get free admission, there may be a bunch of other smart people on your wavelength. You should perhaps consider seeing if you can book those free tickets ahead of time (as people in the Costume line said they did).

3) Maybe use the morning to your advantage (strategize, perhaps)

We arrived at LACMA approximately an hour after it opened and only had to wait in a very short line to get our tickets. I don’t know if there was perhaps an early morning rush right as the museum opened. But I do know that later in the afternoon, the line looked crazy. We went to the Page Museum in the afternoon after LACMA, and the line was crazy there. So, apparently there’s a rush later as either more people make their way up and out of the house, or maybe as they go to their second stop.

So, if you’re going to multiple museums that are close to each other, you might want to get your tickets/stickers/wristbands (whatever they’re using) before you go into any museum. That way you don’t have to worry about spending time in long lines later.

4) Bring single bills if you want to donate (and maybe cash in general)

The museums will ask if you’d like to donate a dollar for entry. You’re obviously free to donate more or nothing at all. But if you think you might like to donate a dollar, think about bringing singles as it’ll make it easier than getting change (as you want to keep those long lines moving).

Also, if you go to Museum Row, there will be food trucks everywhere. Many of them take credit cards. But think about bringing cash if you want, to make things easier.

That’s everything I can think of when it comes to free museum day… If you have more advice (or if you have questions), please give ’em to me in the comments. And now that I’ve given my tips, I’ll talk more about the day soon!

(#49) Homeless Count (January 29, 2015)

April 9, 2015

Hmmm. It’s April, and this project ended in February. Think it’s about time I catch up on these events, or what? 🙂

The homeless count is conducted to try to get a sense of the number of homeless people living in our city, so the government can have a sense of how much money to allocate to various areas.

My understanding is that the LA count takes place over a few different days. (LA’s quite large.) Judging by this article, it sounds like our count sounds may be a little different from counts in other cities. (Or maybe it’s the same and I just don’t have a full overview of the program since I participated in one area on one night.

For out count, we were instructed not to try to engage any homeless people. We were given pamphlets that had information on some programs, and we were told if anyone asks us about what we’re doing, or asks for help, we give a pamphlet.

It sounds like some other cities conduct surveys, seeking out homeless people and asking them questions (and possibly trying to get them services right there?). Again, maybe a different group in our city does that to. But on our night, in our area, we didn’t.

Basically, we all started by meeting up in a conference room downtown. There was a short presentation on what the night would be like, and what we should be counting. (There were spots on the form to count vans people lived in, tents, etc… And of course, there were spots for people themselves.)

We went around the room and introduced ourselves. Then we split into groups of 2 – 4 who each took a different area of the city. Most of the areas available were in downtown, but there were some to which you’d have to drive.

Get this! This was possibly one of the coolest things I’ve experienced since I’ve been in LA. When some of the leaders of this activity asked who was available to drive, you could hear rumblings around the room of nearly everyone saying, “I don’t have a car” or “I didn’t bring a car.”

It was glorious! It seems so many people out here use cars to drive 3 blocks. But downtown, ah downtown has the people with the metropolis mindset. Mmmm

I was paired with a lawyer, a former bodyman for a now-disgraced politician, and the guy who started Peddler’s Creamery (a super cool ice cream place downtown). What a group, huh?

We traversed every corner of our area – including going through all these alleys I never even noticed. (And our blocks were right by apartment! How did I not notice any of these alleys before?)

It rained a little, but not enough to be bothersome.

Some homeless people were on bikes. So, I don’t know if some maybe got counted twice (if they biked to another area and another group saw them) or maybe not at all (if they never happened to bike in the same place people were counting).

There are criticizers of the method of the homeless count. But we did the best we could, and hopefully the count was accurate enough to get the necessary funding to continue working on this problem.

The woman who ran the event was a total hoot! She was practically doing stand-up comedy as we were waiting to be assigned into groups. So, seeing her at the end to give her our tally sheet was a welcome bow on the evening.

Even though it was generally sad to go around counting homeless people, a lot of them were actually laughing and talking to other people. Seeing that happiness was nice. And spending a few hours getting to walk around (in the sweet, sweet darkness without the crazy sun all up on my business) with a totally interesting group was quite lovely.

I’d call it a pretty grand night.

Disney’s Rebel Challenge – Day 2 – Half Marathon – Part 3 (Finishing Out The Race Weekend)

April 8, 2015

Picking up from last time –

So, Disney had this great rotation going. A cast member would come to you when you’re a few people back in line. She’d introduce herself and offer to take your phone camera. Then she’d go up there with you and grab a picture as the MarathonFoto person took one as well.

I really applaud Disney for this awesomeness. It’s amazing they even had cast members taking photos at all. They could’ve easily said, “Hey, you want a picture with the character? But the professional one.” But no. They helped up in getting ones on our phones.

And I’m sure tons of people still bought a whole bunch of professional photos. Also, I don’t know if Disney makes any money off of those photos, or if perhaps only MarathonFoto does…

Also, I thought it was very smart that they had rotating cast members so phones were already in people’s hands as runners stepped up. That shaved precious seconds off everyone’s photo-op time. Being that the lines were so long, those seconds counted. And I appreciate Disney for giving them to us.

After over 25 minutes of waiting in line, a very nice cast member took my photo. I liked in the photo that the storm trooper was giving me an extra mean body position (since I was dressed as Luke Skywalker).

As soon as I grabbed my phone back, I ran away so hard. I was not about to see those balloon ladies!

I think that was the first time I’ve ever done a 5k that took over an hour. It was a very odd feeling to know I’d been out there forever, but not much of the race was complete.

Once I started running while in the back of the pack, I saw all over again all the things I always say about Disney races. It’s hard to maneuver. It’s hard to run sometimes. But hey, as long as I was ahead of the balloon girls, what did it matter?

The rest of the race was somewhat uneventful. I did make up some time, which was good. I saw some awesome signs and spectators. (A few even gave out delicious snacks, which was very kind.)

We passed “A Newhope” street, which I thought was funny. (‘Cause “A New Hope”… Star Wars.)

The medals we got were modeled after the medals of bravery in Star Wars… I love Disney and the attention to detail and inspiring messages that company always gives.

After the race, sweet Jaime waited with a sign yet again. (She’s so lovely.) And we went to fantastic Denny’s yet again. (Mmmm.)

There, we met a runner with his own crazy story of having to run out of the Chewbacca line (after waiting over 30 minutes!) when the balloon girls passed. It sounded rough… There were some fake Chewbaccas out in Anaheim during the race. At least he had some low-rent options he could turn to, if he’d wanted.

After the race, Jaime and I went to Bar Method (an incredible workout place, if you don’t already know) and dinner. After she late, late Sunday night (into Monday morning), I slept the entire next day away. Mmmm, sleep.

Great race. Great friends. Great weekend. Woot!

Disney’s Rebel Challenge – Day 2 – Half Marathon – Part 2 (Darth Vader Photo Stop)

April 7, 2015

Picking up from last time –

So I’m waiting in line for a photo with Darth Vader. Today, it curled around instead of being one continuous line. I don’t know if they changed that because of yesterday, or if that was because it was always the case. Either way, it was still plenty long, but was harder to feel/judge this way.

Ahead of me, I saw two people from corral A(!). I asked (half-jokingly) eesh, how long is this line? Thankfully (as I’d hoped), they’d waited in the two other long character lines as well as this one. So, that’s why they still weren’t even through the 5k when the rest of us riff-raff in other corrals showed up.

As time went by, I started to get a little more nervous. The sun started peeking out. I saw all the runners go by. And the joggers. Then we saw the walkers. We started seeing people with the last corral on their bib. I found it pretty nerve-wracking.

Some people in line were relaxed. “Ah, don’t sweat it. We’re fine. We’re fine!” But the girl in front of me was also nervous. We kept peeking around a far off corner (to the best of our ability) to try to find the end of the crowd. We did not want to see those balloon girls!

But at this point, once we’d already put over fifteen minutes in on this photo, we couldn’t very well give up now, now could we?

My feeling became, “Okay, if I see the balloon girls, I see them. I never have and I don’t want to, but if I see them, I’ll just jump out of line, jog ahead, and get them in my rear-view.”

Knowing I was waiting an inordinate amount of time for a photo, and I’d only get a quick shot at it, I stood in line practicing the facial expression and body position I wanted. I felt a little silly, but with as fast as the line was moving, I wanted to make sure I was ready to hit it and run.

While we were all waiting in line, we saw Darth Vader leave for one of his breaks. The loudness of the grown of the audience was incredible. Thankfully, the moment Darth Vader disappeared behind the door for his break, he came right back out. Ah, Disney Magic.

I also heard a runner going by all of us and say that there was another Darth Vader stop later in the race. I wasn’t confident enough that that was true to leave the line. But goodness was I going to feel like a total schmuck if I saw another shorter Darth Vader line later. (Thankfully, I never did see another Darth Vader photo stop.)

Once I got to the front of this one, there were probably five rotating Disney cast members helping with photos.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

Disney’s Rebel Challenge – Day 2 – Half Marathon – Part 1 (Beginning of Race & 1st Photo Stop) (January 18th, 2015)

April 6, 2015

Picking up from last time –

After the 10k (and Denny’s), Jaime and I checked into a hotel across the street. Yes, I live in LA, which is not far from Anaheim. But we still hotel-ed it in between the two races, because, you know, 5:30 start times. We immediately fell asleep after we plopped on the beds.

Once we got up in the middle of the day, we went exploring downtown Disney. We shopped; we ate; we lived like happy tourists.

We went to bed at what would usually be a reasonable time. Of course, when you’re getting up around 4, there’s practically no reasonableness. So, I was still a bit tired in the morning. However, I let the adrenaline of the day and being there with a good friend perk me up. So, it was all good!

Also, the hotel moved their continental breakfast to be hours earlier just so racers could partake! I thought that was a really nice, kinda extra special thing. So, thank you Anaheim’s Maingate Ramada!

I made my way over to the race. (This time, since we had a hotel, Jaime slept in. After all, she’d recently had a long bus trip in from San Francisco. The least she deserved was a little extra beauty sleep.)

One thing that was kind of interesting to me in the first mile was that I’d been commenting back and forth on instagram with someone who was all, “Hey, I’m here too! What corral are you in? etc.” And in the sea of thousands of people, I happened to see him during the race – not in the corral when we could’ve actually been looking for each other. But during the race, I looked over and said, “Wait a minute! You look like a picture on instagram I saw this morning!”

Just thought that was a little random and funny, and figured I’d share.

Within the first three miles of this race, I saw three popular characters – and three very long lines. First up was Luke & Leia. I’d wondered where they’d been the previous day. Well, here they were!

I stepped in that line for a hot second before I thought, “I don’t have time for this. Also, my orange might look weird with their white. I don’t think this Luke/Luke picture is gonna be cool as my Boba/Boba one from yesterday. So, forget it.” Off I went.

Then, I saw a super long line for Chewbacca. As I’d opted not to wear my Chewbacca dress for this race (next year, baby!), I passed him as well.

And that’s when I saw him again. Darth Vader was back with his stormtroopers. The line was pretty ridiculously long, just as it had been before. But today, dressed as Luke Skywalker, come on. I had to.

So, I jumped in the long line. And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 25 (Reflecting On My Ohio Bitterness – Part 1 (Am I Afraid What She Said Was True?))

April 5, 2015

Elsa with arms out during "Let It Go"
Credit: Disney (Frozen)

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

Since we just talked about getting my final approval from the mental health professionals, I want to touch on that whole thing one last time.

Then, I need to, in the words of Bobby and Kristen Anderson-Lopez (through the mouth of Idina Menzel), Let It Go!

There have been many times throughout this new UCLA story when wonderful things happened and people liked me, that I wanted to say, “in your face,OSU!”…And at times I did.

Now, I don’t think I’ll ever change my opinion about feeling as though I was judged unfairly. However, while you can’t control how people treat you, you can control what you do in return.

Are you really going to keep holding a grudge, Aurora? You know Cory Booker, one of your role models, would not condone that kind of behavior. I know. I know we should be kind and forgiving.

But there’s just a part of me that has such a hard time reconciling that this person(/people if you count the social worker too, which we can) thought I was basically this irresponsible, agitated, dumb girl.

And I don’t think that’s me. And it’s so vindicating when other people (in those same roles as those mental health professionals) also don’t think that’s me.

Cory Booker and Aurora De Lucia hugging
A photo with Cory Booker… who’d also probably say to let it go 😛

And I know we all have good days and bad days. And if you see my in my worst moods, you might think I’m agitated too. (Hopefully you’d never think I was an idiot, but even smart people can come off dumb sometimes.)

Anyway, maybe I was having a bad day. Maybe the psychologist was. Maybe it was both! Maybe a million things.

Also, I’ll concede that I was on my best behavior at UCLA. I was still absolutely me – judging partly by the fact that both the social worker and psychiatrist here commented that I seemed competitive, or like an overachiever, or a type A personality. I cannot completely hide who I am.

Sure, maybe if I were literally acting (not just being on extra good behavior)… like, as someone in a play, I could try. But as me, in an interview about me, no matter how much I dial me down… I’m me. Still… the careful-est me I could be. So, maybe these people wouldn’t have liked me quite as much if I hadn’t been on the edge of my seat, holding my breath, careful.

But for the record, I think they saw more of “me” than the OSU people saw. Yeah, I was careful. But I was also happy (not agitated – just as I like to think I usually am not). So, you win some, you lose some, I guess.

And I don’t know why this has gotten to me so much, really. Obviously I’d say the main reason is because I was denied from being a kidney donor because of an interview. I’m usually good at interviewing! And, well, I’ve already explained many reasons I’m upset…

But on top of all those (in my opinion) normal and valid reasons, since I am having this urge to say “See? See!” every time people do see me the way I hope they will… is there some underlying stuff still bothering me?

Is there a part of me that worries that maaaybe I am any of the things she thought?

Is that why I’m trying so very hard to ram home the point that she’s wrong – out of some insecurities? Do I worry I actually am irresponsible, because maybe I’m not doing enough with my life? Do I worry that maybe I am a little dumb? (I do not do well in Geography Jeopardy! categories… (and some other ones too… College football stadiums? Yeah right.))

Do I worry that I’m not evolved enough to play her game? I do not do well in the position of weakness. As much as I want to say, “I’ll just try to never be in a position of weakness,” that is impossible! You have to learn how to persevere when you’re in those situations.

And when the social worker and psychologist at OSU made me feel so small, I pushed back! But would a better person have just taken it, been small, and been okay with it – especially knowing it was for the greater good (of giving a kidney). That experience was practically the definition of winning the battle, but losing the war.

Was it my fault (not theirs) that someone in need didn’t get a kidney?

I’ll finish my thoughts on this tomorrow.

Disney’s Rebel Challenge – Day 1 – 10k – Part 2 (A Photo Stop & End of Race)

April 4, 2015

Picking up from last time –

The one thing I’d read a lot about both of these costumes was the tendency for them to ride up. So, I tried to use the safety pins, my bib, and the bottom of my sports bra to my advantage. Granted, it took me forever to pin my bib on, going through multiple clothing layers, but my costumes stayed pretty well put when they were attached to other things holding them in place. So that was nice.

It seems I picked the correct order of costumes for the weekend, because Boba Fett was out at the 10k, but wasn’t out the next day at the half. And of course, a picture with him was fun (since I was dressed like him)!

I ran by some characters earlier in the race without stopping. (The line to meet Darth Vader absolutely shocked me. I should drop it in this post, ’cause I can’t get over it.)

Once I saw Bob Fett, I thought, “why not?” So, I jumped in a long line and made conversation with the guy behind me. I felt a little like a nerd at my first in-race photo stop, but I embraced that nerdiness! It’s the Disney Star Wars race. If you can’t be a silly nerd here, where can you be one?

The line moved really well. A nice man snapped my picture, then boom, off I went on my merry way.

As I was jogging, I saw someone else in a Boba Fett outfit. I asked if he stopped for a photo with the character, and he said no. He told me he’d seen the balloon girls earlier while waiting for another character, and that scared him into wanting to book it the rest of the race.

Thankfully, by the time I saw him, he’d far outrun them, as they were nowhere in out sights.

(In case you don’t know, the balloon girls are the girls who bring up the end of the Disney races. If they pass you, it means you can get swept. And the thought of being in their presence was terrifying.)

At the end of the race, sweet Jaime was waiting for me with a sign. (Awww.) I went and got my medal, food box, pictures, and bag, then came back around to meet her. We saw the final runner come in flanked by stormtroopers, as confetti was released. It looked like a pretty sweet moment.

Then off we went for some delicious Denny’s. Mmm!

Disney’s Rebel Challenge – Day 1 – 10k – Part 1 (Morning & More Costume Talk) (January 17th, 2015)

April 3, 2015

Picking up from last time –

My friend Jaime came to visit during this weekend. (Yay!)

We Uber-ed out to Anaheim at some crazy time of morning, around 3am-ish.

When we got there, we made our way through downtown Disney toward the start. As we passed the finish line area on the way to bag check, we saw that Disney was showing Star Wars on a TV screen there, which I thought was pretty awesome.

Basically, between the expo and various places at the race, it seemed to me that they had a Star Wars movie playing practically anywhere they could – which was very nice since it had been a while since I’d seen any of the movies.

Once we got to the bag check area, Nsync’s “Bye Bye Bye” played as the DJ was telling everybody to get outta there and start making their ways to the corrals. I’d never been at a stage far from the start a half hour beforehand. So, I’d never seen that little transition.

It was fun for me – mainly because how can you possibly go wrong starting the day on an Nsync song? (Granted, that wasn’t super Star Wars themed. But come on. There has to be other music and stuff in there somewhere.)

I wore my Boba Fett outfit for the 10k. My reasoning (as if there needed to be any) was that I had one costume from a more dark side character, and one Jedi (X-Wing Pilot Luke). Ultimately, I wanted to be good. So, I’d wear the one from the dark side in the shorter race (getting to spend more time as a good guy). (Kinda silly to have put that thought into that, huh?).

When I looked at those costumes on Amazon, I was a little terrified but took the leap anyway. (As per usual, I was planning my costumes at the last minute and didn’t have tons of immediate options. So, I just went with it.) I generally don’t like wearing things that are tight around my stomach, but thankfully in races you always have the bib to help you hide things a little – and the Disney bibs are big.

But throughout the day (both days), I was concerned with how I was posing – trying to do my best to hide my stomach, and stick out anything else that would hide it. The hilarious thing about this is that the photos that came out best were candid running photos where I didn’t have time or space to worry about that.

Disney’s Rebel Challenge – Costumes (And My Love For My Chewbacca Dress) (January 17 & 18th, 2015)

April 2, 2015

I think I used to take half marathoning way too seriously. And I didn’t even take it all that seriously. Even still, I was too serious, I think.

When I’m super slow, “running” 3 hour and 15 minute half marathons, I should really be running in costume and playing around. I do understand the idea that everyone starts somewhere and we all can push to be better. But goodness. I used to think, “who would wear a costume to a running event?!”

And now I do it every year at Rock ‘n’ Roll LA. And I’ve finally done it at Disney as well.

I had a hard time picking my costumes. I had some money available on Amazon.com, so I went a’looking.

There were some normal costumes, and then there were some girly versions that added skirts (to things such as Boba Fett and Luke Skywalker – which are the costumes I wore).

I felt a little like a traitor getting the girl versions, ’cause I know those are so ridiculous. If I’m dressing as Luke Skywalker and he wore pants, why wouldn’t I just wear pants?!

Well, I don’t know. ‘Cause I’m kinda lame? I can’t really give you a good reason. I just wanted to wear a dress, so I wore a dress.

Speaking of dresses, I also got a Chewbacca dress in case one of those other costumes didn’t work out, and it’s quite possibly my new favorite thing. The other ones were absolute costumes. There was tutu-like material sewn in. But the Chewbacca dress looks like a normal dress (other than the fact that there’s a bullet design that runs around it, like the one he wears).

It fits well. I love the cut. (I love the cut? Who am I, semi-talking fashion?)

I wore it to the expo and got approximately a million compliments. It is a little short. And it doesn’t have sleeves (and oh how I love sleeves). So, I don’t really feel like I necessarily have the normal amount of fabric to cover me. But it still worked out pretty okay.

Even after the 10k, I switched back into the Chewbacca dress to walk around downtown Disney (since it was still Star Wars themed, but a little more understated/normal to be walking around in). Yet again, everyone loved it, and I loved it. There was love everywhere.

I thought about wearing it for the second race (especially since everyone was fighter pilot Luke in the first race – which is who I was planning to be on day 2).

Alas, ultimately, I decided not to because:
1) I don’t like to run without sleeves, and I didn’t have a great shirt to wear underneath it.
2) I also didn’t have any type of Star Wars/Chewbacca hat. I’m certainly not going out there without something covering my head during the race. But I don’t want to have something completely unrelated to my costume distracting from it. So, I went with the Luke costume that came with a hat.

But next year, Chewbacca all the way baby!

I know it’s hard to believe, but we will talk a bit more about costumes next time.

New Year’s Race (January 3, 2015)

April 1, 2015

Yes, I know we are pretty far behind real-time, since I’m writing about January events in April. But between game shows and kidneys, it happens, I suppose. Just go with me?

At this race, I broke 2:55 for the first time! Last year, I had a goal of 3 hours – and missed by 34 seconds. Guh!

This year, I was thinking it’d be finally nice to grab that previous goal – especially on such a tough course. But I wasn’t sure if it was gonna happen. Usually, I’m way more training-heavy in November/December than I was this year. This year, the cable was out in our building’s gym for what seemed like forever. (But seriously, it was such a long time!)

Obviously, how in the world could I possibly be expected to work out without game shows? 😉

Anyway, it all sort of went downhill from there. I had a bit of a lazier December than usual. Not crazy lazy, but lazy enough.

Then, on race day, I kind of woke up at a weird time and couldn’t go back to sleep. I was all over the place and was feeling like it might not be my day. I didn’t announce to the world that I was going back for that 3 hour goal. But secretly, I wanted it.

I also had a tough time really figuring out when to eat since it was a night race. None of this dueling before sleep thing.

I was trying to be pretty super vegan, but I love these chips with lime seasoning. Chips and salsa is totally my pre-race food. I have no idea if it’s really supposed to be. But it has been for me for a while now. It used to be Doritos and salsa, but you know, the whole vegan thing.

After I’d become perfectly happy with my replacement, I learned there was whey in the seasoning!

In general I’d moved to potato chips and salsa to combat that problem. However, that didn’t always completely sit well with my stomach.

So, for this race, I decided forget it, I’m going to have some whey in the seasoning, ’cause these are my chips and I want my pre-race food.

After I made my way down the street to the start line, I stretched out until it was time to start. I had a lot of kinks to work out after sitting around my apartment marathoning all the seasons of Homeland I missed. (I told you I had sort of a lazy December.)

Once the race started, I pretty much got in the zone. I just kept jogging. I told myself whatever you do, don’t want. Even on all those hills, I kept jogging.

I was feeling pretty great while jogging, but I knew I’d been feeling great last year before losing steam. So, I didn’t lull myself into a sense of safety.

At one point, I think even before the halfway point, the 3 hour pacer bolted past me! What?! How is it possible you’re already passing me? I’m watching my time. I’m in front of a 3-hour pace. And you were behind me in the corral. I don’t understand what’s happening.

Thankfully, he was only running so fast to bank time, because his group walked up the hill. I jogged ahead of them on that hill, and he never passed me again.

Even in the final mile, I was mildly nervous. I was more sure this year than last that I was going to come in under 3 hours. Even still, my clock had forsaken me in 2014. So, I kept jogging to the best of my ability, enjoying some sweet inspirational tunes. (It’s been a while since I played “The World’s Greatest” by R. Kelly – which I do when I feel like I’m doing something sweet in a race. So, it was very nice to hear that again!)

I was spent by the end. After I got my medal and food, I had to sit for a while! Way to reach the point of exhaustion, Aurora.

As soon as I got up, I went straight to the results tent. Mine hadn’t been posted, so I got in the line of people asking the guy. When “2” came out of his mouth, I wanted to cry.

I know I’m still slow. But I’m less slow, baby! And thank goodness. I have a race coming up in San Francisco in the summer where the time limit’s 3 hours!

(#48) Re-assembling Care Packages for Seniors with the Mayor’s Volunteer Corps – Part 5 (Putting Cards In)

March 31, 2015

Picking up from last time –

Not only did all the bags need tissue paper, they all also needed cards from the mayor (with some personal messages written on them by various volunteers and such).

This became yet another source of confusion. People would be walking the bags over to various tissue paper stations. The people putting in the cards couldn’t keep up with how fast they needed to stuff cards in the bags. And the people carrying the bags didn’t necessarily know that some bags had cards and some didn’t, so they’d just set the bags down somewhere generally by the station. And you’d have to have eagle eyes and quick reflexes to go get those bags immediately.

Chris and I were at one of the stations, putting in cards as fast as we could. One of the bag carries noticed how ridiculously fast we were going, and thankfully asked if we needed help. I gave her an immediate huge yes. With three of us, we were able to keep things pretty well under control.

Chris gave his brilliant idea that it actually would probably be easier if, instead of trying to keep piles straight at tissue paper stations, people just went over to where the finished bags were and put cards in there – with no bags getting carried away from that station until they had cards.

Of course. Why hadn’t anyone thought of that before? Even when he said it, though, none of us went over to do it. So many people were carrying bags. There was no way one or two of us could’ve kept up with the way things were moving. And we didn’t feel like we could all go, because then there’d be these bags coming in to our tissue paper station during the transition that didn’t have cards.

So, we just stayed in triage mode – stuffing cards into the bags coming into our station as fast as we could.

Once our station slowed down a bit, I noticed a very busy station with only one person manning the cards. So, I ran over to help him. We were stuffing as fast as we could. Even still, our new station was getting out of control pretty quickly. So, I ran over to the pre-carried bags and started stuffing them, just as Chris had suggested. I went as fast as I could. Very quickly, some other card stuffers came to join me and the bag carriers jumped on board, not taking anything except the carded bags.

Yay for efficiency and super helpful people!

Of course all the bag carriers also told their stations “these are already carded” when they delivered the bags, so the stations could keep to whatever individual sorting stuff they had going on.

So, everyone seemed to be on the same page. Woot!

We wondered why the cards weren’t just part of the assembly line. My best guess is because they weren’t necessarily done in time to be part of it. Volunteers were writing personal notes on the cards when I walked in for my shift. So, I think that’s why we waited on those.

While I love to learn from the experiences and write out how things could’ve gone better, I’ll also say this was a good day, with a lot of nice people, where a lot got accomplished (and we got nice mini-workouts and free swag). So, thumbs up!

(#48) Re-assembling Care Packages for Seniors with the Mayor’s Volunteer Corps (December 17, 2014) – Part 4 (The Assembly Line)

March 30, 2015

Picking up from last time –

The line got oh so much slower as people had to stop for longer periods of time for us to stuff goodies in their bags. We were going as fast as we possibly could. But it couldn’t be as fast as the ol’ drop and go.

Some people were asking us (at the front of the assembly line), “Why are the blankets in first?!” I didn’t totally enjoy having annoyed people around me, because there was nothing I could do about it. I couldn’t even give an explanation as to how or why that came to be the deal.

Soon enough, we all kind of shrugged our collective shoulders. No, the whole blankets-first thing didn’t seem like the greatest idea, but at that point there was nothing any of us could do about it. People who were there were there to give and have a great day. So, everyone got back in the spirit, and we all just laughed about our bleeding fingers.

Eventually all of those bags were finished. We got to go back to stuffing empty bags. There was practically cheering about it, and the already happy mood got even happier.

Everyone in the line seemed cool, but there was one guy specifically (Chris), who had this super outgoing, sort of flamboyant personality who was totally my new best friend of the day. Every time he’d come through, I’d ask a little more about him, ‘cause he seemed so fun. And he’d ask a little about me. Once as he came around, he said, “It’s kind of like we’re speed dating, Aurora!” That got a nice laugh.

I also loved that during the event, I was basically getting a nice little workout! Someone said she felt like Lucy in the chocolate factory episode (which was actually just on at the gym the other night – so her reference was extremely fresh in my mind). And I agreed! The line went so quickly. And as people went by, we kept having to open new boxes of stuff. Then people would be running us boxes, as our resources depleted. It was actually a semi-taxing day. Yee haw!

Once all the bags were completed, it was time to put the tissue paper in the top to make them festive.

Some bags got white tissue. Some got red. They were separated according to gender.

This sort of confused me, as in my line we didn’t have any gender specific products. I later found out that they were separated based on the style of the blanket. Oh, come on. The men got more “manly” styles. I think theirs had some animal prints and such.

I want people to be happy with their bags (enjoying their styles) and all, but do we need to be quite this gender stereotyped about these care packages? Just curious…

Oh well. A nice thing is being done. No need for me to nitpick so much…. Though I totally finish up with a bit more about the finishing of assembling the bags next time (not for a while because coming up, we’ll be talking about Let’s Make a Deal…).

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 24 (The Mammogram)

March 29, 2015

Aurora waiting for her ultrasound:mammorgramTime for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

I’m amazed at how quickly the imaging center got me in. I found out I had to get the lump cleared on a Monday. They saw me that Friday.

I got an appointment before work (my second to last day on that job). So early. I think I was in sometime in the 7 o’clock hour. (Ouch.) I thought I’d be in an out so quickly.

Nope.

I should’ve known at this point that if it has to do with me giving a kidney, there will almost always be some extra little wrinkle.

They did the ultrasound, and for some reason it was inconclusive. How could this be? This same lump has already been looked at 5 years ago. I should’ve just had someone aspirate it then.

This time, in order to state that the lump was nothing to worry about, they had to do a mammogram as well.

But they had to wait for permission from my gynecologist to do it. (I think it’s something to do with insurance…) So, we wait for her office to open. She gives the go ahead. I have my first ever mammogram. It wasn’t even really uncomfortable. But it is weird to see the way fat on your body can me smushed in interesting ways…

Mammogram results state that the lump indeed looks to just be a little cyst. So, everything is a-okay. Thank goodness! I head to work as quickly as possible. Thankfully, I haven’t missed much.

[That was a really chill, cool, wonderful job (on Project Runway: Threads). Too bad we didn’t get picked up for season 2…]

As I’m leaving the imaging center (on August 22nd), I ask them to fax the reports to my donor coordinator. They said they would that day.

On the 25th, I emailed my donor coordinator, asking if she indeed got the reports. While I was at it, I thought I’d check in and see if she’d heard from the social worker. I tried to ask as nonchalantly as I could if everything (besides the urine collection) was in order (everything – including the social worker’s report).

She hadn’t yet received the reports from the imaging center (which was remedied soon after). And she had indeed received the report from the social worker. As long as my urine test came back without elevated protein (and I had a repeat one to confirm that), I would be a living kidney donor!(!!!)

And this is where we’ll pick up next time.

(#48) Re-assembling Care Packages for Seniors with the Mayor’s Volunteer Corps (December 17, 2014) – Part 3 (Oof. Doing Bags Backwards)

March 28, 2015

Picking up from last time –

The way the bags had been being made was that you’d put little items in on the bottom (such as  stamps, toothbrush, toothpaste, lotion, soap, and a light little scarf). Then, you’d put this big blanket (that was already wrapped up for you) over that stuff – as the last thing in the bag. And it worked great. It worked great for the first part of my shift. From everything I heard, it worked great for the whole first 4-hour shift of the day.

And then someone decided to change it.

I will admit when I got to fill the one bag earlier in my shift, getting the blanket in was the hardest part. It was a pretty big blanket. So, it took some work to stuff it into the somewhat tight bag. But it wasn’t so bad. The way we did it was I held it, and the two people at the bag station stuffed it in. Yes, it took slightly longer than the other stops where people could practically throw in the small items. But in my experience, it didn’t take inordinately long.

Even still, somehow, they changed it up so that people would fill bags that already had blankets in them.

What?! Who decided this. I don’t know who decided it or how it happened. I just know that before we could do anything to stop it, we looked over to this area that was filled with so many bags with blankets. People were told they then needed to be filled with the rest of the stuff. [*head falls on desk as I write this*]

I’m pretty sure that whoever made that decision must’ve thought it was going to save time or headache. And maybe things were much tougher for the blanket stuffers than I imaged (though they still had to stuff the blankets… the hard part was the sides of the tight bag, not the bottom with stuff in it… so I have no idea how doing blankets first really made anything easier for them).

But the only thing this did was annoy, confuse, and even hurt people!

Some people were confused as to what had the small stuff in it and what didn’t, since all the other finished bags also looked, from above, just like rolled up blankets in bags. And then, when people cam through, we had to try to stuff the smaller goodies into the already tightly squeezed sides of the bag (so the stuff hopefully wouldn’t fly out). A bunch of us in the assembly line were literally getting cuts because of the plastic sides of the bags we were catching our fingers on as we tried so hard to stuff things in there. (Ow!)

A bunch of us actually bled. Yes, it’s just small cuts. No one was seriously injured. But still… I hope none of the recipients of these bags have any blood on their stuff!

And this is where we’ll pick up next time.

(#48) Re-assembling Care Packages for Seniors with the Mayor’s Volunteer Corps (December 17, 2014) – Part 2 (A Small Idea Is Started… And Abandoned)

March 27, 2015

Picking up from last time –

Someone came over and said we’d be consolidating lines. So, we needed to move whatever supplies we had to the table in front of us.

Okay, sounds good. We all did.

Once I got up there, we had more than enough people (since two lines were converging into one). So, I got to grab a bag and go down the line myself to fill it. Yet again, from a different angle, I saw the great efficiency.

Once I got back to the beginning, the morning shift was leaving. With the empty spots, I re-took my place behind the table.

There was one person who was trying to be efficient, and I appreciate her (as I appreciate anyone trying to make things better). But her plan was proving not to be wildly efficient after all. Her plan was to take a bunch of empty bags and put the first items in them (stamps, toothbrushes, and toothpaste). Then people could grab those bags and not even have to hit that station.

This was not necessarily a bad idea in theory.

Granted, the station that had that stuff was staffed just like the others. So, it really took barely any more time for the bag-builders to start a couple of feet earlier in the line and have someone plop that stuff in there… So, personally, I didn’t think the half seconds of extra efficiency were necessary.

But I’m not gonna argue with someone who seemed so happy to be implementing her idea to try to make things go smoother. Also, who in the world do I think I am to even worry about this, right? I’m an assembly line worker today. So I don’t need to be worrying big picture… Bu I’m still gonna talk about it a bit… So, it was sort of a potato/po-tah-to situation in my mind. It might be slightly better. It might not be. My feeling was it didn’t truly matter, since it was about the same… Or was it?

There were a couple of small issues that came up.

Since none of the other lines were doing this, the bag-building people would get confused. They’d come up to our line with an empty bag, but then she’d be trying to hand them one that had a few things in it. Then they’d either have to reach over her to get stuff in their bag (since she was keeping her pre-started bags right in front of the station with stamps and stuff). Or they’d have to go put their empty bags back… It was just confusing people. And it started to get in the way, since it became so hard for people to reach over to the stamp/toothbrush station.

Also, she’d start putting lotions (the next item in the line) in the bags sometimes. And then it became this whole thing of, “Do you have lotion in there already?” The additional confusion definitely outweighed the half-seconds that may have been saved.

Again, I admire this person’s desire to make something better, and her gumption to just start doing it. I love when people are really thinking about the task at hand. I’d rather work with people passionate about what we’re doing (who might make a mis-step (as any of us could)) than people who don’t care. You never fully know if something will work until you try, right?

Since that wasn’t working out so well, she stopped doing that. And people just started again with their empty bags. Basically, no harm, no foul there. And great teamwork. The day was still spectacular.

And then…. This is where I’ll pick up next time.

(#48) Re-assembling Care Packages for Seniors with the Mayor’s Volunteer Corps (December 17, 2014) – Part 1 (Oooh, Seems So Efficient!)

March 26, 2015

There was a big fire in downtown Los Angeles. In that fire, thousands of care packages for seniors in need were destroyed. The community came together and replaced all the items. Then the Mayor planned a day at the convention center where people would get together to put packages together.

I like our Mayor. He seems really committed to improving the lives of the citizens in his community. He believes in public transportation. (Incredible out here, right?) This was my first time volunteering with the Mayor’s Volunteer Corps, and I was excited to see an activity run by his office – assuming it would be run pretty spectacularly.

I got a confirmation email a day or two before with very specific instructions on how to get there, what you’d be doing, etc. Cool. Information is grand.

Once I got there, there was a very pleasant woman in the hall of the convention center asking people if they were there for the volunteer corps. Then she’d send us in the right direction. Points to Mayor Garcetti’s team for going above and beyond. We didn’t just get an email. We didn’t even get an impersonal sign in the lobby (which I would’ve already thought was pretty great just for the extra clarity). We got a living, breathing sweetheart. All right!

Once we got to the area itself where the bag building was occurring, there was a check-in table, also staffed by personable people. We even got a sweet t-shirt just for a few hours of work. Not only were there free t-shirts. There was free food, and free coffee-based drinks. (Volunteering in luxury. Oooh la-la.)

I went to the adjacent room to start the actual volunteering part. I saw lines of tables with assembly lines for the bags, with plenty of people making their way down the tables.

I looked around for a leader of some kind to tell us second-shifters where to go or what to do. When I didn’t find one, I looked around for where I might fit in. I saw a space at a table where they could use more help. So, I jumped in and started handing out toothpaste.

Everyone around me seemed so on top of everything. People were efficient and kind. The girl next to me thanked me for jumping in so she didn’t have to man so many items by herself. Life was good.

I thought, “Wow. This seems pretty much as efficient as Operation Gratitude’s assembly days. Great job, Mayor Garcetti’s team!”

But then…

This is where I’ll pick up in a while (after we talk about some other stuff).

(#47) Living History/Tree Lighting At Dominguez Adobe Museum (December 13, 2014)

March 25, 2015

When I signed up for this event, I didn’t really know what it was. (I still don’t actually know the total history of why there’s a Dominguez Adobe Museum…)

But since I’d never been to this place, so I thought why not try to expand my mind a little while helping.

When I got there, there wasn’t a ton to do. So, first I tried to get my picture taken with Santa… but he wouldn’t let me! He thought it was “inappropriate” for a young woman to sit on his lap? (I saw other male adults do it… I’ll just leave that there, since I don’t know what to say about that.)

I also took one of the tours around the adobe. We learned about chamber pots and horse-drawn ambulances. We were reminded that if we thought it took a long time to get down there from L.A. now, we should’ve tried back then without automobiles!

There was indeed a little living history exhibit where actresses spoke as the daughters of the family. They were so into it. It was pretty cute.

I also learned about the first woman to parachute out of a plane – Tiny Broadwick. She sounded interesting, and she had various accomplishments. I was a little surprised I’d never heard of her. But now I have!

When it came time to do actual volunteering stuff, there wasn’t much… I helped bring an extension cord out to the tree so they could light it. And I helped clean up all the food at the end of the night.

One thing I did do that didn’t actually seem to help anything, but still made me pretty proud, was… There was this little fake light that was battery operated. And the on/off switch on the bottom had broken. So no one could figure out how to turn it off. A woman was walking around saying, “I’ll give you $100 if you can turn this off” to people.

(There was not actually a monetary reward, in case you’re wondering.)

Person after person couldn’t turn it off. I love challenges and puzzles. So, I took a crack at it. I figured that even though the button wasn’t there, if I could reach something down in the hole it made to turn the mechanism the same way the button would have, then I could get it to turn off.

I looked around in the little kitchen area, and found some of those tiny, thin straws. I reached up and grabbed one. I then stuck it in the light, found where I could click the mechanism, and boom! The light went off.

Aurora De Lucia – problem solver.

(#46) Christmas Card Stuffing at AIDS Project Los Angeles (December 12, 2014)

March 24, 2015

I saw a listing on Volunteer Match looking for some office help in the middle of the afternoon one day. By the time I saw the listing, the event had already started. But since it wasn’t too far from my house, I went over there any way to check if they could use me. Sure enough, they could!

I met this really fabulous, fun man who said, “nice to meet you.” This is why you always use Drew Carey’s “nice to see you.” He’d actually met me very briefly before when I tried to help with this organization (but they were more than fully staffed). I’m actually pretty glad he didn’t remember me. Why would I want him to remember the girl who had nothing to do?

I’m so glad that I tried again with APLA! I felt so welcomed and impressed from the moment I entered their building. Every person I met was extremely friendly. Also, by the looks of things, it seemed like this organization does a whole lot. So, I was more than happy to help them.

I was set up in a cubical to address and stuff envelopes (as I was the only one who came for the shift after all).

One thing that was so interesting to me was that I’d heard about high schoolers who’d come earlier in the week and didn’t know how to address an envelope! What? Is mail seriously that obsolete that teenagers really don’t even know how to address an envelope? I could see it happening. (It obviously did happen.) But it blows my mind nonetheless.

Fairly soon into my task, I made my own makeshift standing desk with a box (because I can go a little nuts if I sit for too long).

I thought about putting on a podcast and zoning out a bit. But I feel like lately I’ve always had something in my ear. I’m always semi-distracting myself from a commute or simple task. And this time I decided no, I just want to think.

I got to listen to some of the conversations around me, and hear about planning events. (It must be so fun and busy to work at a non-profit.)

I also got lost in my own thoughts a bit… I was being considered for a job in New York. Spoiler alert: I didn’t get it. But I was thinking about what I’d done with my time in California, and what I would do with my time in New York.

The task itself was very simple. I had all the supplies I needed, and a very easy list from which to read addresses. (APLA’s address was already beautifully pre-printed on their envelopes.) They had plenty of that special sticky envelope glue stuff so I didn’t have to lick any envelopes. They thought of everything and made it as easy for the volunteer as possible.

At the end of the day, Tarik thanked me so much for all my work. He made me feel so appreciated, and he even took the photos you see here in the post so I could document the day on my blog!

I had a great time, and I’d happily help them out anytime in the future!

(#45) L.A. Turkey Trot Water Stop (November 27, 2014) – Part 4 (End of Morning/Clean Up)

March 23, 2015

Picking up from last time –

No matter what we did, we consistently all got water splashed on us all the time. I can only imagine what it’s like for any poor souls who ever have to do this in cold weather (ouch!).

It was a very hot day in Los Angeles (yes, on Thanksgiving – that’s LA). So, our stops were even more slammed than we were expecting.

And since everyone was so parched, no one seemed upset if any of the cups were a bit fuller than they probably should’ve been. *High five!*

(Also, can we just mention, maybe there should be a specific “race cup” that has a line marked to where it should be filled… Or, I don’t know. I think there are a lot of innovative things we could do with race cups (making them easier to hand off, and such). So, let’s think about working on that!)

Anyway, eventually everyone went past us, and it was time to clean up.

The captains of the stop told us to dump all the water. The other volunteers and I were a little stressed about dumping so much good water in the middle of the street (in the middle of a drought in California). So, we started pouring all unused water from cups back into the jugs so we could at least go pour the water in the surrounding plants, even if open/unsealed water jugs couldn’t be given anywhere for human consumption.

Our impatient crew leaders didn’t care about trying to save any water, and they told us to just dump the tables. All the tables got dumped, and there was tons of water in the street…

Then the van to come pick up the supplies didn’t come for at least another 45 minutes. So, as far as I could tell, we did have time to be a little more judicious with how we got rid of the water. However, there may have been a permit issue or something that made it so we needed to get out of the street… And none of the nearby trees looked like they were in any danger of dying anytime soon due to lack of water or anything. And who am I to question the people in charge? So, you know, it’s all good…

While we were waiting for the van, the guy in charge of the water station asked me if I was a vegetarian (as we were talking about Thanksgiving dinner). I said, “actually yeah, I have been for a few months. Why?”

He said I seemed like a vegetarian. I’m not totally sure what that means. I’m unsure if I even like it. (Who am I becoming?!) But I thought it was funny that someone who was so against going vegetarian is now getting told, “you seem like a vegetarian.” Ah, life.

Eventually the van came, we loaded it up, and took everything back to the big recycle bins.

Then I walked home in the burning, burning heat. But at least I’d gotten wet all morning!

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 23 (I Already Knew About The Lump (And That It Was Nothing))

March 22, 2015

Aurora waiting for her ultrasound:mammogramTime for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

Getting the lump checked out was something that my insurance would cover – not the Organ Acquisition Fund, for anyone who’s wondering.

(Which reminds me, in the first attempt when I got rejected at OSU, I said I wasn’t sure who paid for tests. Well, I learned that at least at UCLA it’s the Organ Acquisition Fund, which is a medicare grant. And then the recipient’s insurance pays for the actual surgery once someone has been approved.)

Luckily, I already had a referral from my gynecologist to an imaging center where I’d get the lump checked out. She’d already noticed it. I was supposed to go a long time ago to get it seen. I just never did.

It’s so tiny. You can barely feel it (and only if you’re really searching – like a gynecologist would be). I especially wasn’t worried, because my old gynecologist in Boston found it years ago (around 2009-ish). Speaking of 2009, that reminds me that the doctors at Mass General saw it too with all my heart stuff. (Nobody’s missing this teeny tiny thing. So, applause to all my doctors!)

Actually… come to think of it, it was never mentioned to me once during my time trying to give a kidney at OSU. I’m not saying that to imply anything. We all know I’m a little bitter about that experience. So, I shouldn’t talk about it. I’m just putting it out there that UCLA said it needed to be cleared. OSU didn’t mention it.

Aaaaanyway, in Boston, I sort of forget if it was because of my gynecologist or because of my time at Mass General, but either way between both doctors who mentioned it, I went and got it checked out. And it was nothing – just a small cyst, maybe? Is that what they call it when it’s nothing?

I guess those ultrasound records didn’t get transferred to my Los Angeles gynecologist (as they don’t seem to be in my chart). My Boston gynecologist doesn’t even practice anymore, so I can’t call her office up.

I also didn’t remember the name of the imaging facility to which she’d sent me. My dad’s company also changed the insurance for their employees (and family members) between 2009 and now. So, I can’t even ask my insurance company (assuming their records easily go back that long) to tell me where I went.

If I desperately needed the records, I’m sure I could track them down. But being that it’s been 5 years, my gynecologist was like, “eh, it won’t hurt to have something current. So, go get it looked at.”

I’d totally procrastinated on that, since I was almost certain we weren’t dealing with any real issue. But once an ultrasound was needed for my kidney file, I was all over it.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

[Note: Since we’re getting closer to this story catching up to real-time, and since in real-time the story has come to a bit of a halt, I’m going to start doing kidney posts only on Sunday nights. So, I’ll have your next installment next Sunday!]

(#45) L.A. Turkey Trot Water Stop (November 27, 2014) – Part 3 (What’s the Best Way To Hold The Cup?)

March 21, 2015

Picking up from last time –

So, we laid out all the cups. (There are even cardboard dividers so you can stack rows of cups on top of each other. I never noticed those before. Smart.)

As a runner, I never fully understood why water cups so often seemed to be overfilled. Now that I’ve worked at a water stop, I can understand. It’s hard when pouring quickly (from a jug that’s constantly changing weight) to try to get the exact right amount in.

And there seemed to be some disagreement as to what the right amount was. So, if people who work water stops think different things and if jugs can be hard to handle, then water is most likely just going to come out at all sorts of various levels. But I think we can deal with it. Right, runners?

(I know I’ll be a little less judge-y and more patient, now having been a pourer myself.)

When it came to the Gatorade, I asked what the most efficient was to pour that was. Someone said to mix the solution with water in the big tub (with the little spicket on the the end). Then, use that little spicket to fill up an empty water jug and go from there.

I didn’t think of any more efficient ways, and that didn’t seem too slow. But if any of you have amazing tips for doing that part faster, I’d love to hear them.

Once we got to the actual handing out part, I was holding the cup from the bottom. The lead guy at the water stop told me it’s easier to hand them out if I hold them from the top. So, I switched to the top-hold.

Even after spending a whole morning at a water stop, I can’t tell you the best way to hold the cup. Holding it from the bottom gives you more control, but I think it becomes harder for the runner to grab it.

Holding it with one finger inside the cup seems like a mess to me. For one thing, many runners don’t love when you have a finger in their cup. But more importantly, I find it much easier to hand off that way, since you have such a flimsy hold.

Holding it with your fingers coming down around the top is, I’m assuming, the best way since that’s what I was told – and it seemed like probably the best among the different ways I tried. But no ways seemed perfect.

Again, if you have advice on the best way to hold the cup, hit me!

(#45) L.A. Turkey Trot Water Stop (November 27, 2014) – Part 2 (Setting Up)

March 20, 2015

Picking up from last time –

I don’t know if I feel this way because we were 3 water stops in 1, but I am kind of of the mindset that you can almost never have too many water stop volunteers.

I mean, I’m sure there is some number somewhere where it’s just too crowded.

We were not at that number.

As the race was starting, we hadn’t been given any specific instructions. I asked if we were to each stand at different tables, or what. And the person in charge said two of us should stay behind tables to just refill, and the rest should go in front of tables wherever it seemed we were needed.

Okay. So we just kind of felt it out, instead of divvying things up. (Granted, there weren’t that many of us to divide. So, even if we had been assigned tables/spots/whatever, I don’t know that that would’ve done much… People very well have had to move around anyway.)

Before runners got there, we set everything up.

This whole 3-water-stops-in-one thing really confused us all at first. The leaders tried to point how the tables would go. We’d start to move them. It would be wrong. We’d look a little dumbfounded. They’d then jump in to help physically show us where to go.

I guess in the heads of the people doing it, they totally understood and didn’t think it would be hard to impart this idea on us. But the lesson I took from this is that maybe it’s always better to err on the side of having to over-explain. Perhaps if we’d had some sort of drawing, map, diagram, etc., we may have understood faster without being slightly annoying to the people running the stop.

We also poured a bunch of water and Gatorade in cups, preparing for people. I didn’t realize the Gatorade came as concentrate that you dilute. (I thought it just came as Gatorade, but at least here, it did not.)

When we were putting the cups on the table, it was interesting to me how many people started by having a sleeve of cups in one hand and then pulling out a cup at a time from the top, and putting it down with their other hand…

It doesn’t seem like that would take all that long, but when you put someone doing that next to someone who was just tapping the sleeve on the table, letting the bottom cup go each time, you can see tables getting filled at something like only 1/3 of the speed of the faster way.

Of course once people could see that, everyone switched to the more efficient way. Hooray for efficiency. (Though I still don’t know the most efficient way to do other things, which we’ll get into next time.)

(#45) L.A. Turkey Trot Water Stop (November 27, 2014) – Part 1 (Three Water Stops In 1)

March 19, 2015

Aurora sitting in a huge chair in front of a huge turkeyNow that we’re all done talking about LMAD, I can catch you up on these 52 volunteer activities! (Sorry, we have sort of a lot of catching up to do!)

During this project, I’ve been making my way around the various possible race stations.

I wanted an idea of what it was like to actually work each stop, as opposed to running by and imagining what the volunteers’ jobs must be like.

I’m pretty sure a water stop is the hardest one.

One thing that was interesting about this water stop was that in the 10k, people passed us on the way up the hill, then on their way down a hill (after they went around it from the other side and came back toward us), and then a 3rd time as they went past us.

Okay, I’m pretty sure that doesn’t make sense… So, let me try to help out. (Sorry, this is going to be almost a silly amount of detail specific. So, if that’s boring, just come back later!)

Imagine we’re in the middle of an intersection. People run up the hill. They pass by us. (We’re on their left.) They make a right turn. They go down that street, and somewhere they go up, because the next time we see them, we’re in front of them as they run down toward us. They pass us again (this time on their left) as they run in the other direction on the street perpendicular with the hill.

Whatever they then do after that, eventually, they turn around, because then they come back up the other lane on that same street and pass us (on their left) as they make a right turn to go back down the hill, toward where they first came in the first place.

Phew! Got all that? ‘Cause there’s gonna be a test. (I’m kidding. There will not be a test.)

Anyway, they passed us so many times. We had a diamond shape of tables in the middle of the intersection. On the one hand, I saw why we did this, because people were coming at us from basically all angles.

On the other hand, when we set up the tables in the morning, we do did not put them close enough. It felt like a lot of running back and forth to get water.

I mean, I guess you don’t want the table right on top of you either. You do want space to get out of a runner’s way, I think… But you also don’t want to have to trek back to get water, ’cause you gotta be fast!

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 22 (The End Of Day 2 Of Big Kidney Days)

March 18, 2015

Aurora De Lucia trying to do a little badass pose with her armband after blood's taken
(After some blood was drawn sometime…)

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

Dr. R. and I were discussing the protein in my urine.

He asked if I’d worked out a lot that week. I said I’d gone running a few times, and I went to Bar Method a few times as well. He said that sometimes if you work out a lot, it can look like you have a lot of protein in your urine when you really don’t.

So, he asked me to retake the test, just without working out for 5 days before I start it.

Oof. 5 days. Okay. Will do.

I ask if there’s anything I need to change about my diet. We talk about my diet a little, and there’s really nothing to change there as far as he’s concerned.

Side note: He said that usually the people with the best outcomes are ones on plant-based diets. Since I’m on my vegetarian challenge, that really interests me (as my ears always perk up more than usual, when benefits of not eating meat are mentioned).

Overall, it’s a great meeting. He’s very kind. And he says we’ll speak again after I complete the next urine test.

That’s it for Big Kidney day! I’ve done it! Yee haw!

That was Friday August 15th. I went straight to work after my appointment. After work, I finished an errand I kept putting off – I finally bought some shoes for the Creative Arts Emmys (happening the next afternoon!).

Aurora De Lucia holding a Native Foods Cafe bag
Since we’re talking about a plant-based diet, how about yet another picture with Native Foods Cafe? (So glad I found this place during this process. Thanks UCLA! :-))

We lived our little Emmy vacation world all weekend. And soon after, I hear from my donor coordinator.

I’d written her right after I’d gotten back to work from my appointments that Friday, saying thanks for everything, asking when I should take the 24-hour-urine test again, and double checking that she’d gotten everything from me that she needed.

(Am I maybe slightly too gung-ho about this? Eh. Just being thorough!)

The plan for the 24-hour-urine collection was that hopefully I could take it in September. If I passed it, they’d need one more so they’d have something to confirm the good result (as opposed to just having one bad and one good result).

Aside from the next urine collection, she also said the results of one of my tests – (I think it was perhaps the chest x-ray?… Though I don’t know if x-rays can see this…) Whatever test it was indicated that I had a lump on my breast.

I needed to get a report that the lump was benign before we could proceed with anything.

I don’t want to leave you on a cliffhanger that might worry some until Sunday night. So, for now, I’ll just tell you fear not. This was nothing to worry about as I already knew it was there.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

Should I Go To The Morning Or Afternoon Taping?

March 17, 2015

Aurora holding her head in her hands on The Price is Right
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

Since I love talking game show minutiae, I thought I’d bring up this question I’ve been asked before – both when it comes to The Price is Right and Let’s Make a Deal.

The short answer is that I have no idea if there are any real differences between the morning and afternoon tapings of those shows. Here is the only information I can give you. On Price, I got picked in the morning show; on LMAD, the afternoon’s.

I hear that for Let’s Make a Deal, the morning shows usually air earlier in the season than the afternoon shows. So, if you want less wait time between your tape and air date, I guess go in the morning. Also, if you go to either show in the morning and don’t get picked, there’s a chance they’ll have empty seats in the afternoon and you’ll get a second shot.

In that way, you’d technically have a better shot going to the morning show, since you’d have more opportunities to potentially be chosen. Some people are skeptical if people from the first show ever really get chosen, if they stay for the second. However, in my episode of Let’s Make a Deal, the girl who played alongside me for a trip to Mexico had gone to the morning taping. So, it can happen!

Aurora and her maybe face on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

If anything, I’d say maybe think bigger than just, “Should I go to the morning or afternoon taping?” If you live here, and can go anytime, maybe think about going to the first show of the season (as the shows tend to start the season off with a bang).

Maybe consider going to a show that might air during sweeps – as you might get lucky and get on Big Money Week. (You can kind of keep an eye on where they are with air dates, by checking the contestant photos on The Way Marketing site. I don’t know that the schedule will always follow along an exact order, but it’s a good place to start.)

If anyone out there happens to know when Big Money Week is without just kind of guessing like that, I’d love to hear your advice!

That’s all I’ve got when it comes to morning or afternoon tapings. But if you have anything else to add, please add it in the comments. Thanks!

(To read more about my Let’s Make a Deal experience, go here. If you want to read on Price is Right, that’s here. Thanks!)

Oh, One Last Small Thought From My Let’s Make A Deal/Price Is Right Experiences (Hard Games vs Easy Ones)

March 16, 2015

Aurora excited about the upcoming prize in contestants' row
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

When I watch The Price is Right, sometimes some games definitely seem harder than others.

Word on the street is that when a ton of people have been winning, and the budget is getting a bit tighter, the show will make some games tougher.

Reversely, when people haven’t been winning much, games will become a little easier (so hopefully someone will win).

I’m not implying any games are ever fixed. That’s not what I mean by this at all. There’s just a toughness factor…

For instance, the first time someone won on “Pay the Rent,” the game was set up so that even if you didn’t use the best strategy (and you put the least expensive item in the mailbox (which you should never do!)), you could still win.

(Does what I’m saying make sense? I don’t know why I’m having such a hard time explaining it!)

Anyway, one thing I thought was funny is that from the a game show watcher’s eye, it sort of looked like during my day on Price that neither me, nor the other car winner, were “supposed” to win our car games.

I know that even when games are set up as tougher than normal, there’s obviously still a chance you’ll win (as we both proved on The Price is Right that day).

But, the other car game that was played (One Away) had 4 blue numbers in a row! I don’t think most people would’ve thought to go that route. People generally think they need to mix up the colors. (And from what I can tell, they usually do.)

Aurora smiling and scratching the side of her face
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

Also, I’ve heard that in The Money Game, when the halves are not next to each other, and when there’s not an El Cheapo piece to help you out, the game is being set up so that the show is kinda hoping you don’t win.

(Technically, from every interview I’ve heard with the Exec Producer Mike Richards, it sounds like he always wants everyone to win. So, maybe “hoping you don’t win” is the wrong wording… But you know, they’re making it an extra challenge for you.)

I have no idea, by the way, if that’s true about The Money Game. That’s just sort of Price is Right lore I’ve heard around the game show community.

So, from what I could tell, we were in a tougher games day on Price is Right – yet obviously, I won!

Whereas, on Let’s Make a Deal, much about that day seemed to scream incredible prizes they generally wanted us to win (judging by the games people played)… yet, I lost.

Aurora getting handed her license plate after winning a car on The Price is Right
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

Maybe I’m reading into things, and being a little crazy. And I still cannot argue with the strategy I used that day (the best I had in a game like that)… But I just thought it was funny.

You never know what life is gonna give you! Even when things seem stacked against you, you may persevere. And when things seem to be in your favor, you still may screw it all up!

Ah, life!

(To read more about my Let’s Make a Deal experience, go here. If you want to read on Price is Right, that’s here. Thanks!)

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 21 (Meeting With The Nephrologist)

March 15, 2015

Aurora looking pretty tired reading a magazine
I think this was from that morning while waiting for the urogram… As you can see, I am oh so tired. 😛 (Still super happy to be there though!)

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

After lunch, I went to my appointment with my nephrologist. My blood pressure and heart rate were taken, just as they had been the day before – only this time, they were way back into the range of normal. My blood pressure was 91/53. And my pulse was 47 beats per minute.

I let out a huge sigh of relief and had a little laugh with the person taking my vitals, recollecting how silly it was to be so nervous yesterday.

Then it was off to meet the nephrologist, Dr. R.

Dr. R. seems to be an exceptional doctor, and I’d be thrilled to have him as my nephrologist. He goes over all my lab results with me, and I couldn’t be more pleased with what he’s saying. He says all my numbers are exceptional – especially my cholesterol. I’m within the best of good cholesterol numbers he’s seen walk through the door. So this is great.

He literally says I’m the picture of the health – the picture of health!

My dad and I have often called each other “the picture of health”… in a tongue-in-cheek way. As you probably know, I used to be a lot fatter. But I’ve always had great blood pressure, along with some other great numbers. (I think some of it must be hereditary.)

So, my dad and I always joked, since we’ve had such great numbers, “Oh, I’m the picture of health!” – even though we knew we weren’t, as you could plainly see by looking at us (since we needed to lose weight).

Then I lost a good deal of weight. And I worked out a lot more, and harder. So, when Dr. R. said I was the picture of health, there was no sarcasm in it!

(I know I can and should still lose more weight (oof), but the doctor was cool with where I am.)

Aurora smiling in the mirror, wearing her kidney pants
Why do I have a million different poses in these pants? (I knew I was gonna have a lot of blog posts! :-P)

Even looking through my chart (now, after the fact), everything he says about me is good. He says I’m alert and very pleasant. (Very pleasant!)

He does say my skin is dry. But for real, I have super dry skin. I can’t argue there. I need to start a lotion regimen!

If dry skin is the worst of it, I’m pretty golden!

But!

There’s just one thing he’s concerned about.

[*My head falls forward*] Of course.

Note: This is only my attitude now in the retelling of the story. In the office, while I was taking it in, I leaned forward with big listening eyes… Yes?

“Well, your protein in your urine is a little high,” he tells me.

Okay, and what does that mean?

“Well, we don’t really know what it means yet,” he responded. He told me basically it could just be a fluke…

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

Uh, Of Course There’s a Difference Between The Price Is Right, and Let’s Make a Deal

March 14, 2015

Aurora ecstatic on floor with head up on The Price is Right
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

I spent a fair amount of time comparing The Price Is Right with Let’s Make a Deal in my posts.

It seemed easy to do. They’re similar in that people come off the street to win prizes that day. Also, Mike Richards is an Executive Producer on both. Since I had experiences on seemingly similar shows, it was easy to compare them.

Then I talked to one of my brilliant friends.

It did not take him long at all to convince me that of course things have to be done differently! At first I didn’t love that reactions were re-taped on Let’s Make a Deal, but my friend made me see that the show would feel ridiculously flat if all of the contestants were all, “Well, I didn’t get this or that, but it’s okay.”

These shows thrive on the crying in defeat and the screaming in victory. The ups and the downs make these shows. On The Price is Right, the show is never going to be flat. People will be upset or happy about losing or winning – because there is no other option on that show. You don’t get a choice between one thing or another. So, of course the producers let you react normally.

On Let’s Make a Deal, you still have to have strong reactions in order for the show to not be flat. My guess is that even if you want to choose to make your strong reaction joy about not getting something you’d never use, you’re not allowed to go that way with it, as the sponsors might get upset.

Aurora with a thinking face on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

So, if you have to have strong reactions to keep the show moving in an interesting way, and if you have to have certain reactions to make sponsors happy, then of course the Let’s Make a Deal producers will coach you. They gotta get what they need.

So, thanks so much friend, for explaining that to me. I see it so clearly now. And LMAD producers, I get it. Sorry if I sounded harsh in any earlier posts (though I tried not to…). You’re just trying to make great TV. I can’t fault you for that!

(To read more about my Let’s Make a Deal experience, go here. If you want to read on Price is Right, that’s here. Thanks!)

Let’s Make a Deal Prize FAQs

March 13, 2015

Aurora De Lucia giving a huge smile with Sharmine, the other contestant, on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

I have a page dedicated to The Price is Right FAQs, and I think almost all the answers are the same.

Also, I’m not an incredible resource, as the only thing I’ve been is zonked.

But, since some people have asked Let’s Make a Deal questions, I can give you some answers.

Can I take the cash value of a prize in lieu of the prize?

Nope. In our contestant information sheet, it states quite clearly, in all caps, “You may not request cash in lieu of your prize(s), or request substitutions.” However, since I’ve known seemingly a million people who’ve been on Let’s Make a Deal, I can tell you a couple of things I’ve heard secondhand.

Someone I know won a scooter. She went to the dealership, asking the dealership (not the show) if she could have money instead. My understanding is that they gave her half of what the scooter was worth. I’m led to believe this is not the norm, and usually you get your prize or nothing. But apparently, sometimes, maybe you can strike a deal with the vendor.

Also, word on the street is that often times you will end up getting cash in lieu of Apple products. I don’t know why that is – why it would be hard to get people Apple products. It might be something about not shipping them? We’d need to ask someone who’s won a suite of Apple products to know the real answer. (And if you have, please jump in!)

But those are the main stories I’ve heard when it comes to prize substitutions.

contestants and Wayne talking and laughing on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Sometimes something no longer exists by the time your show airs. Strange things can happen. But the point is, you don’t get to choose money. I guess sometimes money might choose you (in those various odd circumstances of Apple products, things not existing, etc.).

How do the taxes work?

The same way they did on Price. You pay federal and state taxes on the values of your prize(s), as they’ll be treated as income.

What I did not know until reading more of this paperwork, is that if you’re not a resident of California (and your prize is valued at over $1,500), Let’s Make a Deal will ask for advance payment of California state taxes. (If you like outside the U.S., they’ll do the same with federal.)

Does that mean if you don’t live in California that you not only pay your own state taxes, but California’s as well? I know I’m supposed to be here to answer questions, not ask them. But I live here, so I didn’t deal with that on The Price is Right (or here since I only won $100). And it doesn’t explicitly say in this paperwork. That would be rough! I hope if you pay California that’s good enough. You can’t get state taxed twice, can you? Does anyone know?

How do the trips work?

Way to rub in. Thanks.

I’m just kidding.

Aurora De Lucia with super big eyes looking at Wayne Brady on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

But as you all know, I missed out on the trip. However, it still talks about trips in this little packet we get from the show. It says the winner of the trip does indeed need to be one of the traveling parties. It says you have to book the trip within 90 days of your air date, and it must be taken within a year of the air date.

Yes there are blackout dates (but it doesn’t specify which ones). It sounds like you give 3 options of dates that would work for you, and the travel agent goes off that. If none of those work, you do a little back and forth. It also says you’re responsible for basically any random fees that comes up, and it lists many of them (e.g. baggage fees, meals, taxes, tips, trips to and from the airport, port charges, and more).

I wish I could tell you more. But as I said, I lost on the trip. So, this is all I got for ya! But if you have any other questions, let me know, and I’ll see if I can answer them. Thanks!

Want more on Let’s Make a Deal? Boom!

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 20 (Ending On A Positive Note)

March 12, 2015

Aurora giving a pretty big laugh on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

I’d like to end on a positive note.

I know I’ve been over-analyzing some things (as I am wont to do), and I hope you don’t get the sense that this was a bad experience.

Of course it was an incredibly fun experience! Being on a game show? What’s not to love about that? I adore game shows!

I said I wanted to win a big prize or get zonked, and I got zonked. If I really didn’t want to get zonked, I should’ve been more careful with what I wished for!

One thing that helps keep the zonk feeling light and fun (that my dad pointed out, and I was shocked I missed) is that had the guy who won the motorcycle not gone for the Big Deal of the Day, the next person who would’ve had the option would’ve been the girl in my game who won the trip to Mexico.

Had I also won the trip, it would’ve been me!

Aurora getting nervous and lifting her pants a bit on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

So, if Michael had passed, and I’d seen that I could’ve played for the Big Deal if only I’d chosen the box, it would’ve been over. I’d be having nightmares to this day. But it gave me so much solace that Michael chose to play – and he won, which is spectacular. (Thank you, Michael!)

Also, it’s always magical spending time with my dad. He said he loved having the experience of going to Let’s Make a Deal with me. And I loved it as well. I mean, what a cool, fun, interesting way to spend a day with Daddy.

Now, let’s hope the next time he comes out to CA, we could get him on a show! (And let’s hope he has better luck. ;))

Thanks for reading along!

And next up, I’ll answer some LMAD prize FAQs.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 20 (The CT Urogram)

March 11, 2015

Aurora De Lucia trying to give a tough girl post in the mirror wearing her hospital pants
Just giving another tough look, ’cause I was trying to be sooo cool in my sweet hospital pants. 🙂

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

First up was my CT Urogram. I drank the little cup of water. Then I waited the allotted amount of time.

After that, I got changed into a hospital gown. An IV was inserted so that some dye could be injected into me during the test.

Then, I was taken into one of those rooms with the big circular scanner. (It sort of looks like a big a donut where you lay down and a technician mechanically slides you into the center.) The guy who led me in was incredibly sweet. I usually make small talk with the medical professionals. He’d switched to a more interactive job, and was telling me how he absolutely loves helping people and wanted a job where he could have face time with the patients, instead of helping from afar.

He offered me a blanket. He worked to make sure I felt completely comfortable and calm. Of course I wasn’t afraid at all. At this point, with all the time I’ve spent in the hospital, scanners are nothing! But if I’d been afraid, I probably would’ve wanted the calming presence of this nice man (who seemed to be excellent at his job – thumbs up!).

The Urogram consisted basically of a lot of holding my breath, and being slid in and out of the scanner. The tech in the other room would check in with me between each round to see if I was okay.

Yeah, I’m totally good.

Aurora De Lucia smiling while stuffing her face with nachos
I didn’t realize I had another nacho eating photo… but since I do, and we’re talking about food, boom!

The test went quicker than I expected. On the sheet it says it will take an hour. The hour counts the water drinking, and waiting, and changing, and getting the IV and all of that.

For some reason, knowing it was going to take an hour, I assumed I’d be in that scanner forever. But I think it was probably only 20 minutes-ish? It was pretty fast.

Once it was over, there wasn’t really enough time to go to work and come back (and actually get anything real accomplished at work). So, I just hung out at UCLA.

A blog reader had written me recently saying he was going to be in town and he wondered if he could meet me for coffee.

It was a crazy week between work, and the Emmys (the day after this 2nd Big Kidney Day), and of course this kidney stuff. But I really hate ever saying I’m too busy for people, unless there truly is not some way to make time for them (which isn’t often the case… though once in a while I suppose it can be).

Anyway, I told him that it was a busy week but if he happened to want to have lunch at UCLA Hospital in the time between my tests, I’d be up for it.

He trekked out to Santa Monica(!). We hung out in the cafe area and talked. Hopefully he felt I was present and not too distracted by all my tests. Of course, there wasn’t too much for me to be distracted by, as all I had left was the meeting with the nephrologist. How hard could that be?

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 19 (Post-Game Analysis)

March 10, 2015

Aurora laughing with her head down on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

So my dad and I analyzed and analyzed in the car.

It didn’t matter how many millions of times we went over it. I played the game to the best of my ability!

I will admit I should’ve known “on the rocks” almost certainly meant diamonds, as that is often the diamonds clue. When you think about it that way, you can say I should’ve gotten away from the mini-curtain sooner.

But there was still a chance the box was a zonk…

Whether it was diamonds or not, when Wayne said that once you picked something you were done, all I thought was, “stay ’til the end of the deal.” And the only way I could do that was to keep the curtain.

With so little to go on, I feel like I made strategically the best choice (though you are of course welcome to voice your comments if you disagree).

Obviously once I knew the trip was gone, I made the right choice (for me) between diamonds and a zonk. So, that one I can be really happy and content about.

No matter how many times we went over it (and I’ve even been over it now a few times within this very story I’m telling you!), I couldn’t see an inherent flaw in logic or game play. I can’t really say it would’ve technically been smart to do anything differently.

That sort of helped make it better, ’cause I like knowing I did everything I could. That also sort of made it worse, because you do everything you can to the best of your ability, and still you lose? That’s a bit suck-y, right?

Aurora with nervous face waiting to hear about her fate on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

One thing that was a bit funny to me – if you think I’m an over-analyzer, we saw where I got it from during that car ride!

During the game, I’d looked back at my dad for his advice. And in the car, he was all, “I should’ve told you to go for the box! I was thinking the box! You even asked for my advice. I should’ve said something!”

So, he analyzed his part plenty too (even though he knows his daughter was probably gonna go with her own choices no matter what).

He did try to make losing feel better. (After all, he is my dad.) He tried to appeal to the logical part of my brain. “Sweetheart, you live in California. If you want to go to Mexico, get in a car and drive there.”

Also, he was correct when he told me I could go to Cabo for the same amount of money I would’ve paid in taxes on that trip.

But he knows me so well, ’cause he said, “I know that logic isn’t really going to help because whether it’s a trip to Mexico, a million dollars, or a penny, it’s all the same to you. The point is you want to win. So, I’m sorry.”

(At the time, I hadn’t totally thought about it exactly like that. But who could argue that he was completely right?)

It’s nice having a dad who can try to help you see the logic in why it’s technically okay to have lost, but totally joins in on your pity party as he knows logic doesn’t help losing. Wah wah.

And this is where I’ll pick up tomorrow.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 18 (Am I A Riff-Raff Contestant?)

March 9, 2015

Aurora scratches her eye while looking off-camera on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

Once I saw my dad, he was not surprised that my mood had finally turned to being upset. I think he was more surprised I’d ever not been.

We went over and over everything in the car ride home – even going into things outside of our game. “What if I hadn’t forgotten my ID, and we’d gotten to go to the morning taping? Would things have been different?”

I also started to wonder if maybe the Let’s Make a Deal staff just didn’t like me… They didn’t pick me or my incredibly game-show-friendly friends the first time I went. Then they called me for the last game in this show…

I’ve heard on a podcast that the last game on LMAD often gets changed out. Depending on how long the show is going, they might make it a shorter or a longer game to help with the timing of everything. Does that mean if I get the game that’s up in the air, that I’m kind of the riff-raff of the show?

I have no idea what it means! I’m not in their heads. But I wonder. Do you wonder if they try to put the people they like in the better (or maybe longer) games?

Aurora thinking with her mouth open on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

I also wondered if maybe I’d gone with my runner costume after all, would they have put me in the game where I could’ve won that sweet home gym?

Do they try to make games fit with people? (Then again, I just mentioned in the last post people who put on a costume after the interview. So, do the costumes mean nothing? Who knows anything really!)

Don’t get me wrong. I was wildly happy to play. And I genuinely am even sort of, kind of happy that I got zonked – in the sense that it is cute to be able to say, “I won a car on The Price is Right, and I got zonked on Let’s Make a Deal.” That’s a fun dichotomy, right? And you can’t get zonked anywhere else!

So, I’m not trying to sound as though I’m super upset that I wasn’t in a different spot (though I would’ve loooved that gym). I guess I’m just saying, I wish I knew what “winning” was when it came to what game you play.

Do producers put people they think are great with especially great games? ‘Cause I want to be great! I want to win – not only a prize but also obviously I want to win the love of the producers, by golly!

I even wondered that on Price is Right too, if producers put their favorite contestants first to give them the longest chance to win something?

Aurora in contestants' row on The Price is Right
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

Of course, on Price, it’s nearly impossible to try to put a contestant you love in a game you love. It’s hard to know what game someone will play based on when you call them down, as so many various surprises happen in contestants’ row.

And as a home viewer, I’ve seen plenty of super lovable Price is Right contestants who don’t get called ’til mid-show (or later).

So, maybe the Let’s Make a Deal people like me. Maybe they don’t. (My friend said if I played anything at all, they must like me at least a little. So, there is that line of thinking.) Maybe things would’ve been different at the morning taping. Maybe they wouldn’t have been.

Side note: The girl who played my game with me went to the morning taping and didn’t get called. Then she stuck around and played the game with me… So, it’s possible that things would’ve been exactly the same.

None of it truly matters. Yet, I can’t help but analyze (because apparently that is my life (or at least my brain))! Mmmm over-thinking. Delicious.

More post-game analysis tomorrow.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 19 (I Was Late To Day 2 Of Big Kidney Days? Uuuuugh.)

March 8, 2015

Aurora De Lucia looking tired yet happy in a hospital gownTime for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

I was late. Late!

Partially I was nervous about this because I think I read somewhere in our packets that it’s bad if you’re late. (Obviously it’s bad.) But that it’s bad on some bigger level – like they might reschedule other things, or make your process go longer, or whatever.

Additionally, I didn’t like this because being late doesn’t say anything good about me as a person. Responsible people are respectful of people’s time, and they’re on time. I know we live in California where everyone operates on California Time (which is just normal time pushed back 5 – 40 minutes, or sometimes even longer, since everyone is late to practically everything ever).

I really dislike California time, so I try to be on time to stuff. But I can still feel myself being lulled into being a typical Angelino sometimes. Ugh. (Ugh!)

Anyway, I have no real excuses or good reasoning. I was just late and felt awful about it. Thankfully, they didn’t make a huge deal, and they saw me anyway.

Side note: When I first got my schedule, I saw that my first test was at 8am(!). My next one wasn’t ’til 12:30pm. I asked if there was any way to move them closer together, but alas, there was not.

(I can totally understand that. Sometimes, which scheduling things with so many moving parts, you can’t accommodate every person in the most ideal way for each individual. Of course, this was fine. I was happy to do what they needed… even if I did fall short of it. So sorry!)

All right, enough about me being late! Other than being embarrassing, it wasn’t a big deal. Okay, I will actually just say one last thing about it though…

My first test was a CT Urogram. You couldn’t eat or drink anything for 3 hours before your exam. (It said that in bold capital letters on our paperwork.)

Aurora De Lucia trying to look cool in her hospital pants
Trying to look cool in my hospital pants

But once we got there, they had us drink a small cup of water. Judging by the other patients doing it as well, we’d drink a small amount of water then wait a specified amount of time. (30 minutes, maybe? I’m just guessing.)

Then we’d have the test. I’m thinking that small bit of water had something to do with the test (though obviously, I really have no idea).

But if that was the case, it would’ve been really great to know, “Okay, since you’re running late, drink 3 ounces of water, so we can still start your test on time. You just won’t have the waiting period here.”

Obviously, they wouldn’t have had to tell me anything had I just been on time. So, I know it’s completely my fault. I was just wishing I wasn’t late, and I felt so bad, that I was grasping at magical scenarios in my head in which I wouldn’t have slowed anything down by being late…

But maybe someone else was early. Maybe nothing was slowed down. Maybe someone cancelled. I don’t know. All I know is they saw me. They didn’t seem mad. I was only mad at myself. (Grrr.) But since the people were so cool, I let it go soon enough.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 17 (What Do You Get When You’re Zonked?)

March 7, 2015

Aurora De Lucia looking with nervous big eyes as her prize is about to be revealed on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

People are getting called up to one of two desks to turn in paperwork. As I mentioned, all the zonked people get called first.

Did you know that when you get zonked, you get $100?

When I was up there with the guy processing me, I asked (somewhat jokingly), “Has anyone asked for her actual zonk?” Then I learned that’s the reason we get $100!

Apparently, a long time ago, a man asked for his zonk. I guess it was some kind of junky car or something. He made a case that it had technically been presented as though he’d won it. And he could sell the scrap metal and make money off it. So, because of that, they now have to give a suggested retail value of $100 to any zonk. You can take your $100 or nothing. (But you can’t get the actual zonk that was presented.)

After we’re processed, we wait just a bit longer. Since they take us out in groups on this show, we need to wait until enough people have been processed that it makes sense to take the first group down together.

Aurora looking up and smiling on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

Cell phones were brought up for the contestants, since we didn’t go out past the cell phone check-in area when everyone else did. I should’ve assumed that of course LMAD would take care of us, but I gave my cell phone claim ticket to my dad so he could get it.

The only part that was a slight bummer about this, was had they brought my phone up to me, I think I technically could’ve taken pictures of this little room so you could have a better visual idea of what I was talking about!

Oh well. When one of you goes in there, I’d love if you send me a picture!

As our little group gets led out along the backlot, the guy from the costume rental place is waiting there to collect costumes! That’s right. Two people who’d been contestants had rented their costumes after their interview (which made me totally question how important costumes are to the process).

After that, I met back up with my dad. And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 16 (Signing Some Papers)

March 6, 2015

Aurora De Lucia looking offscreen on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

Thankfully, I was soon rescued from my obnoxiousness, as everyone who got zonked was processed first (being that there wasn’t much to process there).

Before that happened, though, I wondered who was listening to our conversations – and who was making decisions when it came to coming back for Zonk Redemption.

Had I just purposefully chosen a zonk in order to try to come back for a second chance, only to ruin that by not acting correctly in a room where important people are watching? Oh the stress of it all!

In the room, we were told you’re not offered copies of your show. If you want a copy, you’re gonna need to record it. I was a bit surprised by that.

Not to go back to the whole, “Well, it’s not like Price” thing. Of course it’s not like Price! It’s a different show, and I don’t need to compare them at every turn. Buuuuuut, on The Price is Right, they let you buy the DVD of your show – which I totally did.

Maybe they don’t even do it on Price anymore. After all, it’s been a while since I’ve been there.

I thought it must be somewhat lucrative for the show to sell those DVDs. I think it was sort of expensive for a DVD, and I assumed many people bought it just to make sure they had a perfect tangible copy (that you could also order on Blu Ray!).

But it must not be lucrative after all, or else Let’s Make a Deal would be doing it.

We were also given a number of papers to sign (just as we were on Price). One thing I found interesting with the LMAD paperwork was the forfeiture sheet (the one that asks us to list any prizes we want to forfeit).

Aurora De Lucia laughing while scratching her face on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

It had a big black line through all the blanks – assuming we wouldn’t want to pass on any prizes.

On Price is Right, when you see the paper, I feel like it gives you reason to pause, and it helps remind you about the tax issues you may be facing.

I feel like probably brain-wise when people see a big black line through something, they assume they’re not to fill out that thing. (Though I have no science to back that up. So, why am I even talking here?)

Of course probably the majority of people will not fill it out… But some people might want to.

In Let’s Make a Deal’s defense, they give you two copies of that paper. The second one has blanks available to you, instead of crossed out lines.

The example they have taped to the wall, that shows what they want you to turn in, includes the one with the big black lines. (I’d guess that’s maybe just an extra precaution for them to prove you’re definitely not turning any prizes away.)

Anyway, you still have the option to turn down prizes if you wish (and you technically have 10 days to decide, it says at the top). I just thought that difference was interesting.

That’s a really small point. But since my time at Price was so etched into my head, it’s hard not to compare the shows. Hopefully at least one of these random details is interesting.

And this is where we’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 15 (My Dad Was Right – I Was Upset)

March 5, 2015

Aurora De Lucia with hands on her hips and a bit of a mean face at Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

I was worried I might be sort of obnoxious – because someone else who got zonked (and missed out on an even sweeter prize) said, “Well, at least we got to be on TV.”

And I’m pretty sure my eyes gave her this look of, “Are you kidding me?! Who cares? You can be on TV anytime you want! Go join Central Casting. Or come be in a scene on Living with the Jacksons. I have taken people off the street before when we’re desperate!”

(I know you can’t necessarily speak on TV anytime, so it is different to be a contestant on a game show than to be in the background somewhere…)

But still, I was totally in a mood – a pretty jerky mood, a mood of dealing with my failure as it continued to hit me more and more as I sat there, a mood of “Who cares if we’re on TV?! We’re wasting a year and a half of our game show eligibility on a zonk! Yeah, it’s a funny story to be able to tell [although now telling it, I’m not doing it in a very funny way!]. But is the potential story that funny – worth losing a year and a half of your game show eligibility?”

Of course who’s to say we would’ve gotten on another show within that year and a half anyway?

Aurora stressfully turning toward the mini-curtain on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

I don’t know if new things will be starting up, or if old favorites will be casting wide nets, or what will happen. (And goodness knows I’ve tried out for things I didn’t get. So, the year and a half may very well mean nothing at all.)

Plus, it’s exceptionally fun to be on a game show (no matter what you win or don’t win)!

While I do think there are strategies on what shows to try to get on when (and while winning a lot is obviously preferable to winning practically nothing), I also think I need to show more gratitude for the fact that I even got to play. Some people have never even been to Los Angeles, let alone on a game show! I do recognize that and my general good fortune.

Also, let’s forget for a second about game show eligibility! I think the really upsetting thing is just knowing I lost. I hate losing. It’s the worst! Going into it, I was all, “I’ll have such a great attitude if I get zonked, ’cause it’ll be so cute and funny.” And coming out of it, I’m all, [*wailing to the heavens*] “I’m a loser. A loooooser!

As I said, I was just in a mood. And in my mood, after she said, “At least we got to be on TV,” I blurted out something like, “I won a car on The Price is Right.” Then I tried to cover it as best I could, trying to act like I didn’t blurt it out thinking “pssh I’ve already been on a show where I did a much better job” like a lame little braggart.

Aurora facing the side practically crying on The Price is Right
(A photo from The Price is Right – Credit: CBS/Freemantle)

Instead, I grasped at straws and said, “So, I guess this is my turn to get zonked, as you can’t win on every show.” But in trying to save myself from looking obnoxious, I just looked more obnoxious! This was getting really preposterous. Eeesh.

I like to believe I’m not a jerk, but maybe the best way to tell if I’m a jerk is to see me lose at something competitive – and maybe the truth is that I am a jerk! It’s certainly starting to seem that way, huh?

Thankfully, it didn’t matter if I was feeling wildly obnoxious because instead of people reacting with a bunch of anger, people started asking me questions about The Price is Right – when I got my prize, if I had to pay taxes, all that jazz.

Thank goodness for people’s curiosity (and maybe even their patience).

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 18 (Finishing Big Kidney Day 1)

March 4, 2015

Aurora De Lucia stuffing her face with nachos
Mmmmm nachos

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

As I’m leaving the psychiatrist’s office, he says he’ll send off his recommendation right away. He even turns to his computer to do it as I’m walking out.

We had such a magical time. (He told me right there I’d make a great kidney donor!)

Does that mean I’m going to get to be one?!

Well, there’s still the social worker to consider, though nothing super out of the ordinary happened with that interview. And I still have a couple of appointments the next day. So, I’m still holding on tight, but with a big sense of hope!

After the interview with the psychiatrist, I’m done for the day – and I’m so relieved! I made it out alive.

As I wait for a car to pick me up, and I rip into those nachos, from Native Foods Cafe, like there’s no tomorrow. I’ve been holding in nerves all day. It’s finally time to chow down.

Once a car comes and gets me, it’s off to a quick stop off at the tailor to grab my Emmy dress.

Then it’s off to work for a half day. Thankfully, things were winding down, so I didn’t feel that I missed an incredible amount of stuff that morning. Still, I stayed a little late, trying to be a cool team player and all.

I crash pretty soon after arriving at my friend’s place in Santa Monica later that night.

Yes, I’ve mentioned in these posts that I realized it wasn’t necessarily a good idea to be anywhere but home before my appointments. However, at that point, it seemed silly to spend all the extra time going home and coming back to Santa Monica the next morning, on a somewhat tight turnaround (since I worked late that night and had an early appointment the next day).

Aurora trying on her dress for the creative Arts Emmys
(Since I’m kinda running out of kidney photos, here’s one from the tailor shop when I made the pit stop to try on the dress

Plus, with not as much on the line during the second day of appointments, I wasn’t the same ball of stress I’d been the previous night.

In fact, I think on that night, both of us were both less stressed and in a much more exhausted (aka totally ready to sleep) mood. So, we did a very quick download of each other’s days while we got ready for bed. And I was asleep before 10pm.

The next morning, unfortunately, I sort of overestimated how many times I could hit snooze. (And I’d possibly underestimated quite how tired I was after my day of barely breathing in my terrified-ness of Big Kidney Day.)

No matter what excuses I try to use to explain my mistake, I still made a mistake. The events surrounding that don’t really matter… I don’t want to admit it, but I was late to my appointment. (Agh!) In the scheme of life, being late is a somewhat small mistake, but still! I wanted a perfect record with gold stars! Grrr.

Embarrassingly (though spoiler alert: nothing detrimental happens), this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 14 (I Thought We’d All Be Into Analyzing Our Performances…)

March 3, 2015

Aurora De Lucia laughs pointing behind herself on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

The longer I wait in there, the more it starts to really dawn on me that I lost a free trip.

I went in to the taping saying, “I hope I get something great or a zonk (since Let’s Make a Deal is the only place you can be zonked).”

But let’s get real, I wanted something great! I really wanted a trip. And I could’ve had one! Aye, aye, aye.

I thought I was cool with it, but I slowly became more moan-y and uncool with it.

When I say (in the room) that I’m kinda bummed I got zonked, someone else pipes up with, “Yeah, those were nice diamonds.” That’s when I start breaking down my game. “Once the trip was gone, I wanted to avoid the diamonds,” I say.

And as I explained to the people around me the same thought process I explained to you earlier in this series, people just kind of looked at me with this gaping mouth face.

One zonked person said she was excited to learn there was a Zonk Redemption episode. One person asked, “You were thinking all that while you were up there?”

As I said, I thought we were all going to break down our games, but from what I gathered, basically no one else used any strategy. I know you can’t use much on Let’s Make a Deal. But some people literally just thought right on the surface, “Uh, eenie, meanie…”

One guy who passed up going for the Big Deal Of The Day even said the reason he didn’t go for it was because he didn’t want to get zonked! He didn’t realize there were no zonks in the Big Deal.

Wayne Brady and Aurora De Lucia hugging on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

I thought I’d found my people, but alas, I had not.

I did learn that the guy who’d won the Big Deal had been to a taping once before and not gotten called. I asked if he did anything differently and he said no.

That was kind of interesting to me. In the past (and sometimes still), I’ve made the assumption that if you don’t get picked, you must be doing something wrong. But maybe you’re just against crazy competition. Or maybe a contestant producer is having a bad day and you say something that otherwise wouldn’t bother them.

Lots of factors play into things. I guess you could go, and go again without changing anything, and get picked. (After all, Michael did.) Maybe I over-think too much after all! Of course I believe in giving yourself the best chances at every audition of any kind you go to. But I guess some of it really is out of your control… Hmmm.

Within all my super-analyzing in the room, I think it’s possible I may be getting a little obnoxious in there. Oof.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 13 (My Dad Thinks I’m Gonna Be Upset)

March 2, 2015

Aurora's dad in disbelief during Let's Make a Deal
(Credit: CBS/Freemantle)

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

Once I sit down with my dad, he’s bracing himself for me to be severely disappointed. Surprisingly I’m in a pretty chipper mood.

In the moment, I was thinking I played the game to the best of my ability, with the best strategy I knew for a game involving such chance. I thought I made the technically correct choices. At least I got to play. Getting zonked is kind of fun. So, why be upset?

Of course, this is the dad who watched his daughter run away and hide under a bench when she got silver instead of gold at the math pentathlon in elementary school. It’s the dad who had a daughter who systematically followed a 7-point plan (starting her freshman year) for how to become her high school’s theater president (which she did – [*high five*]).

This is a dad who has a daughter who absolutely hates losing – hates it… and who subscribes to the whole, “If you’re not first you’re last” school of thought. (I so adore that line in Talladega Nights.)

So, he was waiting for the volcano to erupt. I thought it wasn’t going to… But he may have been right. (He has known me for decades, after all.)

After the show, everyone who played a game had to go back to the contestant room to fill out paperwork.

You walk in, and the room has a decoration streamer up with big letters that say, “Congratulations!”

Aurora's dad putting his head in his hands from the audience during Let's Make a Deal
(Credit: CBS/Freemantle)

Okay, there, some of us are big losers. No real super need to rub this in our face. But you know, whatever.

There’s a social media guy in there, who grabs a video snippet of some of the bigger winners.

As he looks around the room and asks if anyone else won anything great that he’s forgetting, I echoed the sentiment of, “I said I wanted a trip. I should’ve been more specific.” [ha ha ha]

I was trying to be sort of cute, but I think it must’ve come across as sort of obnoxious, because he very quickly blew past me, looking around for other winners.

I’d piped up ’cause I thought it might be fun to do a cute little zonk video, but I guess they only do them with actual winners. Oh well. They know what the people on instagram want.

After the social media videos were made, we all sat around a bit longer until it was time to be processed.

During the sitting around, I thought it would be like the Price is Right contestant room, where everyone was breaking down their games, what they should’ve said or done differently, and all of that. But no. It wasn’t like that at all.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 17 (The End Of The Psych Interview)

March 1, 2015

Beautiful big overview of Vatican City toward the end of the daylight
Since I don’t have photos of this interview, here’s Vatican City – one of the European cities (or in this case, country) mentioned. (Photo Credit: HistoryCooperative.com)

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

The psychiatrist then asks me to name 3 big cities in Europe.

I say Rome, Paris, and Vatican City. No wait! I think Vatican City is actually its own country. (Also, I wasn’t thinking this at the time, but it’s within Rome!)

As I was correcting myself yet again (eesh!) about Vatican City being a country – instead of taking off a point, or making me name more European cities, he said I got a bonus point for saying something obscure!

Wow. This test almost seems a little too lenient, huh? But I’ll take it.

I know the goal here is just to get approved to give a kidney… But I also want to get an A on this test! (In case you’re wondering, Moscow and London would’ve been better answers of bigger cities.)

(Side note: Bucharest isn’t quite as big as Rome or Paris, but it might’ve been a cool answer for me, because Michael Jackson’s Live in Bucharest: The Dangerous Tour made me want to go into the entertainment industry.)

Anyway, we’re still laughing, having fun, and getting bonus points. He then asked me for those three words. I conjure up that mental image to check my words. A book housing a car. Yep! Book, house, car.

After that, in his sweet and kind demeanor, he asked how far I went in school. Even though I was having a grand time with this man, I was still a bit on edge wondering if there’s a “wrong” answer – if not being educated would go in my chart as a reason to deny me.

But no, he was just asking out of curiosity – and as a way to give me a compliment! When I said I didn’t finish college, he said, “You oughta go back. Your capacity for abstract thought’s outstanding.” (Outstanding! Isn’t that awesome?)

He also said, “I suspect that you’re one of those, that anything you really want to put your mind to, you can do.”

Overview of Bucharest with lots of cars on the street
And here’s Bucharest. (Photo Credit: UnknownBucharest.com)

I cherish those words when they leave someone’s mouth. (I think that’s my favorite compliment to receive.)

Yet, sometimes I can love/hate so much when people say that to me.

Every once in a while (when I have days where I feel like I’m constantly failing), I wonder, “How can I hear that beautiful compliment so many times throughout my life – by people who seem to have good judgement – and yet fail so often? Am I not living up to my full potential? Am I letting these awesome people down?”

But those insecurities are for another day, as we’re talking about kidneys now!

After he tells me I’m smart, he follows up with, “that also means you’re smart enough to listen to the surgeons when they give you instructions after surgery.” Ah, hit ’em with the ol’ compliment/instruction, 1 – 2!

But wait. He said when the surgeons give me instructions – not “if,” not “maybe, if we get there.” “When.” Does that mean he thinks I’d made a good kidney donor?! Will he recommend me?

This is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 12 (Revealing The Zonk)

February 28, 2015

Aurora about to hear about her zonk on Let's Make a Deal
(Credit: CBS/Freemantle)

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

Before Wayne opened the envelope, he asked if I had a passport.

The chance of there being an actual international trip in there is incredibly small. I could maybe envision it happening. You know, the ol’ “You missed out on a trip to Mexico.” “Oh, what a bummer.” “But now, you have a trip to Egypt!”

Of course, there were a few things that would make me think that’s not likely to happen in this scenario.

For one, when they pull that whole “making you think you lost something amazing, but then you learn you got something even more grand” thing, it’s usually not a fake out of a trip with another trip. There might be cool electronics involved, or a car. There even might be a trip involved at some stage of the fake-out, but from what I can tell, it’s not usually a trip directly with another trip.

Also, if they were going to do that, I would think they would’ve kept the other girl down in the contestant area to get her reaction. So, the game set up would’ve been slightly different.

Also, for there to be no zonks at all in the deal…? It has happened. And I could see it happening if we were on the Zonk Redemption show, or maybe even the show’s season premiere – some big show that warranted that kind of incredible (and incredibly surprising) deal. But alas, we weren’t.

So, I was pretty certain the envelope must contain a zonk. (Though technically anything is possible! And it would’ve been sweet.)

Aurora realizing she's getting zonked on Let's Make a Deal
(Credit: CBS/Freemantle)

Nonetheless, I played along like a good little girl, and gave the expected facial expression of hope, just as the Let’s Make a Deal producers asked us to do before the show.

Not surprisingly, it was indeed a zonk.

You can see in the tape where I realize it’s the alien abduction trip and awkwardly cut myself off when I say, “is it like…” waiting for him to say the name of the trip (’cause I knew I shouldn’t, as it was probably rude say the name of the trip he’s revealing).

But then I felt like I looked like I didn’t know it. But I did study up for the show! So, I knew the name of the zonk. You trust me, right? Oh my goodness. Does anyone even care? It’s the name of a zonk trip on a game show. Who cares if I knew it?

I should be more concerned with whether I can name all the U.S. Presidents in order. [*Sigh*] Embarrassing myself left and right on this game show and on this blog, huh? Embarrassment – that’s my jam.

After the zonk was revealed, I almost said, “Well, I said I wanted a trip.” [Hardy, har, har.] But again (as I mentioned in the previous post), I felt like that wasn’t my place to try to come up with fun lines on Let’s Make a Deal. Also, I didn’t have the microphone. Plus I was kind of waiting for Wayne Brady’s lead, as he’s the man in charge.

But then he said, “Well, you said you wanted a trip.”

Big zonk graphic over Aurora's face on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

Part of me thought, “Agh! If it was a cute enough line for Wayne Brady to say it, I should’ve gone for it! Why am I totally screwing up trying to be a good game show contestant? Am I being so boring or what?” [Over-analyze much, Aurora?]

But then another part of me said, “He’s the star of Let’s Make a Deal. Happily let him be the star. Good for you for not stepping on his line… And good for you for thinking of the same line he said. High five to yourself, girl.”

(Ultimately, it doesn’t matter who said it, ’cause they cut that line from the show. I think it’s kinda too bad ’cause it’s a fun line that he delivered well. But for a myriad of reasons, sometimes you gotta lose good stuff in editing. Oh well.)

Anyway, I went back to my seat, next to my dad.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 11 (The Banter)

February 27, 2015

Aurora De Lucia smiling and looking a little confused on Let's Make a Deal
(Credit: CBS/Freemantle)

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

Before we reveal what’s in the envelope (which we already know anyway), let’s talk about the little banter Jonathan and Wayne do with Cat, trying to get him to say “goooold rush” again.

[Note: I drafted this before the episode aired. That whole bit got cut. But basically, Jonathan & Wayne were playing around with the little pieces of themselves at the curtain, trying to get Cat to say “gold rush” again.]

Part of me thought about jumping in and saying “gooooold rush” in the sing-song-y way Jonathan does. Or about maybe just jumping in with Wayne and Jonathan, goading Cat a bit.

But I didn’t, because I didn’t really feel that was my place as a contestant on Let’s Make a Deal.

On The Price is Right, Drew Carey is right there with you, riffing with you. He is so present – with you – in the moment. And it’s perfect and wonderful. And you’re in the moment too, because you’ve been told to be yourself and have a great time.

On Let’s Make a Deal (as I’ve covered), a lot of time is spent telling you how to react, and what to say or not to say. So, you’re already thinking of all sorts of various things while you’re up there – so, you’re maybe not as much in the moment (or at least I wasn’t).

Aurora De Lucia with her hands on her hips looking at Wayne Brady & Jonathan Mangum during Let's Make a Deal
(Credit: CBS/Freemantle)

Also, the dynamic is different on LMAD. On Price, George is around, but he doesn’t figure into the game play quite as much as Jonathan does (or, I mean, he is involved in the games… but maybe it’s that there’s not as much banter between him and Drew). So, it was a different feeling being on Price vs Deal.

It’s like on Price, Drew makes you his co-star. Whereas on Deal, Wayne already has one. So you’re more of a… I don’t want to say guest star, ’cause that ranks above co-star in television. You’re not an extra, ’cause you speak and everything…

Oh my gosh, am I over-explaining or what? I think you get the gist. Basically, they did a bit that went on for a while (which was cut anyway), and I felt awkward standing up there on stage with Wayne’s back to me as they did their bit with each other during my game.

I hope this doesn’t sound like I’m saying anything mean about people on LMAD, ’cause that’s not what I’m trying to do. They all seemed plenty nice and they are funny. They have their own dynamic which I need to respect, and it’s a good show that has its own rhythm and everything.

Aurora De Lucia gritting teeth thinking about whether to take the envelope on Let's Make a Deal
(Credit: CBS/Freemantle)

This is just to say, I didn’t necessarily feel welcomed into playing around with them in the bits. And maybe I wasn’t supposed to!

After all, I’m not as funny as two professional comedians… Or maybe a truly fun person (whether she was professionally funny or not) would’ve jumped in and made herself part of the party… So, maybe it’s all my fault. I dunno.

At the time, I just didn’t want to seem like someone trying too hard, or sticking her head into a bit for no reason if she’s not upping the caliber of the show… (But I also didn’t want to just stand there, ’cause that felt weird too…)

Whatever. (Again, it’s a moot point as it got cut.)

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 10 (Revealing The Diamonds)

February 26, 2015

Aurora De Lucia giving a pouty lip toward Wayne Brady on Let's Make a Deal
(Photo credit: CBS/Freemantle)

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

Wayne reminds me that I lost a trip. I know I’m supposed to be wildly disappointed (and I am). Still, I’ve seen them stop tape for people who aren’t disappointed enough.

So, I lay it on way too thick when I say, “I know!” and give my little pouty lip.

Thank goodness my high school theater teacher wasn’t with me at this taping! She would’ve been all, “What did I teach you?!”

(However, when I watched the show, to me, that reaction surprisingly didn’t come off as too much… After all, it’s a bit of an over-the-top show. Maybe it was okay after all!(?))

Then Wayne reveals the diamonds, and I’m relieved that the prize is what I thought it was. (I think you can read the relief on my face (or at least I can) during the episode.) So, at this point, we know I have a zonk.

When he’s about to reveal what’s in the envelope, he stops to ask, “Why did you choose the envelope?”

Oh Wayne Brady! Please don’t put me on the spot here to try to explain that I thought the taxes wouldn’t be worth it on the diamonds and that those could be blood diamonds (of which I’ll admit I’m pretty uninformed – I just know not to buy diamonds, which isn’t hard since I’m not into them anyway).

Aurora giving a maybe facial expression and hand gesture on Let's Make a Deal
(Photo credit: CBS/Freemantle)

I almost said, “My dad told me to pick the envelope!” But that’s not why I did it. I didn’t want to blame my dad for no reason, and I didn’t want to look like a little girl who can’t make her own decision.

So, instead, I pull some lame half-truth saying I didn’t have my ears pierced. I really don’t have my ears pierced. That part’s true. But of course I had no idea the diamonds would be earrings. I just knew I didn’t want diamonds.

And once that thought came out of my mouth, I was immediately struck with terror, as I knew how serious the producers had been about constantly having an “attitude of gratitude.”

“Please don’t stop the tape and drag me out of here,” I thought. “If you don’t like what I just said, please just edit it out. (In fact, please edit it out anyway, ’cause it sounds dumb.)”

Granted, at that point, all I was “winning” was a zonk. So, I don’t know why I was all that terrified of having it taken away…

I mean, I still think it’s really fun/funny to be zonked. So, I’m kinda glad it happened. Granted, had they dragged me off, the bright side would’ve been that at least I wouldn’t have wasted a game show eligibility year on a zonk…

Aurora giving a little suspicious face on Let's Make a Deal
(Photo credit: CBS/Freemantle)

Anyway, the point is moot because they did not drag me off (though maybe they did secretly cheer in their producer area that someone who slipped up on the attitude of gratitude didn’t win something nice – who knows).

After the diamonds are revealed, it’s time to find out what’s in my envelope (even though we all already know what it is – wah wah).

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 16 (The Thought Test Continues – What Do A Tree And A Fly Have In Common?)

February 25, 2015

Aurora De Lucia tree mapping
Running out of kidney pictures… So, here I am with a tree (since a tree is mentioned).

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

The next part of the test is where he gives me two different things, and I have to say the similarities between them.

First up, a bicycle and a car.

Okay, that seems simple enough. They both have wheels. They both are a mode of transportation. (We could keep going if need be, but that more than covers what he needs.)

Then he asks about the similarities between a tree and a fly. I start with, “Well, they both have things that have grown out of their back/sides – wings on a fly, and branches on a tree.

He asks if there are anymore.

Sure, there must be more. Most open questions like these have tons of possibilities if you think a little deeper… As I’m figuring out what thought process/path I should follow, I ask if there’s an obvious thing I’m missing. He says no, it’s the hardest question he’s asked.

I’m trying to be pretty quick still. So I blurt out, “They both need oxygen to survive.” And then I stop myself. “Or wait… Trees get carbon dioxide. Maybe I don’t understand how plants work…” Then we laugh as he says, “Well, you just corrected yourself. So, yeah, you do.”

Then I said both of their main habitats are outdoors.

(I know they’re both indoors sometimes (e.g. Christmas trees, and flies people swat in the kitchen). But you know, mainly they’re outdoors.)

He said that answer would work. He said technically the answer is they’re both alive. But since I was dancing around it and still found things they had in common, I got a check mark on that one. All right.

Aurora De Lucia looking behind herself while tree mapping
Another tree picture, ’cause why not?

Then it was off to naming stuff. Simple enough.

Name 3 big cities in the US – New York (my favorite one, so of course the one I think of first), L.A. (I mean, we’re right here).

And then my brain is flipping through so many cities. What is technically the next biggest city? For some reason, I felt like it was a cheat or cop out to list yet another city I’d lived in (such as Boston). Although if I did it for the first two, I don’t know why that would’ve been any different.

Also, there were no constraints on the answers. So, I’m sure it would’ve been fine. Nonetheless, I thought, “I gotta get to a non-Aurora city here!” I’m always hearing about how big Texas is, and how it’s often overlooked in the big/cool place category, in favor of California and New York. So, I go for a city in Texas.

(This thought process is happening really fast. Don’t worry. I’m not sitting there with my mouth gaping wide during the time it’s taking me to explain all this to you.) Anyway, I say San Antonio. I ask if that’s big enough. He says definitely.

Later, I looked it up. Chicago would’ve been a better answer with 2.7 million residents. There was even a bigger city within Texas – Houston, with 2.1 million residents. San Antonio has 1.3 million, and is 7th on the list of most populous cities in the U.S. (or at least it was according to the 2010 census).

Anyway, I wasn’t told to list the 3 most populous U.S. cities – just 3 big ones (which I guess could’ve technically been physical land/square miles as well, since that could also mean big – so, conceivably I could’ve had totally different answers).

Anyway, population seemed like a normal way to think about it. And I think listing 3 of the most populous cities within the top 10 of all the bajillions we have in America is fine. Yeah?

This is a little stressful, huh? But it’s almost over – which is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 9 (Awkwardness & Strategy Behind Taking The Envelope)

February 24, 2015

contestant hugging Wayne after winning with Aurora looking on
Thought I was only giving a disappointed vibe in the background… but look at how happy I am for her! Yay! 🙂 (Photo credit: CBS/Freemantle)

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

As you probably know, the box was not a zonk.

To recap: I’d kept the curtain to see what he’d offer next. The other dealer took the box… and got a trip to Mexico!

When it was revealed, I knew that meant my choices were almost certainly one of the mid-level prizes or a zonk. The chances of LMAD trying to outdo a trip to Mexico – on a show that had already had kind of exceptional prizes – was so slim.

I definitely reacted with disappointment. My first instinct was to sit down as I felt the weight of my mistake. But there wasn’t a ton of room, and I didn’t want to accidentally trip over anyone as I fell to the ground. I also was just so unsure where to be for the best composition for their shot.

Was I supposed to get to the other side of Wayne Brady so the camera had just the two of them (him and the contestant) cleanly? I was afraid to move to his other side without being told to. I probably should’ve countered. I just didn’t know what was appropriate in this situation!

So, I stayed put. And then I felt a little self-conscious about making my disappointed face. They’d given us the whole spiel about how if we pass up something good, we’re supposed to look disappointed – and I was. But was that ruining the happy mood she was giving?

I did not realize how stressful it was to be down there with a second person! I was pretty clueless on what to do.

Another shot of Aurora De Lucia talking with her hands on Let's Make a Deal
(Photo credit: CBS/Freemantle)

But that was over soon, and she went back to her seat.

(Thankfully they got a good shot of her happiness that didn’t include disappointed me. Props to the Let’s Make a Deal crew!)

At that point, I knew “on the rocks” almost certainly meant diamonds. Or much less likely, it was some rock-themed zonk. They use that clue for diamonds all the time. I figured diamonds would be in the mini-curtain and a zonk would be in the envelope.

Therefore, I had to go for the envelope! If there were indeed diamonds behind the curtain, I wanted to avoid them. After the taxes you’d have to pay on them, and their not fabulous resale value, I’d make practically nothing. I don’t wear diamonds (for fear of them being blood diamonds, plus I’m not all that fancy…).

If you get zonked –
a) You get the fun story of the dichotomy of “I won a car on The Price is Right. And then I got zonked on Let’s Make a Deal. How fun, huh?”
b) *Most importantly* – If you get zonked, you get a chance to possibly come back for Zonk Redemption! Zonk Redemption is the best Let’s Make a Deal episode of the season (aside from maybe Big Money Week). So, to go to Zonk Redemption would be incredible.

Aurora about to see her prize revealed on Let's Make a Deal
(Photo credit: CBS/Freemantle)

In my opinion, a zonk is better than diamond earrings for sure. Now, for someone who absolutely loves jewelry, and/or someone who does not live 20 minutes away and couldn’t easily come to Zonk Redemption – it might behoove them to play differently. But for me, that was what made the most sense.

So, I took the envelope. And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 8 (The Goal To Stay ‘Til The End Of The Deal)

February 23, 2015

Aurora De Lucia giving a little laugh on Let's Make a Deal
(Photo credit: CBS/Freemantle)

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

Once I got down there and I was with another person, I tried to figure out what game this was.

I thought it might be the one where one of us is in charge. Then the other person is. And then you get to make your own deals at the end. But it wasn’t that game.

From the beginning, Wayne said we could make our own deals, and we could each make the same decision if we wanted. Even as someone who watches the show a lot, I don’t know what game set-up this is. I don’t really understand how having two people affects this game in any way… But I’ll go along with it (of course I will, as it’s their house; I’m just playing in it).

Wayne also said, “Once you pick something, you’re done. You take whatever it is, and you sit down.”

It was because of that, that I chose to stick with the mini-curtain.

I figured most deals end with the best prize or the zonk. (That’s not always how it is, of course. But often, for good TV, the deals have at least one dramatic possibility at the end.)

Aurora on Let's Make a Deal
How quickly laughter turns a little serious! (Photo credit: CBS/Freemantle)

As far as I can tell, deals don’t often end on the middling prize. (Though I guess sometimes they do after you dodge a zonk, as could’ve happened in my case.) Anyway, moving on…

I wanted to stick it out to the end of the deal, and get something great or get zonked.

When Wayne asks if I want the small box, there’s a tiny piece of me who thinks I should take it. A little earlier, my dad had mentioned the small box had been seen two times before with decent prizes in it.

My dad’s (and my) favorite number is 3. Since this was the 3rd time the box showed up, I thought about taking it.

But I never play that way when I play along at home. I always look at each individual deal within itself – not what was in this or that box earlier. (And I think that is indeed the correct way to play.)

Aurora De Lucia giving a little claw hand as she talks out box vs mini-curtain on Let's Make a Deal
(Photo credit: CBS/Freemantle)

So, if I’d changed my strategy purely because my dad was there, and then lost on something, I wouldn’t have been happy.

I had to use the best strategy possible with such little information available to me. And the best strategy I knew was to stick around ’til the end of the deal.

My hope was that the box would be a zonk, and then whatever the 3rd option was would be a great prize.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 15 (A Memory Test)

February 22, 2015

Aurora in high school giving a driven look
I kinda like this old driven picture of me (from a show in high school), and thought I could use it for this post’s feeling of “Bring this test on!”

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

So, we get into part 3 – the best part – a test of my memory, attention, and concentration. When he tells me it’s time for a memory/concentration test, I immediately sit up taller, and my eyes get sort of intense.

I am always down to play games! And I play to win. Bring it on.

He can see my intensity in my eyes. He sees my total physical change when a competition’s on the line. He makes some sweet, fun joke about my competitive personality shining through. I didn’t even realize how intense I was in body posture and facial expressions, until he mentioned it. We both yet again had a little laugh. (This was the best part of the day!)

I also was slightly nervous because I know your response time and clarity of thought is lower when you haven’t slept well. Since I didn’t sleep much, I knew I had to give this everything I had, and hope for the best.

He says he’s gonna give me 3 words, and then he’s gonna distract me.

I try to put them together in my brain so I’ll remember them as one chunk. Open your book in half, and face it down (like a triangle), put a little toy car underneath it. Boom. You have a book housing a car.

Celia Keenan-Bolger in Spelling Bee
I don’t have pic from my spelling bee. So, here’s one from my favorite musical – The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee. (Credit: Broadway.com)

Maybe that’s a little too convoluted. I had some other visual options too. I also repeated the words “book, house, car” a few times in my head. Sometimes I’d silently repeat them between questions if there was time. I just wanted at least one visual reference in my mind as a backup, in case I couldn’t remember the words.

So, book, house, car.

He starts out simple, just asking me to spell. Okay, simple enough. I get the word “world.” (I was my middle school spelling bee champ; I can handle w-o-r-l-d.)

Then he asks me to spell “world” backwards. Okay, that’s a little trickier because you want to be absolutely certain you don’t mix-up or skip any letters… But you don’t want to go too slowly. So, in a somewhat quick manner, I whip out d-l-r-o-w.

Next up, it’s time to explain some idioms. (e.g. “Don’t cry over spilled milk.” “People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.”) I found it surprisingly hard in the moment not to use more idioms to explain idioms. But I just stayed as calm as I could, trying to explain what the phrases meant.

He took all my answers with no qualms, so they must have been at least pretty okay.

And we’ll pick up with more of the test next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 7 (I Always Feel Like Somebody’s Watching Me)

February 21, 2015

Aurora and Sharmine, her new friend on Let's Make a Deal listen to information on the deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

At the top of the final commercial break, we were told that next up was the last deal before the Big Deal.

This was it. Do or die time.

I’m in the best costume I can think of, and gave the best interview I could. I won the hat during the break. I’m dancing in every break as though there’s no tomorrow. Yet I’m not sure anyone’s even noticing I’m alive.

“Is this just not my show?” I wonder. “Am I not as fun as I think I am? Do the people on Let’s Make a Deal just not like me?…”

Then, as these thoughts are swirling in my head, with really the main idea being, “What am I doing wrong; why am I inadequate?!” a camera turned directly on me. And I danced and my little heart out!

I wondered if perhaps the camera was on someone else (or if maybe I was just imagining things). But then, an audience member with a huge headpiece on her costume drifted in front of me, in the camera’s line of sight, as she danced. The camera moved to counter, and it honed right back in on me.

Once that happened, I knew someone must be [*in Rockewell/Michael Jackson inflection*] watching me. So, I daaaaance and dance, smiling so hard I think my cheeks might explode.

The music settled, people sat, and we came back for the last regular deal.

I almost whisper to my dad, “I’m pretty sure I’m up next.” But, I didn’t want to be that obnoxious (especially since they were watching me). Sure enough, I get called.

Aurora De Lucia gives a little smile and shrug while on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

So, I run over there. I think about giving my dad a hug on my way, but instead I do some weird high-five/hand-holding thing. I thought it might look weird if I bent down for a hug, though I think it would’ve been fine… (Plus, how weird did that awkward high-five look?)

And there was time since Wayne was picking another girl as well. But whatever, no need to overthink it. (There are too many other things to overthink… I hug my dad all the time. Time to let this one go.)

So, I get down there with Wayne and the other contestant.

When I see Wayne, I lamely say, “Nice to meet you.” One of the many cool things Drew Carey does, is he always says, “Nice to see you” instead of “meet you” (in case he’s met you somewhere before). (Also, it just sounds nicer in my opinion.)

I have tried to implement that in my life. Yet, on national TV, I come out with, “Nice to meet you.” I think I may have technically met Wayne at my friend’s improv show (that Wayne was in) one night.

If I did meet him, it was one of those super fast, sort of barely say hi, because you happen to be in two melding groups in a hallway where some people know each other and some don’t type of things – which is why neither of us would remember it. I know we’ve never been formally introduced. So even if we were in the same talking circle, we didn’t technically officially meet.

(Ugh, this story, right? How do you not know if you’ve met Wayne Brady? But that’s why you always say nice to see you – not meet you!)

So, already the first words out of my mouth, and I’m already acting like a fool. But no matter. Let that go, ’cause it’s time to play.

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 6 (I Won A Hat!)

February 20, 2015

Aurora De Lucia wears her Let's Make a Deal hat and holds up her check from her zonk
Spoiler alert: I’m holding the check I got in the mail (and wearing my cool hat!)

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

Even if I was slightly jealous – or not even jealous, so much as just judging myself, wondering what I’m doing wrong if all these other people in my life are getting on the show – I was still having a great time.

During one of the commercial breaks, Jonathan Mangum brings out this Let’s Make a Deal hat, saying “Who wants a hat?” And he tapped it on Wayne Brady’s head as he was saying, ” – touched by Wayne Brady! It goes to the first person who can tell me 5 shows he’s been on.”

I lean over to my dad. “We know 5 shows Wayne Brady’s been on, right?” My dad seems a little unsure. I think I know 5, but I’m not incredibly confident. As we mull over whether to volunteer, Jonathan Mangum drops it to 4 shows. I leap out of my chair, and raise my hand.

Let’s Make a Deal, How I Met Your Mother, Who’s Line it is Anyway? and The Drew Carey Show.” Bam. That hat is mine!

The 5th one I was thinking of was The Wayne Brady Show, but I didn’t totally remember if that was a real show, or something I made up in my head. (It is real, if you’re wondering.)

At the end of the commercial break, Wayne walked out looking at his phone, as though he was reading off it, listing his credits. He said something like, “Over 100 credits on IMDb, and y’all can’t list 5?” Funny.

I figured winning the hat could only help my chances. I don’t know if the games during the commercial breaks have anything to do with anything. I just know that a girl who talked to Drew Carey during a commercial at my Price is Right taping got called up to be a contestant.

Aurora De Lucia looking down a little while laughing
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

And a girl who participated in a mini dance competition during the commercial break the last time I was at Deal, also got to be a contestant. So, I thought it was good to get the hat.

Before the show, the people who give the various Let’s Make a Deal talks say that they’re watching you. They say they’ll look at you before they’re about to call you – and if you’ve lost energy, they won’t call you after all.

They really try to scare the energy into you (and they do a great job, as the audience is consistently going nuts).

Since we’re over to the side, we can easily tell when cameras are on us – and when they’re not. I thought either the LMAD producers don’t actually watch you, or they have no interest – at all – in me and my dad.

We were so not being watched. During commercial breaks, you can see the camera operators move and point the camera at various areas, but never ours.

And then, we got to the final commercial break – which is where I’ll pick up next time.

My Day As A “Let’s Make a Deal” Contestant – Part 5 (Being Seated, And Being Maybe Slightly Jealous As The Show Goes On…)

February 19, 2015

Aurora and her new contestant partner on Let's Make a Deal paying close attention
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

(Missed any part? Here’s the whole series.)

Picking up from last time

After we take the greenscreen photo, I turn in my phone and my dad and I just enjoy life and each other’s company for a bit until the pre-show speeches start.

(They’re the same as the first time I went to Let’s Make a Deal.)

After that, people are brought into the studio in numerical order (using the numbers you’re given when you get there). However, they let anyone who has trouble using stairs go in first.

As I mentioned, my dad had a knee brace (as he’d be having knee surgery when he got home from this trip). So, we got to go with that group.

In order to avoid as many stairs as possible, the Let’s Make a Deal team brings that group in around the set – which means we pass the producer section with the director chairs set-up and the many monitors they use lining the wall. It was a pretty cool thing to pass.

“Why did I have to turn in my phone?!” I wailed in my head, as it would’ve been a cool behind-the-scenes shot – had I been allowed to take it… Wah, wah. (Sorry, y’all.)

Aurora squints a little and makes a little clawhand looking in the distance on Let's Make a Deal
Credit: CBS/Freemantle

We were seated just a few rows up – very close to Jonathan Mangum. It was similar seating to where I’d sat at Price is Right. I even leaned over to my dad and said, “At Price is Right, I sat by George Gray. I wonder if this is a good sign!”

We enjoyed the show, playing along with the games. It was a great episode, with tons of great prizes.

I was a little jealous of people playing for prizes I wanted. There was a trip to Australia. There was also a home gym plus cash in another game! There was a selfish part of me that started wondering a little, “Why do they not think I’m cute enough to play The Dealing Game?”

I know it’s so presumptuous to go to LMAD assuming you should be picked… Maybe I’m slightly spoiled, ’cause I was picked on my first time at Price. Also, I’ve had at least 5 people I know go to Let’s Make a Deal and get picked! So, when I see all these people around me (in my life) getting picked, I kind of assume it must be easy.

Of course, neither Jaime nor B got picked when we went (which really perplexed me).

When I came back, I brought another exceptional game show partner. I had a good costume. I had a nice interview. I thought I learned from my first experience, and that I did everything to the best of my ability. But the show kept on going with no one even looking anywhere near us…

And this is where I’ll pick up next time.

That Time I (Maybe?) Gave Away A Kidney – Part 14 (The Psychiatrist Looks Into The Likelihood Of A Good Outcome)

February 18, 2015

Aurora De Lucia pulling a weighted bag during an obstacle at the Spartan trifecta-in-a-day
While we’re talking about exercise and such… how ’bout some pictures of that?

Time for another installment of this Wednesday/Sunday night series!

Picking up from last time

While on informed consent, we talk about ways in which kidney donation might affect my life.

When we talk about intense contact sports (such as MMA fighting – which I’ve never done but is brought up because they recommend you don’t do that after kidney donation surgery), the psychiatrist happened to mention that he thought I had a sweet temperament.

That’s awesome. I was worried I might come across cranky (or disengaged)!

As you know, I’m so very tired at this point, being that I barely slept the night before (and had just come from an hour-long meeting with the social worker, where my brain was working overtime). So, the fact that I’m coming off as sweet and hopefully fun (since we’re laughing and having a good time) makes me so, oh so, happy.

We talk some more about how giving a kidney might affect my life in small ways. He reiterates I can’t have any NSAIDs. I don’t think that’ll be a big deal as I never take medicine for anything, unless it’s prescribed by a doctor.

Aurora De Lucia posing at the end of the LA Marathon
From the LA Marathon

He tells me that just means I’ll always have to tell any new doctors that I can’t have NSAIDs. Okay, simple enough.

He also says a key to doing well after kidney surgery is to “learn to love your local gym.” He says cardio has to be a part of my life forever. Cool. No problems there! (I love running, and do at least one marathon every year.)

He also says the patients who do best make sure to see a doctor once a year for the rest of their lives. Okay, that doesn’t sound too terribly hard.

We pass through the informed consent part with nary a hiccup. So, off we went to the second thing he wanted to talk about – good outcomes. He basically just wanted to know if I had any mental issues that might affect my ability to have a good outcome.

He asked if I’d ever been in a psychiatric hospital, had panic attacks, heard voices, been suicidal – that kind of stuff.

He asked if I ever had any problems with alcohol, tobacco, or drugs.

Aurora posing bleary eyes with some Star Wars vitamins
Posing with some of my vitamins, all bleary-eyed bright and early before the Star Wars Half Marathon

Side note: Both he and the social worker asked if I’d ever done drugs. I said no. They both followed up with, “not even pot?” And each time we shared this fun little embarrassing moment like, “I live in California… I think I’m the only person who hasn’t done pot. What a lame little goodie two shoes I am, huh?” But then we all had a grand, fun little laugh about it.

I can’t believe I’m really gonna say this, but I had such a great day being interviewed by both mental health professionals.

Anyway, so we’re talking about my habits and such. He asks if I take any medications. I say I take Flintones iron vitamins, if that counts. (And you can see my Star Wars multi-vitamins in the picture next to this.) Then we had yet another laugh, as he said I reminded him of his kids.

Oh what a grand time we’re having! And it’s only about to get better.

He says, “Let’s move on to the last part, as you’re way too healthy to be talking to me.”

And this is where I’ll pick up next time!